Engagement Vol: Its Time

Ecook0808 said:
My ex wanted me to spend between 15-20 on her rock...

I was like that's 1/4 of what you owe for that degree hanging on the wall
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wow.. 

I'm fortunate with money. But if a chick presents a prerequisite with regards to pricing... effff that.. She's outta here.
 
ksteezy said:
 
1stWitIt said:
^you guys are silly if this is your train of thought. And I never said ask, I said have a sit down. No respect.
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Respect?....that was a sign of respect and relief! Dude was happy as hell his daughter was set for life with a stand up dude and he knew he had nothing to worry about her getting stranded with a deadbeat or some loser...lol
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LOl..what a low expectation for a daughter... hahhahahhahaha
 
wballz said:
ksteezy said:
 
1stWitIt said:
^you guys are silly if this is your train of thought. And I never said ask, I said have a sit down. No respect.
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Respect?....that was a sign of respect and relief! Dude was happy as hell his daughter was set for life with a stand up dude and he knew he had nothing to worry about her getting stranded with a deadbeat or some loser...lol
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LOl..what a low expectation for a daughter... hahhahahhahaha
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It's heating up!
 
wballz said:
1stWitIt said:
^you guys are silly if this is your train of thought. And I never said ask, I said have a sit down. No respect.
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Respect?....that was a sign of respect and relief! Dude was happy as hell his daughter was set for life with a stand up dude and he knew he had nothing to worry about her getting stranded with a deadbeat or some loser...lol
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LOl..what a low expectation for a daughter... hahhahahhahaha
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Actually makes sense. Any father that would be happy his daughters boyfriend wouldn't even have a conversation with him about proposing to his daughter likely wouldn't have the highest expectations for her in the first place. No shots, just facts. Nam'sayin. 
 
Chopper said:
wballz said:
1stWitIt said:
^you guys are silly if this is your train of thought. And I never said ask, I said have a sit down. No respect.
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Respect?....that was a sign of respect and relief! Dude was happy as hell his daughter was set for life with a stand up dude and he knew he had nothing to worry about her getting stranded with a deadbeat or some loser...lol
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LOl..what a low expectation for a daughter... hahhahahhahaha
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Actually makes sense. Any father that would be happy his daughters boyfriend wouldn't even have a conversation with him about proposing to his daughter likely wouldn't have the highest expectations for her in the first place. No shots, just facts. Nam'sayin. 
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What do u mean by convo
Like asking permission
Or just giving a heads up
Like I told my girls parents about 2 - 3 months before I proposed
I didn't ask for permission though I just showed them the ring
Told EM what I was gonna do
And asked them to hold on to the ring till it was time
 
nawghtyhare said:
What do u mean by convo
Like asking permission
Or just giving a heads up
Like I told my girls parents about 2 - 3 months before I proposed
I didn't ask for permission though I just showed them the ring
Told EM what I was gonna do
And asked them to hold on to the ring till it was time
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You asked your future in-laws to hold the ring for you? Wow, I don't even trust my in-laws with simple things lol.

But you're exactly right, if you have to talk to her parents to get their approval or blessing. Meet with them and tell them your plans, rather than asking for their approval.

Shows that you have everything planned out and that you're ready to take care of business.
 
I looked at it as a time to talk to my wife's father about our future together and also a time to get some gems from a man that has been married for over 30 years. And something I didn't even think of at the time was, if he wanted to contribute to the wedding financially then it would give him more time to line things up. It's just a respectful gesture.
 
i might be wrong here but i don't think too many people are actually ASKING the father for PERMISSION to marry. in my case, i was just asking for his blessing. i think for most, it's just a sign of respect. if her dad was a bumass deadbeat, i wouldn't have met up with him for that convo.
 
Chopper said:
Actually makes sense. Any father that would be happy his daughters boyfriend wouldn't even have a conversation with him about proposing to his daughter likely wouldn't have the highest expectations for her in the first place. No shots, just facts. Nam'sayin. 
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I was with her for 8 years before we got engaged, living together aswell, now please sit down and quit talking **** ya don't know crap about....talmbout "asking for permission" :lol:

Like I said the convo was had before I popped the question, I TOLD him I was marrying her, he was very pleased and very happy, ask me has he worried about his daughter in any sense of the word since we been together, ya really just like to push my buttons and say the dumbest **** just to look silly as hell.
 
