Anyone here attend a wedding of a chick they have history with?

DCAllAmerican said:

Damn Blinks. What ended up happening with her and dude?

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a blinkin said:

I couldn't keep talking to her man. It's almost been an entire year since I cut her out my life completely.

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DCAllAmerican said:

Why didn't the family like you?

And what is the issue with you messing around with his wife's sister? Does she have a disability or something?

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mynameaintG said:

we dated for over a year. her family was racist. couldn't stand their daughter dating an Asian guy. so a lot of the stuff we did involved her sneaking around and what not. just not healthy for anyone now that i look back on it.

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mynameaintG said:

we dated for over a year. her family was racist. couldn't stand their daughter dating an Asian guy. so a lot of the stuff we did involved her sneaking around and what not. just not healthy for anyone now that i look back on it.

i actually tried to holler at the one who got married, before i started dating my ex, but the age difference was too weird i had to pass and go for the older sister.

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a blinkin said:

I had this same dilemma around this same time last year. One of my undergrad joints came through to my spot to kick it. It started innocently enough. I had a night class and she was in town for work, so she was just dropping by for a few mins. We started talking about work, I told her about grad school, etc. then one thing lead to another and she suggested we go to the liquor store for a bottle of Hennessy... You know... For old times sake. I knew where it would lead, and figured I could take a shot or two and catch a quick one before I went to class. She gets the bottle, we pour up, and two shots turns into us killing the bottle (I always admired her drinking skills, she wasn't a lightweight). The talking turns to touching, and we get busy. Zero dambs given about the class. She was always this cool girl with me. The first girl I ever smashed in college actually. We had that type of friendship where she knew not to expect anything serious from me. She knew I was out there getting it in with other girls and didn't mind for the most part. Tried to get into a relationship with me one good time but I curved the idea since I knew it'd never work. So after we get our rocks off, we lay around in my bed and she goes "that shouldn't have happened". I hit her with "well it's never supposed to happen, but we'll be alright". She shakes her head and say "no... This time it really wasn't". Then she goes into the spiel saying she's met someone, she found the ring, and she confirmed that dude was planning a wintertime engagement. I felt bad as hell because I swore off sleeping with girls that were in relationships. In my defense I didn't know. Turns out she came over to my place to talk to me about whether I thought it was a good idea, whether I'd be mad, would I be at the ceremony, etc.

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ELJEFE said:

I didn't get invited to my friends wedding cause It was known I did anal with his now wife back in highschool.

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a blinkin said:

I had this same dilemma around this same time last year. One of my undergrad joints came through to my spot to kick it. It started innocently enough. I had a night class and she was in town for work, so she was just dropping by for a few mins. We started talking about work, I told her about grad school, etc. then one thing lead to another and she suggested we go to the liquor store for a bottle of Hennessy... You know... For old times sake. I knew where it would lead, and figured I could take a shot or two and catch a quick one before I went to class. She gets the bottle, we pour up, and two shots turns into us killing the bottle (I always admired her drinking skills, she wasn't a lightweight). The talking turns to touching, and we get busy. Zero dambs given about the class. She was always this cool girl with me. The first girl I ever smashed in college actually. We had that type of friendship where she knew not to expect anything serious from me. She knew I was out there getting it in with other girls and didn't mind for the most part. Tried to get into a relationship with me one good time but I curved the idea since I knew it'd never work. So after we get our rocks off, we lay around in my bed and she goes "that shouldn't have happened". I hit her with "well it's never supposed to happen, but we'll be alright". She shakes her head and say "no... This time it really wasn't". Then she goes into the spiel saying she's met someone, she found the ring, and she confirmed that dude was planning a wintertime engagement. I felt bad as hell because I swore off sleeping with girls that were in relationships. In my defense I didn't know. Turns out she came over to my place to talk to me about whether I thought it was a good idea, whether I'd be mad, would I be at the ceremony, etc.

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eddiengambino said:

wait, is she white?

If so,

Fulfilling the Asian American dreams

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FlyNY said:

Yall are true savages
(blink good move by cutting her off completely. You don't need that drama in your life)

i always put myself in other people's shoes. So me, as a man, If I saw a cat at MY wedding who I knew had history with my shorty, I don't care if it's her best friend from the sandbox who took her virginity at 17, I'm stepping to dude and putting these size 12 Ferragamo double monkstraps to his forehead. I have no problem with getting blood on my white slacks. You not about to come to my event, eat my food that I paid the caterers for, and enjoy my open bar

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FlyNY said:

Yall are true savages
(blink good move by cutting her off completely. You don't need that drama in your life)

i always put myself in other people's shoes. So me, as a man, If I saw a cat at MY wedding who I knew had history with my shorty, I don't care if it's her best friend from the sandbox who took her virginity at 17, I'm stepping to dude and putting these size 12 Ferragamo double monkstraps to his forehead. I have no problem with getting blood on my white slacks. You not about to come to my event, eat my food that I paid the caterers for, and enjoy my open bar

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a blinkin said:

I had this same dilemma around this same time last year. One of my undergrad joints came through to my spot to kick it. It started innocently enough. I had a night class and she was in town for work, so she was just dropping by for a few mins. We started talking about work, I told her about grad school, etc. then one thing lead to another and she suggested we go to the liquor store for a bottle of Hennessy... You know... For old times sake. I knew where it would lead, and figured I could take a shot or two and catch a quick one before I went to class. She gets the bottle, we pour up, and two shots turns into us killing the bottle (I always admired her drinking skills, she wasn't a lightweight). The talking turns to touching, and we get busy. Zero dambs given about the class. She was always this cool girl with me. The first girl I ever smashed in college actually. We had that type of friendship where she knew not to expect anything serious from me. She knew I was out there getting it in with other girls and didn't mind for the most part. Tried to get into a relationship with me one good time but I curved the idea since I knew it'd never work. So after we get our rocks off, we lay around in my bed and she goes "that shouldn't have happened". I hit her with "well it's never supposed to happen, but we'll be alright". She shakes her head and say "no... This time it really wasn't". Then she goes into the spiel saying she's met someone, she found the ring, and she confirmed that dude was planning a wintertime engagement. I felt bad as hell because I swore off sleeping with girls that were in relationships. In my defense I didn't know. Turns out she came over to my place to talk to me about whether I thought it was a good idea, whether I'd be mad, would I be at the ceremony, etc.

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Kstrick12 said:

I had a friend who I had hooked up with a couple times in the past and she wanted to invite me to her wedding. The sidenote was she had never told her husband about me and just said we were friends. I thought it best not to go because it seemed grimey. She wanted to make sure I didn't say anything about it, while there. I told her lets act like it never happened and I think its best if I don't get an invite.

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StephenB said:

Yes,it wasn't weird,well at least not for me...Went through the receiving line,shook her husbands hand,then gave her a hug and tried to feel the mass but got shut down ...Fast forward two months later at a party with some of mine and hers mutual friends,she shows up and I smash again...They divorced now

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StephenB said:

Yes,it wasn't weird,well at least not for me...Went through the receiving line,shook her husbands hand,then gave her a hug and tried to feel the mass but got shut down

...Fast forward two months later at a party with some of mine and hers mutual friends,she shows up and I smash again...They divorced now

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