The Friendzone vol r/niceguy

Legalsole said:
Mark Antony said:
Dudes are just a part of this instant gratification culture, so they've never experienced the surprise poom poom from a long time homie.
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The problem with this advice, is most guys will wait around and not pursue other females.
Or not be as aggressive pursuing other females because they have a "friend" they are working on.
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I'm not sure how you got this from that. You basically live your life, pursuing your own romantic interests, but be cordial to the women who are already acquaintances that either she hits you up from time to time, you hit her up from time to time. They really become casual homies. You're doing 0 work here. Just don't take her not messing with you at that moment personally. You neither waste your time, nor keep pining.
 
Gentrification said:
 
A lot of broads don't "talk" on the phone. Calling for sure is the best way, but now a days...
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That's a big problem, IMO.

If they don't have good conversational skills...

...But they still nice to look at.
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Gentrification said:
A lot of broads don't "talk" on the phone. Calling for sure is the best way, but now a days...
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As ridiculous as this seems, it's true. I just got out of a year long relationship a couple months ago with a 21 year old (I'm 25). I used to call her for whatever reason and she would get so irritated. I didn't understand. I would call her and she'd ignore it then text me immediately, "you know you have to text me first before you call me". And here I am like, "you could've just answered your phone and said you can't talk right now, text me." Her response was, "no, I'm not always available on a whim and you can't just call me like that." This was a loyal girl who I trusted completely too so it's not like she was being sketchy. Most girls these days just refuse to talk on the phone. Texting has taken over.

Also, if y'all have an iPhone and don't use read receipts you should start using them.

But back to the topic... "Nice guys" who go out of their way to do things for women and get frustrated when they don't get any love in return... NO ONE OWES YOU ANYTHING IN LIFE! Do what you do because it's what you want to do, not because you think it's what someone else wants or because you expect to get something out of it.
 
Hennessy said:
Gentrification said:
A lot of broads don't "talk" on the phone. Calling for sure is the best way, but now a days...
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As ridiculous as this seems, it's true. I just got out of a year long relationship a couple months ago with a 21 year old (I'm 25). I used to call her for whatever reason and she would get so irritated. I didn't understand. I would call her and she'd ignore it then text me immediately, "you know you have to text me first before you call me". And here I am like, "you could've just answered your phone and said you can't talk right now, text me." Her response was, "no, I'm not always available on a whim and you can't just call me like that." This was a loyal girl who I trusted completely too so it's not like she was being sketchy. Most girls these days just refuse to talk on the phone. Texting has taken over.

Also, if y'all have an iPhone and don't use read receipts you should start using them.

But back to the topic... "Nice guys" who go out of their way to do things for women and get frustrated when they don't get any love in return... NO ONE OWES YOU ANYTHING IN LIFE! Do what you do because it's what you want to do, not because you think it's what someone else wants or because you expect to get something out of it.
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Explain this
 
jdfrenchbread23 said:
7Jordan7 said:
on a scale of 1-10 how important is being good looking in grabbing broads?
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5 i'd say.

 
but "being good looking" is more than just your face. its how youre groomed, how you dress, how you carry yourself. which can be different depending on the kind of girl you want to attract
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Tr1ll said:
Women like men.

As long as you show attributes of a man, you'l attract women, no matter what you look like.
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facts. unless the chick is super shallow, pure physical appearance (height, weight, face) arent that significant
 
I've been in the zone twice in my life (as far as chicks i wanted to mess with) and I over came both.

Eventually I just came out and let them know what I was trying to do. Also, as someone else mentioned, soon as one of the chicks saw me pull a chick at a bar and found out one of her friends was on me she switched up. Got the yambs the very next time I saw her :pimp:

On a delated note, i ran into a girl over the weekend who told me her cousin thinks i put her in the friendzone :lol: I took her down once and would do so again so idk where she got that idea from.
 
I used to have a real problem with getting "friendzoned" And I didn't know why, it's literally confidence. I took some time to start talking to this girl who I was really indifferent towards, I tested what works and what doesn't.

I haven't chased a girl in... a long *** time.

Get ya confidence up boys, girls know what ***** looks like, they got one
 
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Do girls experience this friendzone concept or do they just think they're ugly if a male friend isn't into them physically?
 
shogun said:
Do girls experience this friendzone concept or do they just think they're ugly if a male friend isn't into them physically?
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That girl gotta look down right terrible, cause ****** would slay just about anything
 
erupt107th said:
I've been in the zone twice in my life (as far as chicks i wanted to mess with) and I over came both.

Eventually I just came out and let them know what I was trying to do. Also, as someone else mentioned, soon as one of the chicks saw me pull a chick at a bar and found out one of her friends was on me she switched up. Got the yambs the very next time I saw her :pimp:

On a delated note, i ran into a girl over the weekend who told me her cousin thinks i put her in the friendzone :lol: I took her down once and would do so again so idk where she got that idea from.
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She got smashed and dash confused with friendzone

Most people get the lingo confused.

She probably thought you guys were going to date after you had sex.
 
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Gentrification said:
A lot of broads don't "talk" on the phone. Calling for sure is the best way, but now a days...
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Yeah a majority of chicks don't talk on the phone anymore. They don't like to have real conversations on the phone. They rather me text them and then meet up with them in person. Now when you have a girlfriend thats a different situation.
 
I usually friendz0wn them first. Which basically means I'm not calling you/texting you and hit me up when you figure it out.

Meanwhile got them sweating. Sometimes you never hear from them again but that's rare and doesn't matter anyway.
 
There's a girl I'm friends with who I may or may not be friendzoned, butI haven't really pursued anything, so she might think she's friendzoned too :rofl:

We have a few events planned for next month though, so I'm just playing it cool and not really texting her. Stop checking her snaps too, last night she sent me one directly, probably cuz I stopped looking at her story :lol:

Makes me laugh how fickle things like that can be.
 
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