Step up stop being a....
And by the way once u start caring what they think, youve lost the game be4 it began.
I don't care bout nobody's thoughts feelings etc. And it honestly works out great for me.
U seem like a settled down nice guy to them, they don't like that, be a man looking to smash there brains out and let it be known and alot of times you will win.
Either that or find a girl below your level and keep her.