Prior to proposing, would have a conversation with her parent(s)?

Will you have that pre-proposal convo with them?

  • Course. Just a simple gesture of respect

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  • I would but she doesn't have a good relationship with them so in this case no, otherwise yes

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  • No, that's a simp move

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Chopper

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So… there's a lot of NTers that think it's ridiculous to have a conversation with future wife's parents about your intentions to propose to their daughter. 

It's an age old practice that show's respect and class.

Will you/have you offered that respect to your future wifey/wifey's parent(s)? 

P.S. Not asking permission, rather just a conversation to show respect and let them know your intentions, whether they're supportive of you or not
 
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Depends. Don't meet or want anything to do w/ the parents in interracial relationships.
 
Nah, never that. You in a relationship with the girl, not her parents.

Only time it's acceptable is if it's on some "look ma, I'm about to marry your daughter so right now is your last chance to get this pipe if you really with it."
 
Yep. It's a sign of respect. You're going to be a part of their family, might as well establish some modicum of respect early on and let that continue on so that when it comes time for the big question, they're excited about the idea.
 
Chopper said:
So… there's a lot of NTers that think it's ridiculous to have a conversation with future wife's parents about your intentions to propose to their daughter. 

It's an age old practice that show's respect and class.

Will you/have you offered that respect to your future wifey/wifey's parent(s)? 

P.S. Not asking permission, rather just a conversation to show respect and let them know your intentions, whether they're supportive of you or not
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Have a convo, sure why not...already said in the other thread, is not asking them, is telling them what you plan on doing before hand.
 
Jay Patt said:
Exactly what it reads?
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What's wrong with the parents of interracial relationships?...I'm curious because my SisInLaw is Dominican, her BF is black and we all get along pretty well regardless of the language barrier...so when the time comes I'm sure he will have that convo with my fatherinlaw.
 
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Jay Patt said:
Exactly what it reads?
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What's wrong with the parents of interracial relationships?...I'm curious because my SisInLaw is Dominican, her BF is black and we all get along pretty well regardless of the language barrier...so when the time comes I'm sure he will have that convo with my fatherinlaw.
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Bad experiences. Coo on it for life. I don't have a type... Will date any chick of any ethnicity I vibe with, but im not dealing with or bothering with winning over parents with racist predispositions.

Don't owe the parents anything.
 
Jay Patt said:
Bad experiences. Coo on it for life. I don't have a type... Will date any chick of any ethnicity I vibe with, but im not dealing with or bothering with winning over parents with racist predispositions.

Don't owe the parents anything.
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Because of your personal experience? :nerd:

I see....

Sorry you feel that way bro.
 
i asked for her parents' blessing before i proposed to her.

Just to let them know my intentions were pure and to let her know that i respected her parents enough to let them know of what my plans for us were....
 
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Nah, never that. You in a relationship with the girl, not her parents.

Only time it's acceptable is if it's on some "look ma, I'm about to marry your daughter so right now is your last chance to get this pipe if you really with it."
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What if pops bout dat ****old life famb.

And he says your gotta bang the moms to prove your worth as a man, before he gives you his blessing.

A cat like me, I'll first throw back some Henny and preworkout. Then do a couple glute activated exercises so the stroke is right, and that way I get da maximum pipe acceleration. :smokin.

Then I'll beat that ole box up like my name is Rahzel

Matter-of-fact, I'll have some Guinness in a gatorade bottle next to the bed in case I gotta re-hydrate.

All these are PHACTS, Word is bond baby pa

-Pops gonna be in the corner with his 4K camera mirrin like...

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RustyShackleford said:
What if pops bout dat ****old life famb.

And he says your gotta bang the moms to prove your worth as a man before he gives you his blessing.

A cat like me, I'll throw back some Henny and preworkout. The do a couple glute activated exercises so the stroke is right, and that I get da maximum pipe acceleration :smokin.

Then I'll beat that ole box up like my name is Rahzel

Mattter-of-fact I'll have some Guinness in a gatorade bottle next to the bed in case I gotta re-hydrate.

All these are PHACTS, Word is bond baby pa

-Pops gonna be in the corner with his 4K camera mirrin like...

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.....And then there's that..... :rofl:
 
My wife is El Salvadorian... Her mom never treated me any type of way. We were already together for 6 months before she met me but she lived in Boston while we were in NYC.

Cant say my experience is the same for everyone else but you cant rule out all parents going foward...


I had some good times with her side of the fam... even in El Salvador when u was the only black dude in country...
 
Yes, I did. And my Father-in-law still appreciates me having that conversation with them 11 years later.
 
I'm gonna use Star Wars Episode 2 as a template for my wedding vows. "I don't like sand. It's coarse, ruff, irritating. And it gets everywhere. But not like you. You're every thing soft. And smooth."

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 I asked her dad man to man for her hand in marriage. He isn't an emotional guy, but I'm sure he appreciated it.
 
If I have a daughter and her boyfriend "asks" me for her hand, Ima troll him with a serious face and say no, let that play out for a good week :lol:
 
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