The Casual Racism I Deal with as an Asian Woman in an Interracial Relationship

Nawzlew said:
nah but korean girls be crazy
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Maybe it's just me but have been told and see Asian say sorry i usually on talk to Asian or white guys liquor really brings out the worst in people. Or maybe that's just there preference I just keep it moving
 
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airedweezy said:
I'm I the only one that feels Asian women are more racist than white women??
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I can't speak for a lot of places, but most New York white women under 40 aren't really racist. It's more or less that they truly don't know how to respond, or how open they can be with people of different backgrounds. 


It's really scary here in New York how obsequious Asian women are, it's infuriating almost. They will deliberately snub you until they witness white people accepting you. You can be a cool guy, but until a white man gives you a high five or an attractive white woman hugs you in public Asian women will almost certainly snub you.

It's maddening and perpetual ignorance.
 
ElecRelaxation said:
 
I don't think anything of interracial relationships except Asian/White couples. Everytime I've seen it there's an element of self hate in it from the Asian side. It's not just girls though. I see a lot of Asian guys hype up getting white women like it's an accomplishment.
 

Not that I'm going to immediately assume you're that type if I see it, but I'll be lowkey judging you.
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This.

Not to mention most dudes want an asian women because they see them as "submissive." 
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also, asian women who are white washed 
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freedmind2015 said:
 
I can't speak for a lot of places, but most New York white women under 40 aren't really racist. It's more or less that they truly don't know how to respond, or how open they can be with people of different backgrounds. 


It's really scary here in New York how obsequious Asian women are, it's infuriating almost. They will deliberately snub you until they witness white people accepting you. You can be a cool guy, but until a white man gives you a high five or an attractive white woman hugs you in public Asian women will almost certainly snub you.

It's maddening and perpetual ignorance.
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Stay away from them broads b. they dont give a **** about who they are as long as white people acknowledge them.
 
asian girls and white guys are probably the weirdest relationships to me.

everything else imo is beautiful, the chick is with the guy so she can be part of white society and hopefully get a "good" man that makes her look good.

then the white dude gets to tell his boys he's plowing the rice fields and gets to live out his porn fantasy and actually see if its really sideways.

its always some dude in boat shoes and those chubbies shorts, those type of relationships looked mad forced to me.

again this is my ignorant opinion, not racist just observant and also i've heard my white homies talking about why they have "yellow fever"...

dudes are crazy and think they are all like asa akira or w/e her name is, to me asian chicks are aiight to look at but their standards and issues all come from within.

or hey they could actually like each other, my girl is white and i always talk about white people this chick obviously doesnt know her companion that well and the white dude im assuming just wants to do what white people do and introduce their girls to the fam on the first date.

lol cottage the fudge outta here with that.
 
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freedmind2015 said:
 
RUSTLENOMICS said:
 
lol cottage the fudge outta here with that.
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The whole article read like a humble brag on her own marginalization, that **** is insane.
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 like it was an honor to finally be at the cottage.

cant mess this up by actually expressing how i feel, im at the cottage FFS!!!

i feel thats how alot of these chicks are, not just asian but the ones that see their friends getting married, taking trips.

they will do anything just to make it look good to peeps on the outside,  the dude could be an abusive prick

but hey the IG pics are so damn cute!
 
RUSTLENOMICS said:
 
 like it was an honor to finally be at the cottage.

cant mess this up by actually expressing how i feel, im at the cottage FFS!!!

i feel thats how alot of these chicks are, not just asian but the ones that see their friends getting married, taking trips.

they will do anything just to make it look good to peeps on the outside,  the dude could be an abusive prick

but hey the IG pics are so damn cute!
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From my own experiences, I can say that being in an interracial relationship means you aren't just opening yourself up to the person you're dating, but for other people to judge you in a completely different way than if you weren't a couple.
 

There have been times when peers suggested I'm with my boyfriend because I'm ashamed of my own culture, and times when drunken idiots reduced our relationship to a white man's fetish for "tight Asian *****"—how creative.

 

There have been moments when I've given into insensitive comments, and troubled my mind with ways in which I could prove the legitimacy of my relationship, away from the idea that it is a political statement or a product of fetish.

