Your Friends Girlfriends/Wives Vol. Can't We All Just Get Along?

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Ok, so long story short me and my boys have been cool for years. They get married and I have been married for quite some time now as well. Now my friends wives have a problem with my wife for unknown reasons. Now these unknown reasons have come in between me and my friends. Atleast I feel like it is because things just arent the same.

I want to know if anyone else has had something like this happen to them with their friends and their significant others?
 
Best friend's chick did a background check on me when I went to go stay with them. 
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 I respect their situation but that broad is garbage for that. Changed my outlook on her fo sho. 
 
Best friend's chick did a background check on me when I went to go stay with them. :lol:  I respect their situation but that broad is garbage for that. Changed my outlook on her fo sho. 


wow lol did it change anything between you and your friend?
 
My friend's wife asked me to leave once when I was chilling with my friend watching the ballgame. She just casually walked into the room and was like, "I'm sorry but can I ask you to leave now? We haven't had any alone time all week."
I didn't have a problem with her request but when I looked over at my buddy he had the most helpless look I think I've ever seen on a man's face.
 
wow lol did it change anything between you and your friend?
You know if this was me in my younger years...I would've flipped on both of them. But he's having a baby with her(still don't understand it) So nah me and him are always family. He knows she was out of pocket for doing such a thing. But being in the position he is in, he has to play the "role."
 
However, I do think it was dumb as hell to move in. Then after moving in get this broad pregnant. But if he's happy. 
 
I feel you OP. My girl doesn't get along with my bestfriend's sister (who I consider a sister to me). It goes both ways and I just stay out of it. Its stupid to me. It does make it hard for me to just enjoy the moment since its always in the back of my head. That and my girl ******* about hanging out with them Every. Single. Time.
 
My GF just doesn't leave the house, ever. It's led to a couple of people to ask questions like "Does she not like us?" and things of that nature. She flat out doesn't like some of my female friends as well, and even though she refuses to give a reason, I know its because she's insecure about me spending time with them.

It caused a little bit of trouble when I was trying to hang out with people and she'd made snide remarks or roll her eyes. I learned to just make plans regardless. Told her she can either get with it or move around.

Now I just don't have time to do stuff :lol:
 
yea im kinda in the same boat. We just plan things still and my wife doesnt give af but the air is always super thick when my friends wives are around. My wife is just like whatever but later on my friends will tell me things their wives say or feel and we're just like wtf. I honestly dont know where it comes from. I mean my wife does have resting B face lol but shes a good person under that face lol and hasnt done anything to anybody. All of my friends were with their wives before i met mine and we would all be cool but as soon as my wife came around things changed so i dont get it.
 
My friend's wife asked me to leave once when I was chilling with my friend watching the ballgame. She just casually walked into the room and was like, "I'm sorry but can I ask you to leave now? We haven't had any alone time all week."
I didn't have a problem with her request but when I looked over at my buddy he had the most helpless look I think I've ever seen on a man's face.
she just trying to get piped and you cockblocking. 
 
This is why I keep my friend time separate. If you get the couples thing going, the women will find things not to "like" about each other. Used to do the double and triple date nights, not anymore. Not worth the BS.
 
This is why I keep my friend time separate. If you get the couples thing going, the women will find things not to "like" about each other. Used to do the double and triple date nights, not anymore. Not worth the BS.

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I owe you a beer.
 
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This is why I keep my friend time separate. If you get the couples thing going, the women will find things not to "like" about each other. Used to do the double and triple date nights, not anymore. Not worth the BS.
Its really not...
We only do couple dates with my girl's friends, I know most of her friends from school and us dudes usually find something to chat about, usually talk BS or crack jokes.

Tried with one of my homies and didn't work out at all. His chick got upset mid-dinner because we were talking about my girl's new job. My homie does similar work so he was giving her a few pointers. His chick just started sighing and yawning. :smh:
 
Ok, so long story short me and my boys have been cool for years. They get married and I have been married for quite some time now as well. Now my friends wives have a problem with my wife for unknown reasons. Now these unknown reasons have come in between me and my friends. Atleast I feel like it is because things just arent the same.

I want to know if anyone else has had something like this happen to them with their friends and their significant others?
What do they say about ur wife
Like what is it about her that they all feel a kind of way about
They say why they don't like her.

But I have my friends
My girl has her friends
And we have friends that are friends with both of us
And we usually keep them separated
 
It's in women's nature to clash with each other for the pettiest of reasons.

My sister spit in one of my ex's purse after she met her for the first time. There was literally no reason for this besides, "I just didn't like her." They became best friends about a month later. I think the more similar girls are upon initially meeting, the more they hate eachother, then become best friends :lol: Makes no sense.
 
My friend's wife asked me to leave once when I was chilling with my friend watching the ballgame. She just casually walked into the room and was like, "I'm sorry but can I ask you to leave now? We haven't had any alone time all week."
I didn't have a problem with her request but when I looked over at my buddy he had the most helpless look I think I've ever seen on a man's face.
Your friend probably wanted you to leave too...... he just didn't want to hurt your feelings.
 
What do they say about ur wife
Like what is it about her that they all feel a kind of way about
They say why they don't like her.

But I have my friends
My girl has her friends
And we have friends that are friends with both of us
And we usually keep them separated


well its two of my friends wives. There is a story but its pretty long so ill try and keep it short.
First girl: now mind you theres a few things my boys girl did that had my wife uneasy for good reason but my wife still let it slide and look past it.
So, my wife (gf at the time) leaves town during the weekend the hangover 2 came out. So my boy is goin to the movies with his wife and her 3 friends. So i didnt wanna be in the house so i asked if i could roll with them cuz i wanted to see the movie too. Now his girls 3 friends are huge and also mind you that if i wanted to do something with her friends i had like 2 yrs to do it before this day but i didnt cuz they big and sloppy. Not my thing. So i go and we watch the movie and nothing happens btwn me and her friends. Ive known them as long as ive known his girl and we're all cool.

So later that night i see one of her friends on the chat on facebook and start talkin makin jokes cuz thats just how we roll and i may have said a funny line that maybe i shouldnt have being in a relationship. But after i said the line i just told the girl bye n im goin to sleep. So my wife comes home and finds out about the chat messages and gets bent outta shape about it and we fight for days and she almost leaves me. Fast forward a couple months and my bday rolls around. My boy wants to throw me a cookout but not invite my girl. I dismissed that and said shes coming. Then i made MY OWN decision and told him its probably best for his gfs friends not to come. His girl gets wind of this and flips **** on me sayin all this crazy shhh about my girl being insecure yada yada when really it was my decision. So after that happened me and my boy kinda fell out and didnt really speak much for a few weeks.

second girl: She was cool with my wife at first but sometimes we would all be hanging, her my boy me and my wife, and we would invite my wifes female cousin and my wifes sisters over.
When it would be just me and my wife and the 2 of them it would be fine, but when her fam would come thru my boys girl will totally shut down. And no noone did anything to her because she would shut down as soon as they get there. So I wouldnt say she doesnt like my wife but more so shes just weird as hell and makes it awkward when we chill.
 
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