Lonely During The Holidays

im over the commercial holidays.... i dont celebrate holidays or anything like that. i treat it like any other day. dont hang out with fam no more , i always felt corny when my i used to do that, im not a people person. i dont feel the need to be around people all the time or over the holidays. i enjoy being different and im cool with being alone now. i love it actually,  to each his own.....

making big dinners or buying presents - nah im good not doing what everyone else does, not my thing. 
 
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im over the commercial holidays.... i dont celebrate holidays or anything like that. i treat it like any other day. dont hang out with fam no more , i always felt corny when my i used to do that, im not a people person. i dont feel the need to be around people all the time or over the holidays. i like being different and im cool with being alone now. i love it actually to each his own.....  . 
on that holden caulfield flow.
 
 
im over the commercial holidays.... i dont celebrate holidays or anything like that. i treat it like any other day. dont hang out with fam no more , i always felt corny when my i used to do that, im not a people person. i dont feel the need to be around people all the time or over the holidays. i enjoy being different and im cool with being alone now. i love it actually,  to each his own.....

making big dinners or buying presents - nah im good not doing what everyone else does, not my thing. 
Same here, never did these commercial holidays in my life.  My parents are traditional chinese so they don't celebrate none of this anyways.  My daughter's mother white family celebrates so she'll probably take my daughter to stop by over there for a bit tomorrow and tell them I'm working while I'll really be blazing up and catching a bit of football chilling.  then when she gets back in the afternoon we'll go to the theaters and catch a movie.  
 
Man fug love :lol:

Counting money and eating good food with fam :nthat:
although I do have a current love interest, but she back home with her family :lol:
 
 
Same here, never did these commercial holidays in my life.  My parents are traditional chinese so they don't celebrate none of this anyways.  My daughter's mother white family celebrates so she'll probably take my daughter to stop by over there for a bit tomorrow and tell them I'm working while I'll really be blazing up and catching a bit of football chilling.  then when she gets back in the afternoon we'll go to the theaters and catch a movie.  
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 do your thing man , ill be doing the same. 
 
Man fug love :lol:

Counting money and eating good food with fam :nthat:
although I do have a current love interest, but she back home with her family :lol:

Don't come in here w that contradiction. At least someone is interested in you & vice versa. I haven't been on an actual pleasant date in the longest. I be taking myself out, I get all dressed up, go to the nicest restaurants and just sit at the bar. Lol but I have no such luck with men. [emoji]128529[/emoji] It's cool though. It's always been my luck. That's why I just work hard and keep a smile on and keep my faith. Someone good will come along.
 
Don't come in here w that contradiction. At least someone is interested in you & vice versa. I haven't been on an actual pleasant date in the longest. I be taking myself out, I get all dressed up, go to the nicest restaurants and just sit at the bar. Lol but I have no such luck with men. [emoji]128529[/emoji] It's cool though. It's always been my luck. That's why I just work hard and keep a smile on and keep my faith. Someone good will come along.
someone will come along at the most unexpected time 
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 you're new to the area. explore explore explore! you can do so much here in SF and meet new people in the process. spoil yourself since you have nobody to cater to. exploring was my most favorite thing to do when i was single.
 
Don't come in here w that contradiction. At least someone is interested in you & vice versa. I haven't been on an actual pleasant date in the longest. I be taking myself out, I get all dressed up, go to the nicest restaurants and just sit at the bar. Lol but I have no such luck with men. [emoji]128529[/emoji] It's cool though. It's always been my luck. That's why I just work hard and keep a smile on and keep my faith. Someone good will come along.

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my point was to just focus on other stuff
let the men come to you, eventually they will know that you're a good girl
i know dem feels doe, feels bad mane
 
Don't worry about the men Caroline :lol: someone dope will hit on you eventually. Just put yourself out there by being active.
 
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someone will come along at the most unexpected time 
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 you're new to the area. explore explore explore! you can do so much here in SF and meet new people in the process. spoil yourself since you have nobody to cater to. exploring was my most favorite thing to do when i was single.
It is deff what I'm doing with myself - exploring. I always joke around and tell my friends I'm married to the mountains. They are the main reason I moved here. The fact that there are mountains and beautiful beaches in one state. I was sold. Had my dad drive with me all the way out here, kinda like a dad would walk his daughter down the aisle. :wink:

tbh i appreciate all you guys being straight up with me though. Thanks. much appreciation <3
 
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It's hard when the majority of the dating population use tinder and have the "netflix and chill" mentality im not about at all.
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In the bay area dating= expensive, trendy restaurants and bars are really expensive and a lot of dudes I know don't think it's worth it to do all that.  It's much better to just netflix and chill
 
 
In the bay area dating= expensive, trendy restaurants and bars are really expensive and a lot of dudes I know don't think it's worth it to do all that.  It's much better to just netflix and chill
you would. smh
 
@XCMC  well that's good! welcome to the area. i hope you're liking it here so far.

ps, meeting people in the bay isn't hard at all. and dating isn't expensive! there are plenty of good food here for cheap.
 
it's really not that hard to meet people especially in the year 2015
It's hard when the majority of the dating population use tinder and have the "netflix and chill" mentality im not about at all. :lol:

Have you experienced this first hand? There's no shame in using tinder and a lot of people don't have that mentality. Youll find out pretty quickly if you like the person or not just a simple first date. And you're a girl so you're going to get treated (if you want).

Stop feeling sorry for yourself because you're lonely on the holiday. Stop acting like the majority of people use tinder and then say that you can't date that same "majority" because they just want to hook up (not true) or you better than them or something.

I don't feel sorry for you at all. People with real problems out there and you're complaining to an all male message board about being a lonely girl. Just go back to PYP and take your pic from the thirsty dudes.
 
Have you experienced this first hand? There's no shame in using tinder and a lot of people don't have that mentality. Youll find out pretty quickly if you like the person or not just a simple first date. And you're a girl so you're going to get treated (if you want).

Stop feeling sorry for yourself because you're lonely on the holiday. Stop acting like the majority of people use tinder and then say that you can't date that same "majority" because they just want to hook up (not true) or you better than them or something.

I don't feel sorry for you at all. People with real problems out there and you're complaining to an all male message board about being a lonely girl. Just go back to PYP and take your pic from the thirsty dudes.

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@XCMC  well that's good! welcome to the area. i hope you're liking it here so far.

ps, meeting people in the bay isn't hard at all. and dating isn't expensive! there are plenty of good food here for cheap.
thank you ^.^

I know a lot about the food already.
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I love to eat so my cousin been taking me out to do a lot of that.

Where are you from in the Bay?
 
I'm confused?  I'm just telling you what the current landscape is, doing nothing but reporting
lol to me, saying that because restaurants are expensive dating isnt worth it suggests to me that you're super cheap and you dont deserve the netflix and chill. Amazing food is worth whatever it costs, so is a respectable and beautiful date.
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