Your Friends Girlfriends/Wives Vol. Can't We All Just Get Along?

mdwst9 said:
nawghtyhare said:
What do they say about ur wife
Like what is it about her that they all feel a kind of way about
They say why they don't like her.

But I have my friends
My girl has her friends
And we have friends that are friends with both of us
And we usually keep them separated
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well its two of my friends wives. There is a story but its pretty long so ill try and keep it short.
First girl: now mind you theres a few things my boys girl did that had my wife uneasy for good reason but my wife still let it slide and look past it.
So, my wife (gf at the time) leaves town during the weekend the hangover 2 came out. So my boy is goin to the movies with his wife and her 3 friends. So i didnt wanna be in the house so i asked if i could roll with them cuz i wanted to see the movie too. Now his girls 3 friends are huge and also mind you that if i wanted to do something with her friends i had like 2 yrs to do it before this day but i didnt cuz they big and sloppy. Not my thing. So i go and we watch the movie and nothing happens btwn me and her friends. Ive known them as long as ive known his girl and we're all cool.

So later that night i see one of her friends on the chat on facebook and start talkin makin jokes cuz thats just how we roll and i may have said a funny line that maybe i shouldnt have being in a relationship. But after i said the line i just told the girl bye n im goin to sleep. So my wife comes home and finds out about the chat messages and gets bent outta shape about it and we fight for days and she almost leaves me. Fast forward a couple months and my bday rolls around. My boy wants to throw me a cookout but not invite my girl. I dismissed that and said shes coming. Then i made MY OWN decision and told him its probably best for his gfs friends not to come. His girl gets wind of this and flips **** on me sayin all this crazy shhh about my girl being insecure yada yada when really it was my decision. So after that happened me and my boy kinda fell out and didnt really speak much for a few weeks.

second girl: She was cool with my wife at first but sometimes we would all be hanging, her my boy me and my wife, and we would invite my wifes female cousin and my wifes sisters over.
When it would be just me and my wife and the 2 of them it would be fine, but when her fam would come thru my boys girl will totally shut down. And no noone did anything to her because she would shut down as soon as they get there. So I wouldnt say she doesnt like my wife but more so shes just weird as hell and makes it awkward when we chill.
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Hmmmmm serious question
Do u think u found the right girl to marry
Like have u or do u question it sometimes
Just curious on how u feel
Cause that would give insight to if she dramatic and all that
Like does ur girl do hella much
Or is it just this friends thing that's a problem between u 2
 
Hennessy said:
My sister spit in one of my ex's purse after she met her for the first time. There was literally no reason for this besides, "I just didn't like her." They became best friends about a month later. I think the more similar girls are upon initially meeting, the more they hate eachother, then become best friends
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Makes no sense.
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Yeah, my wife has a girl I used to talk to, on her 'list'. Haha, makes no sense when that was YEARS ago.
 
nawghtyhare said:
Hmmmmm serious question
Do u think u found the right girl to marry
Like have u or do u question it sometimes
Just curious on how u feel
Cause that would give insight to if she dramatic and all that
Like does ur girl do hella much
Or is it just this friends thing that's a problem between u 2
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Yes im 100% positive shes the one shes the least dramatic person. Its just the friends thing.
 
but im happy to see that im not the only one who has dealt with this. I guess im going to have to do what you guys are doing and just hang with the fellas without them *shrugs* it sucks cuz were with our wives all the time or working but it is what it is. if we all cant get along thats what its gonna have to be.
 
Yeah, my friends' wives are really cliquish. Since my wife doesn't really hang out with them as much, they tend to isolate themselves from my wife and everyone else. But if they do talk to her, it's pretty fake BS.

It's really unfortunate because we all have been friends for a long time. Me and the guys have no issues, but when it comes to the girls, things get uncomfortable.
 
At the end of the day the wife trumps the friend no matter how long yall been homies. A formal pact was entered with the wife. If you want that with the homie, then youve got whole different type of problems.
 
Homies got drunk she happened to tag along

We got drunk

I called her a *****. (Jokingly )
She took it serious
I said sorry
She still don't like me
I said **** it fdb
Me and the homie still good.
 
ERACISM said:
My friend's wife asked me to leave once when I was chilling with my friend watching the ballgame. She just casually walked into the room and was like, "I'm sorry but can I ask you to leave now? We haven't had any alone time all week."
I didn't have a problem with her request but when I looked over at my buddy he had the most helpless look I think I've ever seen on a man's face.
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Wow that is disrespectful

I have a story. In college, it was 3 of us that lived in our apartment.

