Child Support Makes No Sense!

ksteezy said:
Bro I hate to ask, but why not 1 but 2 kids with the same broad if she's such a lowlife?...obviously your bro dug his own grave here man...
Click to expand...
Maybe when he had the first he was tryna do the right thing and stick by her no matter what
 
KingKoopa said:
That's not what this thread is about though.

There is no separation between a deadbeat and a involved father in the eyes of the court.

That's the issue.
Click to expand...

Explain how you being a stand up dad with proof and a lawyer can't protect yourself?...

There may not be any separation from a DB and an absent dad in the court, but an involved dad financially and emotionally will not be smacked with CS that easy....specially if you lawyer up.
 
ksteezy said:
Nah bro.....people change but you should be smart as man to make the right choices to the best of your ability....start by not planting a seed in some trifling Thot, which is what must these dudes getting screwed have done, second don't be a deadbeat yourself, which a lot of these dudes on CS are to begin with, then there are marriages that crumble and at one point you were both very in love and started a family, these are not such common cases in CS battles, but they do happen I'm sure...in these cases be smart and responsible and although a court favors the mother, the court won't stick it in you if you have proof you've been there for yours from the jump and the mother if she's a good person you once loved, no matter how much she hates your guts now I'm sure she won't use your seed as a tool to screw you...I can say this with all honesty about my wife and I know for a fact I'm not the only one, wisen up fellas....find yourself a good woman.

People no longer believe in long term commitments, that's why we have this issue...of both men and women were committed enough to their family, this **** wouldn't be ruining so many lives.
Click to expand...
LIES!
 
KingKoopa said:
 
It's literally encouraging replacing black fathers and destroying black homes and they don't see it 
eek.gif


**** is too genius.

They really despise the black man.
Click to expand...
Netflix

The Pruit-Igoe Myth

It touches on the start of that and the WelFare system
 
ksteezy said:
Explain how you being a stand up dad with proof and a lawyer can't protect yourself?...

There may not be any separation from a DB and an absent dad in the court, but an involved dad financially and emotionally will not be smacked with CS that easy....specially if you lawyer up.
Click to expand...
 Dog I know for a fact and it's been plenty of people in this thread on CS that can vouch for this.

It's a set formula in Ohio.

Only thing that matters is health insurance.

Look through the thread before you pull my card lil bruh.
 
Not even why anyone would get in a family discussion with @ksteezy  because he lives in a fantasy world. Completely different outlook on life
 
KingKoopa said:
 Dog I know for a fact and it's been plenty of people in this thread on CS that can vouch for this.

It's a set formula in Ohio.

Only thing that matters is health insurance.

Look through the thread before you pull my card lil bruh.
Click to expand...

If I'm the head of household in my marriage, health insurance policy holder, have proof that financially I cater for both my wife and child, our relationship crumbles for unknown reasons, the woman I love wants to part ways and take my child, the child I've cared for since birth financially and emotionally as I should have as the father, she can just do it with that ease?....just walk into family court and the judge will throw the book on me just like that?...

Ohio takes another L I guess.
 
DCAllAmerican said:
Not even why anyone would get in a family discussion with @ksteezy
 because he lives in a fantasy world. Completely different outlook on life
Click to expand...

Aware me of this fantasy world?....lmao

The only reality I've come to know specially on NT is that a lot of dudes have a problem with assuming responsibility, SPECIALLY when it comes to this topic.

One of my boys baby moms TRIED to take dude through CS, she almost lost joint custody of her seed....because dude lawyered up and was smart and had proof.
 
Man every damn conversation you have that relates to your family is painted with rosy colors. I mean look at what you are saying in here, it just seems to me that you don't have any touch with reality. You just live in your perfect bubble of love
 
DCAllAmerican said:
Man every damn conversation you have that relates to your family is painted with rosy colors. I mean look at what you are saying in here, it just seems to me that you don't have any touch with reality. You just live in your perfect bubble of love
Click to expand...

Maybe you dudes should take notes then....since my life is so perfect :lol:
 
ksteezy said:
Lulz a long term commitment to a woman and love is unrealistic?...well I'll be damb.

You guys have a very grim outlook on life.
Click to expand...
Nah we just have a realistic outlook. You just paint stuff as if it is perfect all the damn time. But you got it.
 
DCAllAmerican said:
Nah we just have a realistic outlook. You just paint stuff as if it is perfect all the damn time. But you got it.
Click to expand...

Nah bro, YOU decided to paint my life as if it was perfect, not me....my marriage and life is far from perfect....but **** thank you bro, I'm flattered you think my life is so peachy is unrealistic :rofl:
 
American Family law is super outdated.

