What is love????.....VOL...Baby don't hurt me.

Love is about learning and growing. Hate creeps in and disrupts the process. If you recognize hate and remove the trigger before it happens,,,,

you're in love
 
 
Love is a chemical reaction in your brain sparked by your experiences, your preferences, physical attraction and many times a single spontaneous event. Many couples can recount the exact moment they fell in love. There's a reason why its called "falling in love" not "planning to love".

The whole real love is commitment thing sounds like you've been reading one of those cosmopolitan, how to save my relationship books. You can LOVE someone and not be fully committed to them.
laugh.gif
@ cosmopolitan.  But the main point I want to drive home, which I was originally addressing to OP's question and I think we both agree on, "falling in love" does not disrupt our world of free will.  You can absolutely love someone and not be fully committed to them because you choose how to love someone.  You can not "fall in love" with someone that you don't want to.  It's all controllable. Therefore the meaning of love, outside of natural love (ie family), is commitment.  "Falling out of love" is purely just making a decision whether to be committed to something / someone.  The same goes for it's opposite.
 
I once was told, "Love is an illusion that is shared by two people. Eventually someone wakes up, hopefully you're first".
 
i think true love is an unexplainable, one-of-a-kind bond you have with one person. this special bond you have with your beloved can't be (or wasn't) satisfied with anyone else. and it just feels so right. it makes you the happiest you've ever been. to me, you want to do everything you can to make them happy and feel comfortable without asking for anything in return. their happiness makes you happy. you can be your genuine self around this person without any fear of them loving you any less, because they accept you as a whole, flaws and all. and vise versa. all your insecurities are gone because of this, and the bond, comfort level, and trust between you two becomes even deeper. so comfortable to the point where you can shamelessly burp, fart, and poop around them
laugh.gif
.

love isn't perfect, however. **** happens, but when it does, you and your loved one fuse as a team and find the solution together to become stronger. 

ultimately, due to the bond of true love, the notion of "forever" actually starts making sense.

i guess me being genuinely happy in love for the first time helps,
laugh.gif
.
 
Last edited:
I've been in love twice. The second time being this all-encompassing constant euphoric feeling of bliss that it made me question if I had ever been in love previously. Love is having the time of your life merely watching movies on a Sunday afternoon. Love is yearning for the affection of another immediately after departing from their presence. Love is truly a feeling and not an expression or a definition. If it feels like a magic trick that nevers get old then it might be love. If you've ever done drugs, then you know that a high wears off over time. Love is the pinnacle of that high through a sustained amount of time. It's a very dope feeling and I hope everyone gets to experience it.

The converse of love, however, is a mother f. No pain like lost love. I'd rather be shot than experience it again.
bruh you should write scripts for romance movies
 
Love is


You :Hey babe do you want somthing to eat

Her : nope im ok

You:frown: get food and start to eat)

Her: (reaches in and snipe pieces of your food)

You : ( dont get mad)


Love
 
I have a hard time keeping a chick around for a couple weeks before in tired/bored of shorty , can't even imagine love right now :lol: ...but I def wanna know what love is one day [emoji]128546[/emoji]
 
you know when you meet someone and everything clicks......and you think you love them....like " oh yea this is it....i definitely love this girl"

and theres that feeling, like at the apex of your relationship where you're saying to yourself, yea this is what everybody was talking about....youre nicer to people, your overall in a better mood, like this is it i love this girl i feel great.

okay so say that relationship for whatever reason ends....was that "love"?

and if so, can that feeling you had at the height of that relationship, can that be topped?

To me, and in my experience, if things don't work out for whatever reason, you can always find someone you have equal feelings for or even like more.

but

a part of me thinks that you can reach that highest high of feeling with an individual and that cant be duplicated.




i think lol.
 
Back
Top Bottom