See I'm having that issue with my girl about who to invite
I only want up to around 80 people
And I only want important people to us and our lives to share this moment with
She tryna invite her cousins cousins sister from the Philippines
She understands where I'm coming from
But her issue is just narrowing her list
She has like big family
Me I have one too
But all them ****** ain't worth paying for at Disneyland
Oh she's Filipino? Then good luck with that!
My wife has a huge family compared to mine and we kept it strictly to 1st cousins, their parents, Godparents that kept in-touch with the family, and a handful of close family friends and that was it. Majority of our guestlist was our family and our friends were part of our wedding or one or two tables of them.
You have every right to only want important people to you guys to share your special day. And hell no, they ain't worth being invited to go, especially if the wedding is at Disneyland.
Just continue to communicate with your fiance on the guest list, because I don't think a 2nd or 3rd cousin should be invited, unless they're close.
Don't forget to have Lechon at the wedding. I'm Filipino and I learned that a Lechon was 'needed' at the wedding.
The one thing I hated about planning the wedding with my wife was all the traditional expectations/demands my in-laws had. Terrible.