Am I the only one that thinks "Hollering"/approaching women on the streets seem to get overrated?

I'm very sure the majority of the posters in this thread do no approach women in the street enough to have a legit opinion.


It doesnt matter what you SAY as much as what you DO. As long as you give off a vibe that youre not threatening or selling her something you'll be in good shape. Most girls during the day time will be more receptive to approaches than the night time because they dont get approached often.
 
its all about your appearance when approaching...

for instance, i like to wear a suit and pretend I'm either going to or attending an important business function, that way i appear well kept and successful...ive approached dozens of women using this technique, and while it hasn't worked yet, they at least say something instead pretending I'm not even there...pick up artisty is a game of inches

This is exactly the opposite of what you should do
 
If op means talkin to a girl u never met b4 i disagree.

The right setting....right vibe....right girl.
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Ability is nothing without opportunity
 
 
its all about your appearance when approaching...

for instance, i like to wear a suit and pretend I'm either going to or attending an important business function, that way i appear well kept and successful...ive approached dozens of women using this technique, and while it hasn't worked yet, they at least say something instead pretending I'm not even there...pick up artisty is a game of inches
 
random women approaching yall in da streets like that eh?
its not just a myth?
gotta save up for da face transplant then

its all about your appearance when approaching...

for instance, i like to wear a suit and pretend I'm either going to or attending an important business function, that way i appear well kept and successful...ive approached dozens of women using this technique, and while it hasn't worked yet, they at least say something instead pretending I'm not even there...pick up artisty is a game of inches

gotta jelq up and let da inches do da approaching for you.
 
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It's not overrated

It's just females think it's thirsty and what not. Like how else you supposed to talk to a chick? Either on the street or the bar or wherever

I think it's the social media that got stuff twisted


My job is not to care, if they think i'm thirsty though. I agree chicks are more gassed than ever. But its still the only way to get in some cheeks. On top of that I don't do online game at all. You have to worry about what YOU want and follow your game plan. Majority of them are frontin anyway. 


South Florida has the most entitle women. They think every guy wants them. So untrue. Everywhere else I've been (Houston, Atlanta, Detroit, New York) women will approach you.

Your only hope is women that are 30+ years old. Younger women are very vain and narcissistic (not all). Nobody to blame but yourself, and allowing social media to be your barometer. Women are this way because of lame dudes. Ask an any elder guy about pulling women, and they can easily get women because they have real game. And are outgoing. If you can't get a woman in person, what other outlet are you going to use?

Some women are gassed because of... You dudes with horrible conversation. Ya'll rather text, over talking on the phone. Or in person, I see dudes with the lousiest mindsets getting turned down. And I laugh. Don't take rejection personal. Move on. And stop pillow talking about women too, you mess yourself doing that. Word travels like tree roots.

Approach older women. Older women>young women :lol:

Co-signing the posts above.



What a wench

If they find you attractive they won't reject you....if you getting played, you are not her type, you are ugly or you come off as a creep...is one of those 3 bro....it all depends on the girl...it happens to us all...I haven't approached a female since my teenage years...for one because I'm married but even when I've been single I just never had the energy or thirst level to approach no female...sometimes that intrigues them even more, women are strange bro.

This man knows. I agree, brotha'.


Also another thing, what's up with girls expecting you to buy them drinks when you don't even know them? I ain't giving you anything just cause you're pretty. If I know the chick, I will, otherwise, no.

I had this one chick dance on me for two songs in the bar... Asked me to get her a drink and i caught on her game quick. She just wanted a free drink. She thought i was a fool. :lol: Try again :lol:
 
Honestly NT family, i don't get women. I have no problem approaching a woman at all... HOWEVER, if the woman looks overly attractive or stands out.... I don't even bother approaching. Reason being i am a pessimist and i already assume she's a front because so many men have tried to run game on her. The problem with me if after procuring the number, there is no response or very very little communication.

It's like, "WHY DIDNT YOU JUST SHUT ME DOWN THEN?!" or "WHY BOTHER GIVING OUT YOUR NUMBER IN THE FIRST PLACE?!". Do women just not know how to say "No" to men? Ignoring people calling and texting you takes alot more energy than telling them up front "I'm not interested, right now" or "I am involved with someone else."

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Honestly NT family, i don't get women. I have no problem approaching a woman at all... HOWEVER, if the woman looks overly attractive or stands out.... I don't even bother approaching. Reason being i am a pessimist and i already assume she's a front because so many men have tried to run game on her. The problem with me if after procuring the number, there is no response or very very little communication.

It's like, "WHY DIDNT YOU JUST SHUT ME DOWN THEN?!" or "WHY BOTHER GIVING OUT YOUR NUMBER IN THE FIRST PLACE?!". Do women just not know how to say "No" to men? Ignoring people calling and texting you takes alot more energy than telling them up front "I'm not interested, right now" or "I am involved with someone else."

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They were probably interested in you and then you began to bore them or you start saying some other **** in y'alls texting convos...

How do they usually go...
 
I used to get that spin sometimes when I was younger but women usually just shut me down if their not interested 
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Once you get over the rejection part talking to random women is so much fun.
 
That's lame I'm sorry bra be yourself once they find out your a fraud she's gonna disappear... That's like this dude told me he always walks around with a manila folder with papers in there people assume he's important

That's why these chicks are like that.

