Am I the only one that thinks "Hollering"/approaching women on the streets seem to get overrated?

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I know it's in our nature to come to the women, but it seems like in this day and age, some women ego's are through the roof(In a bad way). It's like, saying "hello" is a choir to them and sometimes a man isn't having the intentions of "hollering" at the chick. It's like, they may find you attractive, but they will reject you just for their own self fulfillment/pleasure. Overall, it seems like the best way to get a women is in a mutual gathering or through a mutual friend. Going at a random women on the streets in a respectful manner seems to be a waste of time unless, you're the flashy type that got overpriced clothing that's flexing/stunting. That's a whole different topic lol. What are your thoughts?
 
It's not overrated

It's just females think it's thirsty and what not. Like how else you supposed to talk to a chick? Either on the street or the bar or wherever

I think it's the social media that got stuff twisted
 
Is this even something that can even be considered overrated? Not like it is a drink or a pizza spot.

It is human interaction what the hell can be ok overrated about TALKING
 
It's always gonna depend on the guy. If he looks good enough and carries himself well she will usually surrender. There's a way to holler in a gentlemanly fashion. Leave all that street machismo at the door because you will only attract filth with that method, if anything at all.
 
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I mean I like women so I will continue to approach them, nothing overrated about it. Sounds like you need some confidence in your life playa.
 
Nah. I got no problem talking to a random girl. I prefer it. Way more fun than meeting girls through friends and you already know their story.
 
My job is not to care, if they think i'm thirsty though. I agree chicks are more gassed than ever. But its still the only way to get in some cheeks. On top of that I don't do online game at all. You have to worry about what YOU want and follow your game plan. Majority of them are frontin anyway. 
 
You just need to learn how to approach women better and find a way to lower their guard and differentiate yourself from the masses.
 
come to california..havent had a ***** tell me no one time here...chicago **** are a different story tho
 
It's not overrated, but definitely harder to do in this day and age of social media. These girls heads are so gassed it's ridiculous. I don't holler at females unless the stars align, maybe she is cashing me out and we make good convo or something else. But I honestly never just went up to a random female without prior convo and hollered. Unfortunately I've been getting females off of dating apps and I am ashamed of it, but I really don't go out like that to meet a lot of people.   
 
South Florida has the most entitle women. They think every guy wants them. So untrue. Everywhere else I've been (Houston, Atlanta, Detroit, New York) women will approach you.

Your only hope is women that are 30+ years old. Younger women are very vain and narcissistic (not all). Nobody to blame but yourself, and allowing social media to be your barometer. Women are this way because of lame dudes. Ask an any elder guy about pulling women, and they can easily get women because they have real game. And are outgoing. If you can't get a woman in person, what other outlet are you going to use?

Some women are gassed because of... You dudes with horrible conversation. Ya'll rather text, over talking on the phone. Or in person, I see dudes with the lousiest mindsets getting turned down. And I laugh. Don't take rejection personal. Move on. And stop pillow talking about women too, you mess yourself doing that. Word travels like tree roots.

Approach older women. Older women>young women :lol:
 
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^they don't. Probably got dogged a few times and called it a day.

You don't have to say any certain things. Just talk have a convo get the number if it goes well. Takes 2 minutes. I'd be mad if I saw a good looking girl looking my way and didn't say something. Stop psyching yourselves out. If she's a head case just dog her.
 
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Your only hope is women that are 30+ years old.

Approach older women. Older women>young women
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Who wants used up, ancient yambs?
 
Who wants used up, ancient yambs?

Who wants used up, young yambs? :lol:

A lot of young girls have more partners than older. I'm 27. A 25-30 year old, is considered old? I don't mind over 35, either. You want young yambs, improve your approach then.
 
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Man young girls are so foul. Those are the types to get you burnt up. I'm good. 25+ for me.
 
If they find you attractive they won't reject you....if you getting played, you are not her type, you are ugly or you come off as a creep...is one of those 3 bro....it all depends on the girl...it happens to us all...I haven't approached a female since my teenage years...for one because I'm married but even when I've been single I just never had the energy or thirst level to approach no female...sometimes that intrigues them even more, women are strange bro.
 
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