Married NTers...When did you know he/she was the one?

Best advice I could give to y'all is to pray to the Lord and ask him to give you a sign.
 
It's not about knowing. It's all about the process. If you both work together and pick each other up when ***** down, then you'll kinda know. But I don't think you'll ever know
 
its nice to see some guys still actually believe in marriage..im personally not married or see myself being married anytime soon but i would assume that when you know you know 
 
When we got into a fight at Red Lobster over some dumb ****.... this was like 1 month into the relationship. I called her a *****, she called me a psycho, we had make up sex and ever since then we been inseparable. 
 
spent a lot of time daydreaming about different decisions I could have made. Sometimes I'd think about how great it would be to transport my mind back in time to live my life knowing what I know now.

I realized some time after I met her that I stopped daydreaming about that; I started thinking about how I'd have to do everything exactly the same so I'd still meet her.

funny
She nonchalantly took a can of Old Bay out of her purse to season her fries while we were sitting in the food court of our college student union. I asked, "do you always carry Old Bay with you?" "Not always," she replied.
 
my theory is that marriage will make a comeback among younger folks down the road, more so for financial reasons though ... 
 
my theory is that marriage will make a comeback among younger folks down the road, more so for financial reasons though ... 

I see quite a few of that in the DC metro area. Folks just cohabitate and fall in love with the idea of the nice big house and cars, but you don't see the love between them.
 
When I realized I could completely be myself around her. The first time I had the thought was when I told her my favorite shows were The Simpsons and Friends. She laughed and said mine too. This was in 2005 btw, if you're wondering about the shows lol. I held nothing back of the type of person I was when we first started and she loved it. It allowed her to open up more than she ever had.
 
I ain't married but this how I know she is the one. We met 6 years ago to date BTW. But I am in no way an affectionate person. I don't like kissing, holding hands and cuddling after sex irritates the hell out of me. I kiss her everyday, I hold her hand when I drive sometimes and out of the large number of women I've been with in my life she's the only one I hold after I let loose.

I knew I really cared about her when I got caught cheating once and the hurt in her eyes and crying made me sad as hell. When I legit got sad, I knew my scumbag ways were coming to an end.
 
Not gone lie, cheating can open your eyes and heart. Found myself cheating with this chick I worked with back in 08. I remember being in her truck, trying to hit from the back, thinking the entire time wtf am I doing here? Barely stroking that *** thinking of how loyal, trusting, and loving my lady was. I pulled a chick moved and faked one and got my *** up out of there. Went home and washed myself with vinegar. It was very hard to do but I told my lady about it. She was very hurt but accepted I told her the truth. She understood when we first started I wasn't looking for anything serious. I laid it out there I was looking to have fun but wanted her to be the Kobe of my team. If you know anything about the Lakers back then Kobe was the team, lol. Just had some lust leftover, in the end it wasn't worth it.
 
My man I hope u told her that before you got married.

That's a trump card waiting to hit you in the face.

I'm a strong believer in deny till you die if you messup. Just my opinion still, good on you for clearing it up wit her.

I been married almost a year now, can't tell you how I knew but well see what God has in the way.
 
My man I hope u told her that before you got married.

That's a trump card waiting to hit you in the face.

I'm a strong believer in deny till you die if you messup. Just my opinion still, good on you for clearing it up wit her.

I been married almost a year now, can't tell you how I knew but well see what God has in the way.
Yup. Unless u got me on camera it wasn't me, they lying. When I got caught I spinned it, all she got is text but none of me incriminating myself. Only from lady on the receiving end of this d.
 
My man I hope u told her that before you got married.

That's a trump card waiting to hit you in the face.

I'm a strong believer in deny till you die if you messup. Just my opinion still, good on you for clearing it up wit her.

I been married almost a year now, can't tell you how I knew but well see what God has in the way.
Yeah it was before.
 
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