I didn't know choosing not to smoke, not be a heaving drinker, and choosing not to download music wa

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This is from a chick I met on Tinder, but we happen to "friend" each other on FB.
View media item 1799075For the record, I never told her I don't go to strip clubs. I told her, I've never been to one. I'm not really angry because rejection to me is becoming to be the norm to me. I just didn't think me choosing not to do what others do was such a bad thing. I'm 28 and still very late on a lot of things that people probably experienced 8-10 years ago(Sheltered). This rejection is a sign that I need to focus on getting in my career(Police officer) and let the women come to me. Now, is choosing not smoke, be a heavy drinker a bad thing these days?
 
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It's a chick off tinder. We really doing this?

Move on. I'm sure there are plenty of girls out there that like straight edge dudes. Just go look for them.
 
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Find someone that aligns with your ideals. She's flawed and knows it, but is not entirely wrong. You would be judging her for doing those things most young adults indulge in, you're judging her now. Those aren't bad qualities to have, but based on your posts I doubt they come from a moral center, more a fear of living life.
 
Find someone that aligns with your ideals. She's flawed and knows it, but is not entirely wrong. You would be judging her for doing those things most young adults indulge in, you're judging her now. Those aren't bad qualities to have, but based on your posts I doubt they come from a moral center, more a fear of living life.
I'm not judging her, if she chooses to be a drinker, then so be it. I never told that would never date a chick that drinks. She just assumed that I'm judging her. I mean, it is what it is.. Not changing for anyone.
 
If you are in MD, I recommend Fuegos for your first strip club, or head out to the block in Baltimore
you are a mean person 
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, fam head to Bazz n Crue in forestville if you want to have an enjoyable first Strip experience

and why are you worried about heavy drinking and blowing trees if you want to be a fed?
 
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Chick looks off anyway... f her

but back to you, I would need to know a bit about you. Are you that straight laced that you think dl'ing musing is deplorable?
 
 
Find someone that aligns with your ideals. She's flawed and knows it, but is not entirely wrong. You would be judging her for doing those things most young adults indulge in, you're judging her now. Those aren't bad qualities to have, but based on your posts I doubt they come from a moral center, more a fear of living life.
I'm not judging her, if she chooses to be a drinker, then so be it. I never told that would never date a chick that drinks. She just assumed that I'm judging her. I mean, it is what it is.. Not changing for anyone.
shes just insecure OP, you dont need that drama in your life

on to the next one 
 
I've learned as I got older its not always you, you can be a hell of a guy just looking in the wrong places, like the dude stated above shes single for a reason

Alot of these women have issues and are very selective, which is not cool because everyone has faults, but in this social network driven age, everyone is looking for that 'perfect' significant other

Keep trying OP, you will flourish sooner than you think
 
I get what youre saying but your coming off judgemental/morally superior. Just gotta tell them "Im cool if you do but I don't."
 
I don't smoke or download music but if you actually used the word deplorable to describe how you felt about downloading music then I can see why she said that :lol:


She's a Tinderoni, tho. Don't eem stress it.
 
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You know, broads do this especially females now. They doing it all. But here is the thing if you are a teetotaler/don't do drugs just don't bring it up. It's only an issue when its brought up. As long as your vibe is energetic and carefree it'll be G. Now if you really standing around watching, just salty. Thats a different story. I do it without drank at the club. VIBE is all...got dudes downing drinks thinking it'll help 
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 Females don't need to know your beliefs or habits. 
 
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FYI chick I'm messing with doesn't like I don't drink either. But mind you we go to the club she can't even dance without doing cocaine. Who is really having fun? Who is really a bore? 
 
I came in here to say if you don't do any of those things you probably the feds, and you're trying to be fed so carry on.

And fuegos is straight, them lap dances cheap as hell. Get 2 of them broads at the same time
 
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