You said this:
Bu nature you will decide if you feel something is right and correct. You can be taught to be a specific reglion and the entire time feel its not correct.By nature i am attracted to women, i was never taught to like women. Same way some who is gay by nature might not be attracted to women no matter how much their parents teach them they are supposed to get married to a woman and being gay is wrong or whatever.
So...by nature, gays are predisposed to like gays. Just as heterosexuals like the opposite sex. YOU were never taught to like women, you just were attracted to them. Same for me, or any heterosexual male in this thread. You claim it is a lifestyle, ask a gay person if they chose to be gay. It shows how ignorant you are to assume what they're living is a lifestyle choice. As if anyone would want to pick a lifestyle of self-loathing and oppression if they had the choice. Therefore disagreeing with this, disagreeing with something that people are wired with, people are born with....makes you bigoted. Whether or not you wanna follow that up with "but I'm not infringing on their rights". Cause guess what, you can still be bigoted without doing so or making it obvious you are.
How does it not register that "I have Black/Asian/Mexican friends but I'm not racist" is the exact same as "I have gay friends so I disapprove of their lifestyle but I'm not homophobic"? Or does that somehow not apply to sexual orientation?