Is it normal for a guy to feel "Low" when they're in a relationship with a girl that makes waaay mor

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Just something that I was just recently thinking about. A lady that you like or in a relationship with makes 3 times more money then you per year. Is it the norm for the guy to feel ''less superior'' because he isn't in the same status as his lady?
 
Why would it? Money doesn't equate to status, your character does. That's just some old fashioned horsecrap that only neanderthals still subscribe to. If you're doing something you enjoy that's all that matters.
 
I don't think you'd want to be with her if you think she'd use that against you fam. It is really about perspective too IMO, you could use that as motivation to go harder and work on getting more $$ for yourself if it's that deep.
 
Any dude that claims it doesn't bother him AT ALL, is a damn liar. Like I said in the other thread, Male Utility is a hell of a thing. As men, we feel that if we aren't needed that we are basically useless. That is how we are wired. So if a dude feels less of a man because his woman makes more, I completely understand
 
As long as you hittin it right, nothing else matters bruh.
She can make all the money she want but she will know you
are priceless.
 
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already posted, but this goes to show that women dont really care...this guy is "homeless" and getting with wimmenz that probably make 5x as much as he does...you're good with nothing more than hard richard and bubblegum, passion is more important than dedication...

 
 
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It's all fun and games until yall get into an argument and she whips out the "who pay da bills round dis *****" line


Would lol so hard in this situation.


I don't think you'd want to be with her if you think she'd use that against you fam. It is really about perspective too IMO, you could use that as motivation to go harder and work on getting more $$ for yourself if it's that deep.


You smart.
 
Nah. I dont attach my self worth to my income. Im not her piggy bank and if she's a quality woman she won't see you as one.

She wants your company. Give that to her if you feel inclined to do so.
 
Any dude that claims it doesn't bother him AT ALL, is a damn liar. Like I said in the other thread, Male Utility is a hell of a thing. As men, we feel that if we aren't needed that we are basically useless. That is how we are wired. So if a dude feels less of a man because his woman makes more, I completely understand
"As men, we feel that if we aren't needed that we are basically useless. That is how we are wired" weebay.gif So you ARE a man. :lol:
 
"As men, we feel that if we aren't needed that we are basically useless. That is how we are wired" weebay.gif So you ARE a man.
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EYE never said otherwise..............
 
most of the women I know making decent money are with guys who make way less. 
 
lmfao! But, seriously, some women can use that against you, though.
As long you don't commit to her, it won't be a problem bro, but don't get too comfortable, from my past experience, woman won't show you their bad side at the start of a relationship because she will fear to lose you, so she will do everything to put you in a comfortable seat, once you're committed to her will be this moment where you'll start to see the real her. 
 
What does she do, and why is she with you?

Serious question. You must have stuff in common
 
As opposed to being in a relationship with a bum *** chick whose only aspirations are to get likes and followers?
A chick who every time i turn around, is looking for me to buy her something or pay a bill for her?

This is a no brainer

Chick with her own money >>>>> Chick who makes 3 times less than you

As long as you got your own money, car, house and take care of yourself so she cant pull the "Who pays the bill" BS, its a win win situation IMO.

I wonder if you were Scott Disick would you care?
 
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Nah I'll take that easyyyyyyy. Especially if I want to be with her long term (marriage & kids)

It's all about those 401Ks man.
 
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