One dude had a girl that stayed over at times. We can call him J.

So one morning, Me and O (other roomate) were in the hallway talking. Keep in mind it was like 11 on a Saturday.

So I guess J's girl thought we were talking too loud, we really weren't, but anything sounds loud when you are trying to sleep I guess.

So she tells J to come into the hallway to tell us to keep the noise down.

So me and O look at each other like, "Wtf."

Luckily I respect J because I was pissed the hell off after that. 
 
DCAllAmerican said:
Wow that is disrespectful



I have a story. In college, it was 3 of us that lived in our apartment.

One dude had a girl that stayed over at times. We can call him J.

So one morning, Me and O (other roomate) were in the hallway talking. Keep in mind it was like 11 on a Saturday.

So I guess J's girl thought we were talking too loud, we really weren't, but anything sounds loud when you are trying to sleep I guess.

So she tells J to come into the hallway to tell us to keep the noise down.

So me and O look at each other like, "Wtf."

Luckily I respect J because I was pissed the hell off after that. 
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Something similar happened to my broinlaw, his wife and his best friends wife used to be friends, started beefing like girls do, no my BIL's wife makes it pretty hard for him to be part of any of his boys family functions, like bringing their daughters together and even participating in his boys wedding...was pretty sad...chick drama should never put a smear between bros, women are too emotional and handle their friendships way different than we do, one day they looveeeee each other, then next they wanna tear their eyes out
 
mdwst9 said:
yea im kinda in the same boat. We just plan things still and my wife doesnt give af but the air is always super thick when my friends wives are around. My wife is just like whatever but later on my friends will tell me things their wives say or feel and we're just like wtf. I honestly dont know where it comes from. I mean my wife does have resting B face lol but shes a good person under that face lol and hasnt done anything to anybody. All of my friends were with their wives before i met mine and we would all be cool but as soon as my wife came around things changed so i dont get it.
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Is she she prettier than them
 
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Yeah said:
My GF just doesn't leave the house, ever. It's led to a couple of people to ask questions like "Does she not like us?" and things of that nature. She flat out doesn't like some of my female friends as well, and even though she refuses to give a reason, I know its because she's insecure about me spending time with them.

It caused a little bit of trouble when I was trying to hang out with people and she'd made snide remarks or roll her eyes. I learned to just make plans regardless. Told her she can either get with it or move around.

Now I just don't have time to do stuff :lol:
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Has she always been a home body?
Did you meet her like that?
 
Good to hear this is a common problem.

I guess girls in general have trouble getting along well as adults because many of them don't have as clear idea of how to hang out. With guys it is usually activity based (play hoops, watch sports, etc). With girls it is usually talking based - that leads to drama because the activity is only talking so what is said/how they perceive each other acts makes mountains out of molehills.

My gf thankfully agrees - whenever she acts emotional about stuff I say its cuz girls don't play sports so they have to get their emotions out in another more dramatic way lol.

The more you push the worse is becomes. Just gotta hope they mature - some do, some never do.
 
mdwst9 said:
Ok, so long story short me and my boys have been cool for years. They get married and I have been married for quite some time now as well. Now my friends wives have a problem with my wife for unknown reasons. Now these unknown reasons have come in between me and my friends. Atleast I feel like it is because things just arent the same.

I want to know if anyone else has had something like this happen to them with their friends and their significant others?
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It's worth investigating what those reasons are. 
 
Andretti said:
Homies got drunk she happened to tag along

We got drunk

I called her a *****. (Jokingly )
She took it serious
I said sorry
She still don't like me
I said **** it fdb
Me and the homie still good.
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You think it's cool to just call females ******* jokingly or not?
 
Everyone in my circle of friends hates my best friend's girlfriend, including me.  

She has little to no redeeming qualities. 26 years old with no driver's licence? Check.  Unemployed? Check.  Flunked out of college (Photography major, mind you)? Check. Tumblr feminist? Check. "Body-Positive"? Check. Bipolar? Check. I could go on and on.

Not to mention she cheated on my friend a few times a couple of years into the relationship. He found out about it and they had a period where they weren't together, but then she convinced him to go to her shrink with her and they've been back together ever since.  

The last time he asked me for relationship advice I straight up told him "I have no idea why you're still dating her."  We haven't spoken about it since.  
 
Comparison Ford said:
 
Not to mention she cheated on my friend a few times a couple of years into the relationship. He found out about it and they had a period where they weren't together, but then she convinced him to go to her shrink with her and they've been back together ever since.  
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Dumb *** 
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