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Ecook0808 said:
My ex wanted me to spend between 15-20 on her rock...

I was like that's 1/4 of what you owe for that degree hanging on the wall
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Seriously? I mean that is a lot. How does one even verbalize that? Was it a passive aggressive request or an all out ultimatum? 

Wow
 
Fozzy Badfeet said:
nawghtyhare said:
What do u mean by convo

Like asking permission

Or just giving a heads up

Like I told my girls parents about 2 - 3 months before I proposed

I didn't ask for permission though I just showed them the ring

Told EM what I was gonna do

And asked them to hold on to the ring till it was time
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You asked your future in-laws to hold the ring for you? Wow, I don't even trust my in-laws with simple things lol.

But you're exactly right, if you have to talk to her parents to get their approval or blessing. Meet with them and tell them your plans, rather than asking for their approval.

Shows that you have everything planned out and that you're ready to take care of business.
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i made sure my girl was the first one to see the ring. just told her parents whats going down.
 
DCAllAmerican said:
Ecook0808 said:
My ex wanted me to spend between 15-20 on her rock...


I was like that's 1/4 of what you owe for that degree hanging on the wall :rofl:
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Seriously? I mean that is a lot. How does one even verbalize that? Was it a passive aggressive request or an all out ultimatum? 

Wow
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Ring shopping will slap you in the face. Probably wanted something huge and then just kept going down in the 4 C's until they settled to spend that much?
 
wballz said:
wow.. 

I'm fortunate with money. But if a chick presents a prerequisite with regards to pricing... effff that.. She's outta here.
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Wasn't a prerequisite just her being like if I'm taking your last name you better drop that 2-3 month salary and she knows what I make lol.

DCAllAmerican said:
Seriously? I mean that is a lot. How does one even verbalize that? Was it a passive aggressive request or an all out ultimatum? 

Wow
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No, just her going with that old 2-3 month salary thing.

In my head in like why not take a 10k ring or whatever and out the rest towards your debt???
 
my advice is keep it reasonable as far as price and use the rest of the money for a nice down payment on a crib. cant have 2 carats VS stone living at the crib bruhs
 
My girl family will find out after she calls them excited. Her pops in prison anyway, even if he wasn't tho that ain't his business. Her moms will find out when she tells them.
 
For me personally, buying a house (my next big purchase) is absolutely coming before I get a wife.
 
I spent like 4-4.5k on my wifes engagement ring and wedding band. Proposed to her in central park on one of those walkway bridges when we were visiting my family around Christmas/ New Years. She was happy as hell :lol:
 
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Food4Thgt said:
Total Carat Weight is what it is.
Total Carat weight
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then i would say shop around. i believe those should be about the going price from most jewelry stores. even department stores like jc penny has sets like those too in that range if thats your budget. might even have like some discounts if you sign up for a jc penny card or something. yes i know its not the ideal place to shop, but if your on that budget, it doesnt hurt to check. of course ill get flamed for suggesting it. :smokin

as you can see the gold to platinum band really makes it jump in price. some women dont care. gold is enough for them. but then theres some who gotta have platinum. but if your lady doesnt care. you already saw for yourself you can save a lot with gold. for some, they cant even distinguish the diff from white gold or paltinum. maybe after a while of looking, they will see the diff between the 2. but if its casual glances with the ring already on the finger, really its hard to tell. women prob just like to brag when they describe the ring to say platinum. but gold is better than ghetto stainless steel lol.

on that note, if you go for gold instead of platinum but you were already willing to spend $3K, find one with a bigger center diamond. there is always something in the price range. if one place doesn't check others. just make sure its a reputable shop so they arent giving you false info on the grading/material etc.
 
asking engagement ring questions on NT? You'll get the moissanite advice :smh: :lol:

I wouldn't go with that 3 months worth of salary. If you really look at the history of engagement rings that "rule" was created by an ad agency for diamonds. They pretty much made up their own price point.
 
JumpmanPro97 said:
asking engagement ring questions on NT? You'll get the moissanite advice
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I wouldn't go with that 3 months worth of salary. If you really look at the history of engagement rings that "rule" was created by an ad agency for diamonds. They pretty much made up their own price point.
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So was the fact that diamonds are actually worth something, but try telling that to a lot of women when you try to go ring shopping. That is NOT the time to have that discussion.
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