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Originally Posted by eddiengambino View Post


wait, is she white?

If so,

Fulfilling the Asian American dreams laugh.gifnthat.gif

:rollin

 

But I completely agree.

post #62 of 89
Yall are true savages
(blink good move by cutting her off completely. You don't need that drama in your life)

i always put myself in other people's shoes. So me, as a man, If I saw a cat at MY wedding who I knew had history with my shorty, I don't care if it's her best friend from the sandbox who took her virginity at 17, I'm stepping to dude and putting these size 12 Ferragamo double monkstraps to his forehead. I have no problem with getting blood on my white slacks. You not about to come to my event, eat my food that I paid the caterers for, and enjoy my open bar laugh.gif
post #63 of 89
Naaahhh...
post #64 of 89
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Yall are true savages
(blink good move by cutting her off completely. You don't need that drama in your life)

i always put myself in other people's shoes. So me, as a man, If I saw a cat at MY wedding who I knew had history with my shorty, I don't care if it's her best friend from the sandbox who took her virginity at 17, I'm stepping to dude and putting these size 12 Ferragamo double monkstraps to his forehead. I have no problem with getting blood on my white slacks. You not about to come to my event, eat my food that I paid the caterers for, and enjoy my open bar laugh.gif

 

Always comes through with the vivid descriptions.

 

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Originally Posted by FlyNY View Post

Yall are true savages
(blink good move by cutting her off completely. You don't need that drama in your life)

i always put myself in other people's shoes. So me, as a man, If I saw a cat at MY wedding who I knew had history with my shorty, I don't care if it's her best friend from the sandbox who took her virginity at 17, I'm stepping to dude and putting these size 12 Ferragamo double monkstraps to his forehead. I have no problem with getting blood on my white slacks. You not about to come to my event, eat my food that I paid the caterers for, and enjoy my open bar laugh.gif

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post #66 of 89
Never..
post #67 of 89
No

I have limits

Just nah man
post #68 of 89
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Originally Posted by a blinkin View Post

I had this same dilemma around this same time last year. One of my undergrad joints came through to my spot to kick it. It started innocently enough. I had a night class and she was in town for work, so she was just dropping by for a few mins. We started talking about work, I told her about grad school, etc. then one thing lead to another and she suggested we go to the liquor store for a bottle of Hennessy... You know... For old times sake. I knew where it would lead, and figured I could take a shot or two and catch a quick one before I went to class. She gets the bottle, we pour up, and two shots turns into us killing the bottle (I always admired her drinking skills, she wasn't a lightweight). The talking turns to touching, and we get busy. Zero dambs given about the class. She was always this cool girl with me. The first girl I ever smashed in college actually. We had that type of friendship where she knew not to expect anything serious from me. She knew I was out there getting it in with other girls and didn't mind for the most part. Tried to get into a relationship with me one good time but I curved the idea since I knew it'd never work. So after we get our rocks off, we lay around in my bed and she goes "that shouldn't have happened". I hit her with "well it's never supposed to happen, but we'll be alright". She shakes her head and say "no... This time it really wasn't". Then she goes into the spiel saying she's met someone, she found the ring, and she confirmed that dude was planning a wintertime engagement. I felt bad as hell because I swore off sleeping with girls that were in relationships. In my defense I didn't know. Turns out she came over to my place to talk to me about whether I thought it was a good idea, whether I'd be mad, would I be at the ceremony, etc. mean.gif

I feel your pain b.

It's happened twice now where I smash a chick and a couple weeks or months later I see an ig post talking about their anniversary of a year, 3 years the second time. I felt kind of bad laugh.gif

Another time some chick was on a break with her guy and I smashed.

Taught me to not trust these women.
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post #69 of 89
This is one reason I don't stay friends with girls. I make them all hate me after.

My only girl friend is getting married. Can't wait to get at all the single ladies!
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post #70 of 89
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Originally Posted by Kstrick12 View Post

I had a friend who I had hooked up with a couple times in the past and she wanted to invite me to her wedding. The sidenote was she had never told her husband about me and just said we were friends. I thought it best not to go because it seemed grimey. She wanted to make sure I didn't say anything about it, while there. I told her lets act like it never happened and I think its best if I don't get an invite.

