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damn bro that's some relatable **** because i usually go to parties and go out while my girl is quiet and a good girl who is a straight A student. i respect you for even sharing something like this to me.I was with the same chick from the beginning of 9th grade up to our sophomore year of college. She was a good girl that didn't party or go out unless with me. I was the one partying and going out during high school, the roles completely switched in college. I was all caught up into her but still in my ways. I guess I was a bit controlling, mainly because I was allowed to. My word was always bond. That went out the window after she start hanging with certain females and start getting all this attention from dudes. I'm in the dorm room waiting for late night calls while she's out shaking her *** or doing whatever. This became a problem for me and we broke up only to get back together a few months later before sophomore year started. By then the control was in her hand. I knew it was over once she asked if it was ok if she took money from other dudes. One day we were suppose to hook up and she wouldn't answer for hours. She came by later and broke up with me. Spent the next few days trying to get her back. After ignoring my calls for a while she finally answered and said look I have a boyfriend, I stuck with you for so long because you were my identity in high school. Cue the Ralph Wiggum heartbreak gif. Took months to get over that. Smashing didn't even help. She would call months later to apologize and explain. In the end I'm grateful our relationship happened, not sad that it ended. I learned a lot from it, she was a light for me.
I do believe, though, things would've been different had we went to the same college.