Just imagine everyday no matter what you wearing, some random dudes always gotta make a comment or pretend to be something he's not.

You young bucks don't realize how refreshing it is for a guy to just have a normal conversation with them. Make them smile and forget about all the corny things some guy on the street said in passing.

Be yourself brahs.

The women might actually like you for something you may be oblivious to.
 
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its all about your appearance when approaching...

for instance, i like to wear a suit and pretend I'm either going to or attending an important business function, that way i appear well kept and successful...ive approached dozens of women using this technique, and while it hasn't worked yet, they at least say something instead pretending I'm not even there...pick up artisty is a game of inches

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Lmao

My mans said the **** ain't worked yet tho.
 
Also, women can smell ulterior motives from a mile away. Like, really approach them on the friendship level first. All vagina, ain't good vagina. Learn to talk to women, without always seeking some type of prize (phone number, intercourse, etc.) keep it platonic, with some.
 
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Also, women can smell ulterior motives from a mile away. Like, really approach them on the friendship level first. All vagina, ain't good vagina. Learn to talk to women, without always seeking some type of prize (phone number, intercourse, etc.) keep it platonic, with some.
LIES

Women believe what they want to believe for the most part.

If that was the case it would be a lot of dry **** dudes walking around.

If I have no interest in you other then casual dating and sex, I'll basically tell you whatever you want to hear.
 
Title sounds like something a dude whos scared to approach women would say.
 
When it comes to hollering I would keep in mind that women have preferences. If you don't look like her type from the beginning it's a uphill battle. But either way just look at it as meeting a new person then build to your true intentions. Some guys are gifted enough to do that faster than others. And just have fun. Don't take it all so serious. Thier reaction doesn't matter like some random on here hating on us. Who cares. Keep on trucking. Hollering isn't a lost art. I think it's refreshing for all involved in this cell phone age.
 
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it really doesn't matter if you're ugly, attractive, wearing a suit, sweats, all that matters is when you do approach her, the conversation you two have is enjoyable and fun. all these girls want is someone fun.
 
I'll be the first to admit, I definitely don't get any women! Although, I'm 6'4" and people say I'm attractive(If it's not BS). I think my issue is, I don't think I know my worth and a lot of times I'm super green on a lot of situations in regards to women. I'm clearly fighting a battle amongst myself to find my zone. I tend to be socially awkward in most cases because I'm not really a outgoing person that women get their panties soaked after. I know we're all misunderstood in our own way, but I think my version of being misunderstood is above the average. People think I'm a lame for deciding not to do things the average 28 year old do. People hate that I speak proper English 24/7. People say I sound "White", which I don't know exactly what that means. Maybe that's why I'm super shy towards women.

In my defense, I feel as though women get complimented 99% of the time and if I try to holler at her, I would just be a statistic to her hundreds of men that flock to her. So, I just don't see the point of approaching her knowing it's not going to get anywhere(especially, if she's an overly attractive women). I just think it's going to be a difficult task for me to be more comfortable about myself and my surroundings. I just have that "Me against the world" mentality. Stuff sucks, man..smh
 
you got a whole lot of excuses up there b. you need 3 things:

confidence
a fun, playful conversation that makes the girl feel like she's winning you over
an ability to gradually make your conversations sexy by dropping innuendos, gauging her responses and seeing where you can go
 
I know it's in our nature to come to the women, but it seems like in this day and age, some women ego's are through the roof(In a bad way). It's like, saying "hello" is a choir to them and sometimes a man isn't having the intentions of "hollering" at the chick. It's like, they may find you attractive, but they will reject you just for their own self fulfillment/pleasure.
I place some of the blame on social media.

Chick takes 100 selfies, picks one with the right angle, filters it up, posts it on IG and get 200 likes with a few thirsty comments. Self worth immediately increases and treatment of others is a reflection of that.

Not saying it's all females, but it's more common today.
 
I'll be the first to admit, I definitely don't get any women! Although, I'm 6'4" and people say I'm attractive(If it's not BS). I think my issue is, I don't think I know my worth and a lot of times I'm super green on a lot of situations in regards to women. I'm clearly fighting a battle amongst myself to find my zone. I tend to be socially awkward in most cases because I'm not really a outgoing person that women get their panties soaked after. I know we're all misunderstood in our own way, but I think my version of being misunderstood is above the average. People think I'm a lame for deciding not to do things the average 28 year old do. People hate that I speak proper English 24/7. People say I sound "White", which I don't know exactly what that means. Maybe that's why I'm super shy towards women.

In my defense, I feel as though women get complimented 99% of the time and if I try to holler at her, I would just be a statistic to her hundreds of men that flock to her. So, I just don't see the point of approaching her knowing it's not going to get anywhere(especially, if she's an overly attractive women). I just think it's going to be a difficult task for me to be more comfortable about myself and my surroundings. I just have that "Me against the world" mentality. Stuff sucks, man..smh
Bruh, nobody thinks that stuff about you.

YOU think that stuff about you.

I'm not out going at all and still get laid consistently.

I was where you were when I broke up with my BM, once you get a bit of confidence in yourself, you'll flourish 
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NT like most dudes in real life be beating themselves.

These women are out here for the picking man.

Seriously.
 
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