 

Ultimately, I can't change the things that happen outside of our relationship. But I can change the way my partner and I respond to them.

 

One trait I have always admired about my boyfriend is his ability to not give a **** about what people think of him. Over the years, we've certainly disagreed over whether I should take certain racially insensitive comments and questions seriously.

 

But he has only really been offended when I (out of defensiveness) questioned his intentions in our relationship. Because that would mean that I myself believed what we have is anything less than a genuine relationship between two individuals, and more like a walking sideshow.

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Yeah. If you go interracial you're going to catch flak from all directions. You gotta take it from the family at least. Everyone else nah. But yeah my daughter's grandpa hated the fact a white dude knocked up his daughter for like 2 years. Just in my face yelling at me. :lol: I just said bye every time he tweaked out and left.

That's the homie now though. :pimp:
 
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Man, some of these topics are so unnecessary and disturbingly self-deprecating...it's an unintentional fun-house mirror of white supremacy. It really shows no matter what ethnic background you come from, some men just really wish to be conquers and not kings.


I don't understand how there's so much hate for white men, yet there's a yearning for his approval and respect. Also the wish to be just like him. Then wonder why Asian women just cut out the middle man.


The thing about "Western Culture" is that it has and will always be diversified, white people NEVER owned or were in charge of ANYTHING. It just so happens white men created a VERY intricate and divisive system which brainwashes people from around the world into believing "they" have power. Truth is, there's is no "they", just people that are literate enough to play the game, and people who are not. Those people become victims of self-torture, trying to ascend to some higher level of society by believing "white people" are somehow needed. When in fact, "white people" have always NEEDED, everyone else.


Once people of color truly understand this, then they can make some significant changes to America's infrastructure.
 
 
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freedmind2015 said:
 
But then just last week I had one Korean and one Japanese female who were in grad school approach me, BOTH calling "cute" and clearly interested in me. While it happens to me all the time I was confused because I could usually tell when females had close family ties. These females were clearly being "adventurous" at my expense, and they came from really good families. I respectfully declined their advances.
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More of this guy's humble brags. 
 
That sounds more like you feel self entitled as an asian or as a woman.  Nobody really caring about your fake *** beer pong plight 
 
The comment about how white folks tricked everyone into believing their powerful is 100% true
 
freedmind2015 said:
calibeebee said:
I didn't read the OP's post, or any post in this thread. I just read the title and came in here to say, you never really see black women dating asian men. That's like the unicorn of interracial couples where I'm from. Carry on
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I have, and my man actually told me I'm good at "not talking black". 
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So I hit him with, what do your parents think you her. He was like "my mom would prefer me to be with an Asian woman, but she's okay with our relationship". Doesn't even make sense. That's avoiding the question.



Then white people came around and you couldn't even tell he was good at "talking black"...he didn't utter ONE slang term, or urban mannerism for the rest of the night.




...I was convinced do was an idiot just playing roles trying to fit it, I stopped respecting him after that day.
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I'm not sure what you were trying to say here.

*edit* Nevermind. Just noticed who the OP is. Carry on troll.
 
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freedmind2015 said:
I forgot most of NT is from the west coast. It's a New York "elite" thing, females with money that are close to their family usually don't openly interracial date. But there's an exception when it comes to Asian females, they almost always have a white boyfriend or husband, regardless of their social status. However black men usually have a harder time dating Asian women, especially if they're working class...white men do not.


As I stated Asian women approach me all the time for some reason, and I can usually determine if I'm just a potential-experimental-fling, or they're looking for more than that.


With these females it was confusing, because they were clearly "elite", but I knew their parents didn't know what they were discussing. It was almost like a dare, at my expense adding some type of taboo or sensationalism to their experience. I felt objectified, not even joking. It was confusing as to the purpose of it all.


 
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I don't think that's just a new york thing, L.A., San Fran, Chicago, any big city is the same way. Rich people don't like to associate with people they deem beneath them. Rich guys will tolerate it if they think they can make more money by dealing with you, women on the other hand i'm pretty sure you've heard of hypergamy.
 
Beta dudes will be beta

Walk around with an I don't give a f**k attitude and watch how people's demeanor change around you
 
Is it racist that I knew she was talking about a white dude the moment she said "Family cottage" ??
 
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