We as men need to work to change the laws but that will never happen because the dudes who are currently married it doesn't affect them much...so they arent inclined to help.
 
Last edited:
Here is the thing I don't understand about some of you guys....

If you committed and in love enough to plant 1,2,3 seeds in a woman, what's stopping you from going the extra mile and marrying the woman...you already dove head first down the rabbit hole because to be honest having a child with a woman is far more committing than declaring your love in front of God or a Judge...like son...you just made another person with that woman....meanwhile nahhhhh Marriage is too much....some of you guys are so backwards...lol
 
ksteezy said:
Here is the thing I don't understand about some of you guys....

If you committed and in love enough to plant 1,2,3 seeds in a woman, what's stopping you from going the extra mile and marrying the woman...you already dove head first down the rabbit hole because to be honest having a child with a woman is far more committing than declaring your love in front of God or a Judge...like son...you just made another person with that woman....meanwhile nahhhhh Marriage is too much....some of you guys are so backwards...lol
Click to expand...
Another example of you being so judgemental 
 
DCAllAmerican said:
Another example of you being so judgemental 
Click to expand...

Oh quit being so sensitive...I would legit like to know the thought process...

Marriage I can walk out of if I chose to, worst case scenario she takes half, money is the only thing she can screw me with.

Having a child with a woman, you simply can't walk out on, if you do you a deadbeat and deserve everything bad that can happen to you, if you are not according to you fellas, the woman got you by the balls regardless, yet according to some of you marriage is far more taboo than having a child.
 
FlyNY said:
There's too many baby mothers and not enough wives
Too many baby fathers and not enough husbands

OP have your brother take the girl to court. Show the judge the receipts

If it comes down to it, find a way to prove that she isn't capable of mothering a child. Label her an alcoholic
Click to expand...
This. Dudes out here hitting up some broads raw and having mistake babies. :x
 
Yo I'm on cs right now b. **** ain't no joke. 410 a month. Can barely hold it down since my landlord raised the rent by 50 bucks. Keep a paper trail. All that other ish will be considered a gift trust. Mind you... I have to provide insurance as well. System ain't for us. I even downloaded a deposit sheet and adjusted it so I could come out lower. Changed my rate etc...

Be careful with these yams yo. They will **** your over even if you think everything is goody. Crazy out here in Cincinnati
 
U asked my moms why she never put my pops on cs. When they met my pops was s spoiled dude who got whatever he want, good job no kids and she was an unemployed mother of 2 so she could've feasted and sucked him dry. She straight up told me like yo sister pops was a dead beat that's who needs child support, if she told my pops I needed 1 box of diapers he'd bring 5, a pair of kicks, I'd get 3 etc. Then he also took me thurs-sun and in the summer. All in all she was a real straight up chick. When I got my bm pregnant we had a talk about this situation and she said shed never do it unless I deserved it and didn't hold up my end. My moms and granny had a long talk with her while she was pregnant so if it doesn't work out I think I'm in the clear.
 
Willchamberlain said:
U asked my moms why she never put my pops on cs. When they met my pops was s spoiled dude who got whatever he want, good job no kids and she was an unemployed mother of 2 so she could've feasted and sucked him dry. She straight up told me like yo sister pops was a dead beat that's who needs child support, if she told my pops I needed 1 box of diapers he'd bring 5, a pair of kicks, I'd get 3 etc. Then he also took me thurs-sun and in the summer. All in all she was a real straight up chick. When I got my bm pregnant we had a talk about this situation and she said shed never do it unless I deserved it and didn't hold up my end. My moms and granny had a long talk with her while she was pregnant so if it doesn't work out I think I'm in the clear.
Click to expand...

That's what I'm talking about, if you a good dude, it takes a real **** woman to flip the script and **** on your life with CS....if she has the heart to screw over a dude that stood up for his and looked out for her, then she was a **** person all along and you simply failed to see that, which in turn ends up being an L on your part as a man for going balls deep with her in the first place.

By being a good dude I also mean being good to her, if you cheat, get caught, ruin the marriage/relationship, she hits you with CS that's on you as well....call it even.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Similar threads

B
Black woman calls cops only to be killed by cops.
Replies
11
Views
2K
1995
1995

The ultimate sneaker enthusiast community.

NikeTalk was created as a way of giving back to both the sneaker enthusiast community and to the greater global community of which we are all a part.

NikeTalk is NOT affiliated with Nike Inc. in any way, shape, or form. All opinions expressed herein do not necessarily reflect those of Nike, Inc.

© 1999-2024 NikeTalk.com

Share this page

Back
Top Bottom