Official Depression thread

[gentrification]

 

[gentrification]

I've been waking up in the morning all panicky, it's awful.

 

[toughmoney]

Dope track my first time hearing, what the chorus say tho? lyrics on websites got it wrong. sound like he saying "havin is better than nan', nothing at all " i really dk

 

[cragmatic]

Met a girl on Thursday, needless to say she was nothing special, and she keeps wanting to chill.

Met a girl on Friday who was really cool and attractive, and she hasn't said anything since. Swear that's always how it goes. I need to get off this online dating crap. It's exhausting.

Then at my gym today I saw a girl I dated two years ago with her newest dude. Damn, I didn't even know she still lived in town let alone my end of town. Smh.

It's gonna be another #ForeverAlone cuffing season my NT brethren.

I wouldn't say I'm truly depressed about it, but it does bring me down sometimes. Oh well, more time to do whatever the hell I want .

 

[r-man jam]

Daily exercise, fresh air, eating healthy and some good sleep can make such a difference. At the end of showers, run cold water on the top and back of your head for a couple minutes. Takes time to get used to these things but it's practice like anything else before it becomes a daily habit. YouTube guided meditation Also.

Some all natural supplements that help are a daily multivitamin, vitamins B3 & B6, folic acid and vitamins C & D.

 

[mplsdunk]

The xanax i've been taking has been causing depression. F that no more 

Bro cut that out, sounds like you're aware already but yeah that **** will ruin you.

 

[blackdynamite]

Met a girl on Thursday, needless to say she was nothing special, and she keeps wanting to chill.

Met a girl on Friday who was really cool and attractive, and she hasn't said anything since. Swear that's always how it goes. I need to get off this online dating crap. It's exhausting.

Then at my gym today I saw a girl I dated two years ago with her newest dude. Damn, I didn't even know she still lived in town let alone my end of town. Smh.

It's gonna be another #ForeverAlone cuffing season my NT brethren.

I wouldn't say I'm truly depressed about it, but it does bring me down sometimes. Oh well, more time to do whatever the hell I want .

Kind of sad about this too. Wouldn't say depressed, because I'm pretty fine with being alone (no gf)...and then these girls that I've been meeting are really no good for me and I don't really see anything happening with them in my future...plus most be flaking on me...they must have too many options.

 

[gil23]

Mainly people in general: my ex, feeling like I can't connect with my close friends on a deeper level, not even being able to talk to family about stuff, falling out with some people, not sure where I stand with some, constantly being let down, lied to, etc. I've been trying to meet new people and make new friends, but by now it feels like everyone has their established circles and I don't want to come across as annoying.

It feels like somewhere along the way I lost my drive; probably a combo of discouraging setback after setback and laziness. I'm currently trying to bounce back though.

I've got to stop dwelling in the past. Spent so much time thinking about it and trying to make things that didn't initially work work, that I forgot to live in the present and work towards the future. Because of that I feel like I never make the most of anything which is troubling when I'm on the verge of entering the "real world." I didn't experience nearly as much as I could have and now it's too late for most of it. The future has always been cloudy and unclear to me and I wish I had that figured out the way some of my peers do.

 

[gentrification]

Bro cut that out, sounds like you're aware already but yeah that **** will ruin you.

Hell yea my dude. Hell yea. I'm wondering why I'm feeling like I'm feeling. It only started when I started popping em. 

 

[mplsdunk]

Bro cut that out, sounds like you're aware already but yeah that **** will ruin you.

Hell yea my dude. Hell yea. I'm wondering why I'm feeling like I'm feeling. It only started when I started popping em. 

I straight up don't trust doctors. They just want to subdue you instead of addressing the real problem. Everyone gets anxiety about stuff. There is varying degrees of it for sure, but no matter how bad it is masking it with tranquilizers isn't gonna help.

 

[gentrification]

****, i can't even blame the doctors. I bought them from a dealer in some misguided way to stop using herb 

 Helllllla dumb. 

 

[mplsdunk]

Ohhhhh yeah dude no Bueno. Herb ain't gonna hurt you man. I smoke like a Mack truck. My mom says this is the best she's ever seen me. Same with my friends.

You gotta look at yourself and what causes it and go from there. Herb is an attitude adjuster. Ain't gonna fix it but it will help you relax and get through it. Xan is gonna make you a zombie and change your personality slowly until everyone knows you're on it heavy and by that point you aren't coming back.

