Am I wrong

Mr.Guy

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A so called friend went on a rant and tried to attack my character on Facebook. He made up a whole bunch of nonsense about me and talked a whole bunch of ish for everyone to see.He said personal ish about me that I told him in private. Because he attacked me and betrayed our friendship in response I called him a wife beater and posted his criminal record which backed up my argument against him. Dude was talking ish about me with no proof or nothing to back it up so I responded with the facts. He betrayed my trust and friendship and later hit me up saying he was mad that I posted his domestic violence charges. I told him f him and since he betrayed my trust there was nothing off limits. He really said some damaging ish. I've been making changes in my life, not hanging out, handling business in school, working hard, not drinking, and a lot of my past friends don't like the new me, so they constantly try to pull me down and tell me I'm not ish and just because I'm sober and trying to get my life together that I'm still the wild and wreck less guy they know from the past. Was I wrong???
 
Sounds like your homie is not really a homie. Did he do this out of the blue?

And also remember: "People want you to do well, but not better than them."
 
I responded to another homies post about politics and he got mad and attacked me personally.
 
So he made up the personal things you told him?
He mixed in truths with half truths. Some of it was the truth and a lot of it was exaggerated made up ish. What I told him about me was ish I told him in privacy and I wasn't expecting him to tell other people. The personal stuff I told him wasn't for other people to know about.
 
 
So he made up the personal things you told him?
He mixed in truths with half truths. Some of it was the truth and a lot of it was exaggerated made up ish. What I told him about me was ish I told him in privacy and I wasn't expecting him to tell other people. The personal stuff I told him wasn't for other people to know about.
He's a terrible "friend" who lets his emotions control him. All of this resulted from a political discussion? This is further proof why you don't discuss politics in public overall.

Drop this deadweight from your life. The best revenge is living well.
 
Leave it alone lol

Ol boy sounds like scum and youre trying to better yaself right?
Well then be above the bs.

You treat people the way u do because of who you are, not who they are.
 
In all seriousness though,  you're not in the wrong.  It's unfortunate, but when you get clean not only do you have to flush your drug of choice down the drain, but your old friends/any bad influences have to go with it.

Dude sounds like a crab in a bucket.  I wouldn't lose sleep over it.
 
Leave it alone lol

Ol boy sounds like scum and youre trying to better yaself right?
Well then be above the bs.

You treat people the way u do because of who you are, not who they are.
Youre right I just deleted my comments and unfriended ol boy.
 
OP - Did you try changing your name on fb?
No, as crazy as it sounds I'm not as wreckless on Facebook as I am on NT. I have cousins, aunts, family etc. on my page that wouldn't approve of my wreckless life on the past so for the most part I didn't post a lot on my fb page.
 
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You did the right thing bro. Exposed him for who he was. Don't hold any punches, when you feel disrespected. I would not have any remorse for dude. That is one reason why I don't have many male friends (Except relatives). You pulled the joker card out the deck on him, it seems :lol:

I don't give "friends" second chances. You betray me once, and it's over. Dude does not seem genuine. Glad you owned up to your mistakes, and sought change. Some dudes just are not worth being associated with. If a man can't admit his faults, steer clear of them.
 
1. Username to post ratio is strong.

2. You had every right to do what you did. He attacker your character and you responded showing his true nature with  facts. Everything he says can be called into question just off the strength of his own past.

3. You're working to be better. Perhaps he misses hanging out with you, perhaps he even felt he was better than you at one point and now that's changing. Either way it's time to move on. Make some new friends. It sucks to say this but a lot of times people think loyalty means carrying deadbeats around with you just because you've known them for years. People grow, relationships change, life, goes on.
 
So why did he do this to you? He just woke up out the blue and decided to talk trash? I feel like I'm only seeing half the story
 
Of course it's wrong lol, the **** are you asking? It was petty on all ends. But don't start a war and expect no consequences, that's silly. **** that *****.
 
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