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Does player 2 look like a threat?
U know the answer op
U know the answer op
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Dating Advice: When is it acceptable for your girl to give out her number?
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Homeboy been had da number
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ahhh good ol NT always delivers the comment Lulz.
In all srsness i want to say youre overreacting a little bit but then again i dont know shorty and her personality so at this point im really cant say much.
In all srsness i want to say youre overreacting a little bit but then again i dont know shorty and her personality so at this point im really cant say much.
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So you saying I'm overreacting?Y'all cats are something else when your pride gets hurt.
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Brah just end it and learn from your L. Judging by your story, you need to work on your self-esteem.
Two questions:
How long were you guys with homeboy's dog before he showed up? Sounds like a **** dog owner.
How the hell do you go on 10 dates in 1 month and you're "still getting to know each other"?
No disrespect.
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1) Dogs probably playing together for a good hour. I think the owner was with his friends further down the beach, it was a small secluded beach, with lots of people.
2) I mean 1 month the way I saw things we weren't exclusive. I can't commit to someone after just 4 weeks. Plus I was seeing other girls at the time and not looking for a relationship. But she was pressing for it after 2 weeks. I wouldn't consider me sleeping with the other chick "cheating" in the first month because I didn't promise her anything. The only reason I brought that up was because despite being very upset about another girl visiting, she was able to live with it after I rationalized with her. So think about it, if I drop her because she gave her number to another dude in front of me, how does that make me look when she allowed me to have a female stay in my apartment for a week?
Self esteem wise honestly I think I'm pretty healthy. This relationship just accelerated recently to something more serious (asked me to go to a couple weddings with her, took me to her work functions, so after seeing this at the beach I'm just thinking should I pump the breaks and say it's a wrap before we get 2 deep
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Unless your wife is in school, and a man wants to help him tutor or she's seeking tutaliage. Other than that, it's not permissible.
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dont date chicks with dogs.
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Yep.
She already has a dog in her life fam, she doesn't need another. Now she just wants to meat the owners.
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Damnit Niketalk, don't do this to me....not tonight.
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Nah dude. What I was getting at is 10 dates is a lot for 1 month. I would say the getting to know you stage is done after 3-4 dates IMO... I mean how much do you need to learn about a girl. Not saying you have to call her your GF. I wouldn't have so soon, but I wouldn't say you were still "getting to know each other". Pressing for a relationship after two weeks is clingy so I feel you on that, but you said you felt bad for sleeping with a chick after a month so you did feel like you cheated in some way.
The self-esteem part I was referring to was the fact that you feel like the relationship is moving toward something serious in your eyes yet you won't call her you GF and get upset about her giving her number away to a dude for a play date. If you don't feel like she's your GF then that shouldn't bother you....I personally don't think it should bother you at all if your confident in yourself and trust her.
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what you did there. I seent it
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lolz i knew NT was going to come with the heat. Ya'll go ahead
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Think it's kinda obvious she did that to find out where you guys stand by gauging your reaction -- the typical if you get jealous and feel sum typa way, then you really care about her and wanna take that next step and you let her know that. She taking you to social events n **** and introducing you as her bf? She basically tryna find out if she's wasting her time or not.
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How you date 1 chick ten times in 1 month and have other ****. The hell
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Sounds like a ratchet *** problem I woulda had when I was in my low 20s dealing with birds
Not saying it was a bird move or she's one. Just saying to get a headache over a girl talking to another dude and stuff.
Not saying it was a bird move or she's one. Just saying to get a headache over a girl talking to another dude and stuff.
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Bruh. Just stay with the girl. Did she violate?. according to the male ego , yes she did. But understand she's a woman and she probably had no idea you would have a problem with her actions.(female logic). Foolish pride will get you nowhere. Check her on it. Tell her how you feel and move on. You have to teach her the do's and don'ts the rights and wrongs according to what you're comfortable with. Don't just drop the chick for an error... Listen, I met a woman 7 years ago and told her I didn't want a relationship. I just wanted to hit the skins. 7 years later after going through about 4 years of every reason possible for us both to leave each other we're happily married and I couldn't imagine life without her.. My point is you never know what could happen. And you obviously aren't sure about dropping her or else you wouldn't be seeking advice. Don't drop her. At least not yet..
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Since she's not your girl officially, she doesn't owe you commitment and vice versa.
And she refers to you as her bf while you stay quiet. Why didn't you either confirm it or dead it?
And she refers to you as her bf while you stay quiet. Why didn't you either confirm it or dead it?
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Doesn't matter if she's his girl or not. If he's hitting it, she's tripping giving her number out to another dude in front of him. That's a no-no, girlfriend or not. She not about to have another dude thinking he got the juice now right in front of him. That's not what she was thinking. But it's what he was thinking..
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So, would he rather she got a dudes number behind his back while he wasn't around?! There's really no right answer for this but in my opinion, he's overreacting to this
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No. It's obviously wrong either way. And yes, he is overreacting but we've all done it in one way or another so I understand. But he shouldn't just cut her off.. Not yet. Wait for a real reason if it ever comes..
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So it was like this, but with dogs, sand and water OP?
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you didn't want to commit to her.
she played you for it.
but you can't say anything because you were seeing other girls early on
Now that you can't say anything, you just want to dead her.
you played yourself.
if she's worth it, make it clear that this bs is unacceptable and just make it official already.
she played you for it.
but you can't say anything because you were seeing other girls early on
Now that you can't say anything, you just want to dead her.
you played yourself.
if she's worth it, make it clear that this bs is unacceptable and just make it official already.
