True Life: I'm a simp

It's all good to love hard my man. All or nothin. However, its not what you do its how you do it. It starts with your mind. Even when you are in ltr you have to have your YOU time. Be it work, working out, smoking some herb, roaming, meditating etc. You have to have a life outside your relationship. The goal must always be self-improvement. Always. Till death. That seems a bit extreme but if you arent' improving your going to keep on ending up down and out. If the focus becomes you, the power shifts into your hands. It isn't being selfish it's being smart. Have activities that don't involve your chick. I see it happen with my boys and myself in the past. We get comfortable are hobbies go out the window, we stop being mindful. Peace. 
 
In the words of Dante Nero...."Since you know what the problem is...how about you don't  do that next time and see who things work out for you."
 
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stop watching romantic movies.

i swear people like you get these images in their head of what relationships are supposed to be like from these fake *** movies. 

thats the only explanation i could think of where they get these unrealistic expectations of these things work.

oh and be a man. stop letting these girls affect your happiness because realistically you should be the main one who determines when or if you want to be happy
 
Duo Maxwell said:
I've let girls ruin my life because I fell so deep, I must be insane because I never learn. I ended up drinking to cope and its only got me deeper in a hole. Am I the only one? I need help...
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Fitz?

Nah, but really. Learn from your past relationship and move forward. Maybe you're going for the wrong girls.
 
Duo Maxwell said:
I've let girls ruin my life because I fell so deep, I must be insane because I never learn. I ended up drinking to cope and its only got me deeper in a hole. Am I the only one? I need help...
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We've all been there , found that one "Girl" that walk into our life and made us do things we would never do , There's not one dude in this message board that haven't been through it . Self Improvement is key man (work on yourslef , gym w.e )  , as cliche as it may sounds don't depend on another person else to keep you happy . And school is key my man never ever ever let a chick mess with your money . Stay up you'll get through it . I Love hard too man , i know what you're going through .
 
Hashus Clay said:
U need to learn how to love yourself first...
Maybe ur coming off like u are on here...
Too needy.

If u work on bettering yourself, the right women will come to you. Stop chasing women to fill the void.
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Read that over and over OP. Build your inner self.
 
Dont let these **** play with you fam. Too many yambs out here for that
 
I feel you op.... I'm a bigger simp than you. Ive only had one girlfriend and that was 10 years ago. I keep getting put in the friend zone by every female and it's frustrating because these same females complain about wanting a guy like me yet ignore the f outta me... Guess Im ugly and destined to live alone in a single apt in the san fernando valley with an ********* cat. [emoji]128546[/emoji]
 
Lol OP like stated numerous times, invest I'm yourself. When you love yourself, you won't be so obsessed with who else wants your attention.
 
Fam. Heres what ima say.

Go to the gym. Look yourself in the mirror and then lift that weight everytime you picture your ex catching the stroke from the other cat.

By the time you realize that she wont the one for you, you should be jacked and be getting rhythm from other chicks that'll boost your sense of self worth. Also by that time, you'll realize how foolish you were to ever to let someone whos unqualified to hold so much weight on your emotional well being.

I put your recovery timeline at 3-6months
 
OP.. You've got to be careless at times. I have a student who is not all cognitively there, has PTSD, bi-polar but has no care and will spit at a breezy. Lil homie scooped up the cash register lady at Ross when I took dude for a clothing allotment.
Say what's on your mind with these females and keep it G fam
 
I've got a friend who brings these girls around to our crew and they Koo, but he claimed them first so we just sit back and let him get in on it. He always out late night with them, then when they start feeling him and they want to move on to the next phase in being in a relationship, he bounces on them and we never really hear from them again. I think my friend is gay and bringing girls around is a front. He always says that he doesn't like her anymore and she's gross, and she is not my type.
 
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Hashus Clay said:
U need to learn how to love yourself first...
Maybe ur coming off like u are on here...
Too needy.

If u work on bettering yourself, the right women will come to you. Stop chasing women to fill the void.
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I was gonna say. It sounds like this is more about you than anything.
 
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Don Adidada said:
In the words of Dante Nero...."Since you know what the problem is...how about you don't  do that next time and see who things work out for you."
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How does Beige Phillip compare to Black Phillip? Been meaning to check it out
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Its a new show entirely.

The way dante explained is that beige phillip continues the black phillip show concept but takes it in a new direction. Black phillip was mired in a lot of patrice's personal issues with women and thus had a strongly negative bend towards women that dante never had himself.

This new show is about making men better men all around with some emphasis on male/female relationships.
 
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