Thats just what it means.
My child will not disrespect me. I brought her into this world, i will take her out.
I rather she die in my hands because I love her than in the hands of these streets because I failed to teach her how to act in public. These streets will take her life and not give a damn about it.
My mom used to try to use this ******** train of thought on me and I would just laugh at her like "Good luck."
It's sad that you're going to more than likely ingrain this poisonous ideology into your daughter and potentially keep it going another generation because in 10-12 years she'll swear up and down that she turned out just fine and want to reuse this garbage.