 

[slighted]

Met a girl on Thursday, needless to say she was nothing special, and she keeps wanting to chill.

Met a girl on Friday who was really cool and attractive, and she hasn't said anything since. Swear that's always how it goes. I need to get off this online dating crap. It's exhausting.

Then at my gym today I saw a girl I dated two years ago with her newest dude. Damn, I didn't even know she still lived in town let alone my end of town. Smh.

It's gonna be another #ForeverAlone cuffing season my NT brethren.

I wouldn't say I'm truly depressed about it, but it does bring me down sometimes. Oh well, more time to do whatever the hell I want .

This was depressing to read until I saw the username. Didn't I give you advice a few months ago regarding a similar topic?

Don't base your value on these birds. You are a sexy dude. Why is being alone a bad thing, fam?

 

[dh1water]

zoloft

 

[rck3sactown]

according to the NBA thread, nobody wants to hang out with me and that depresses me

 

[eracism]

Yeah. Girls are the last reason to be depressed.

My dude from high school been married 7 years and has a 3 year old came home one day (he travels a lot and came unannounced) and found his wife with another man. She seemed like a class act too.

Don't go chasing it and get sad when it eludes it. Let it be.

Heck, even if you do meet the right one, take it day by day and keep your expectations low. They wylin out chea.

 

[OBAMA]

Its all bad

 

[mr marcus]

I've actually a couple of trips to the hospital over extreme anxiety this year, not sure if that counts.

damn...you good?

 

[elcatfisho]

real talk: anyone who is seriously thinking about killing themselves, don't do that ****!!!

There is always a way to figure things out.

Nearly killed myself earlier this year because I didn't think I was cut out for my career or school, didn't think I belonged anywhere, was so upset (still am) that this girl who I thought was one of my best friends cut me off.

Got into an intensive therapy program that I had to go day in and day out to learn better "thinking" patterns that now I can manage my daily life just about okay and go to school full-time.

Rarely does anything ever get solved when you choose to harm yourself or inebriate yourself to the point where you lose consciousness. You just create more problems and the people that do care about you wouldn't want to see you do that.

 

[kingkoopa]

 
damn...you good?

Yeah, I'm good, just took some time off work and took care off some ****.

Crazy because I didn't think I was stressed like that but like they say "still waters run deep".

You can only bottle so much **** up 

 

[mr marcus]

 

 
damn...you good?

Yeah, I'm good, just took some time off work and took care off some ****.

Crazy because I didn't think I was stressed like that but like they say "still waters run deep".

You can only bottle so much **** up  

I'm bad about holding stuff in but I'm trying to communicate more these days. 

 

[va757va]

Mature thread..

From my own experiences I'll say this, talk to someone... Even if it's someone online because you don't feel comfortable talking face to face...

I find talking to strangers easier when it comes to my problems personally, IDK why..

But to people, and most importantly don't put it off.. GET HELP TODAY!!!

Plenty of people said it in this thread and I'll just reiterate it, you gotta bust a move today!! Because putting it off until tomorrow will turn into forever.. Trust me, I'm 26 and the lightbulb just went off for me after years of waiting to "kick this funk"..

Anybody wants (or needs ) to talk I'm always open... NT is a weird place, but I'll say that I've reached out to a few random cats, and the response has been overwhelmingly positive and motivating..


Dope list of things to be grateful for @camp btw...

 

[cragmatic]

This was depressing to read until I saw the username. Didn't I give you advice a few months ago regarding a similar topic?

Don't base your value on these birds. You are a sexy dude. Why is being alone a bad thing, fam?

Nah, you're right man. Alone aint bad I traveled across the country last week by myself and never felt more at peace with myself then I had then. Life has been good to me.

Good lookin out

 

[trappstar]

Stop drinking and smoking bud. I battled a temporary depression last year, and to be honest, I occasionally have remnants of it. But I found that my down times typically occurred after alcohol consumption or during marijuana intoxication. So naturally I cut them out. And I've been positive ever since. I put the drink down for good but occasionally convince myself it's okay to burn, though i really should let that go, too.

Alcohol is the single most false security blanket on earth. I hate it. And I drank for so long. It's amazing the positive benefits that derive from eliminating it from your existence. And if you have friends that don't support you not imbibing then they are merely selfish acquaintances and you need to cut them out.

 

[SC kid]

Alcohol and drugs are fertilizer for depression