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post #71 of 89

Marriage is dead

post #72 of 89
Yes,it wasn't weird,well at least not for me...Went through the receiving line,shook her husbands hand,then gave her a hug and tried to feel the mass but got shut down laugh.gif...Fast forward two months later at a party with some of mine and hers mutual friends,she shows up and I smash again...They divorced now
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post #74 of 89
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Yes,it wasn't weird,well at least not for me...Went through the receiving line,shook her husbands hand,then gave her a hug and tried to feel the mass but got shut down laugh.gif...Fast forward two months later at a party with some of mine and hers mutual friends,she shows up and I smash again...They divorced now
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post #75 of 89
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Yes,it wasn't weird,well at least not for me...Went through the receiving line,shook her husbands hand,then gave her a hug and tried to feel the mass but got shut down laugh.gif...Fast forward two months later at a party with some of mine and hers mutual friends,she shows up and I smash again...They divorced now

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post #76 of 89
depends on the type of relationship you had with her and the terms you ended on

if it was strictly a sexual relationship i'd say no, but if you were both mature about things and have remained friends throughout the years i see no problem with it
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post #78 of 89
Some of y'all dudes scumbags. How can u ever consider getting married smashing married *******. Dudes trynna grab *** at weddings smh. Karma is a mfer, y'all better have the DNA test when u reproduce
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post #79 of 89
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Dudes trynna grab *** at weddings smh. Karma is a mfer, y'all better have the DNA test when u reproduce

Aman shows up to my wedding, he won't be able to reproduce. My groomsmen serving hot nuggets to any unfamiliar male faces at my wedding reception, and I ain't talking about McDonald's laugh.gifmean.gif
post #80 of 89
Personally wouldn't recommend going, but every relationship is different and every man is built differently.

My ex hasn't spoken to me in 3 years because I refused to attend her wedding. Made me uncomfortable, avoidable awkward situation(s). Her brother already hated me and I wasn't particularly in the mood to celebrate her union with another man. Not hating, just happy for her from afar. Her logic: "Be present and support my happiness."

I was there for her throughout the lowest points in her life, but I guess a wedding snub is grounds for termination for some. Her husband is the complete opposite of me based on what I've heard. Softer guy that butters her up.
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post #81 of 89
That's too much drama. **** u need that for??
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post #82 of 89
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Damn Blinks. What ended up happening with her and dude?

I couldn't keep talking to her man. It's almost been an entire year since I cut her out my life completely. mean.gif

You're a better man than most.

I could never ******* do it and I've been invited to a few. I know myself too well. The first look I take the wrong way from a friend of the bride and before I know it, the *** hole comment would be out of my mouth.
post #83 of 89
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Originally Posted by StephenB View Post

Yes,it wasn't weird,well at least not for me...Went through the receiving line,shook her husbands hand,then gave her a hug and tried to feel the mass but got shut down laugh.gif...Fast forward two months later at a party with some of mine and hers mutual friends,she shows up and I smash again...They divorced now

thats OD

but the woman is at fault also
post #84 of 89
I would go to plenty of chicks weddings that I had a history with

every chick wasn't the one
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post #85 of 89
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Man if you were giving her the pipe over that long of a period i knew you were going in raw too, could've got real messy if there ever was a "paternity test" situation

Back then I was the pull out king lol. It would've been no doubt who's child it was if there ever was a situation, she's white.
post #86 of 89
I was in one of my best friend's wedding a year ago.

HIs sister and I were high school sweethearts that broke up when we were 18 but I was her first and I was always around the family because her brother and I were college roommates

We are in our early 30s now and even that was awkward even though we hadn't dated in 10+ years.

Everyone kept saying her and my then girlfriend now wife look just alike mean.gif
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post #87 of 89
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I would go to plenty of chicks weddings that I had a history with

every chick wasn't the one

honestly surprised by your answer


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post #88 of 89
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Originally Posted by Hanacheezy View Post

depends on the type of relationship you had with her and the terms you ended on

if it was strictly a sexual relationship i'd say no, but if you were both mature about things and have remained friends throughout the years i see no problem with it

Agreed.

 

Now if she is inviting you to the wedding to try and make you change her mind...Then you have every right to say 'no'. A person who is on the verge of getting married and is still having doubts with their ex is a really big red flag.

 

I'd avoid the drama and move on.

 

When I attended my ex's wedding, we were past that point in our lives and we happily moved on. Hell, I forgot to mention she was even my wife's Matron of Honor lol.

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honestly surprised by your answer


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maybe its dfferent for black NTrs nerd.gif

I think after time I just move on, I def. wouldn't go to my last girl's wedding because I thought she was the one but in a few years I might be like "she def wasn't the one". There is only one chick I really regret what happened between us and I think that's just out of me being immature.

I also dated a lot of chicks who I think I was just with them because they were good in bed and liked to go out and have fun, I matured late and I def. know that laugh.gif
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