Dead ***, I've realized myself meaningless sex is literally like drugs. It's something that feels good but is a waste of ****** time, if you can be a strong dude with higher things completing you as a person. Dude is out here taking a risk to achieve the ultimate. Taking a risk for both the girl and career of his dreams. And you wanna be cave men and tell dude to chase *****?
I'm sure dude understands the risks that goes with what he's doing, but just like there's a dude like him who's willing to be good and wait, there are female versions of him out there too. I've had my perception of all the ****** women I've dealt with and encountered before be part of the problem with someone who was legit good before. There are good dudes and good girls out there.