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She's basically a restricted free agent. She got an offer from another team now it's up to you to match or let her walk.
Dating Advice: When is it acceptable for your girl to give out her number?
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This belongs in the fools wilding out thread
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Just have an adult conversation with her and make your decision accordingly. This is an open and shut case, OP
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As with most cases, your first instinct is usually accurate. I try to place myself in your situation, and in your original and follow up posts you provide sufficient context. What strikes me most about the incident is that she did this in front of you. Now despite what you feel about the situation, objectively it is reasonable to conclude that she did not think what she did was wrong/thot-like. That being said, regardless of context no girl of mine should be ignorant to the fact that getting another dudes number is a zero sum game. Meaning your girl is either passive aggressive-which in and of itself is a turn off, or naive.
I am leaning towards her being passive aggressive and using this as an opportunity to initiate a conversation about furthering the relationship. Regardless of the outcome, you should tell her that by tricking in front of you she played herself. If you do stick to your guns, let it be known that you saw through her lazy attempt at stunting and that you are a cat person anyway.
I am leaning towards her being passive aggressive and using this as an opportunity to initiate a conversation about furthering the relationship. Regardless of the outcome, you should tell her that by tricking in front of you she played herself. If you do stick to your guns, let it be known that you saw through her lazy attempt at stunting and that you are a cat person anyway.
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And you were smashing other girls.
But you gonna get mad over a phone number, like if you're being a saint yourself
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She is single. You did not want a commitment.
I don't see anything wrong here. She wanted a commitment, but you did not.
Of course, if you guys are exclusive to each other, there is merit to your supposed dilemma. But you guys aren't.
I don't see anything wrong here. She wanted a commitment, but you did not.
Of course, if you guys are exclusive to each other, there is merit to your supposed dilemma. But you guys aren't.
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She shouldn't have given her number out inthat situation.
You're not overreacting at all.
Get rid of her.
You're not overreacting at all.
Get rid of her.
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Might as well Dp her now bruh...
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OP
You cheated
You haven't committed or don't plan on it
You've had other chicks visit etc in the past
Chick did disrespect you in this situation, but honestly can you blame her?
Just dead the "relationship" my g. Clearly you don't have real feelings for her, and she is acting out trying to get a reaction from you.
You cheated
You haven't committed or don't plan on it
You've had other chicks visit etc in the past
Chick did disrespect you in this situation, but honestly can you blame her?
Just dead the "relationship" my g. Clearly you don't have real feelings for her, and she is acting out trying to get a reaction from you.
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Oh and....
I bet the dude was good looking huh?
Homie came down with his chiseled 6 pack, running slow motion like David Hasselhoff in Baywatch.
Grabbed his dog and posed like Captain Morgan, revealing his meat print like Chris Hemsworth in Vacation.
You probably caught your girl staring at his meat! Because let's be real bro... if he was ugly and fat, you would have NO problem with this.
But since you feel threatened, his muscularity aroused you, yet intimidated you.
I bet the dude was good looking huh?
Homie came down with his chiseled 6 pack, running slow motion like David Hasselhoff in Baywatch.
Grabbed his dog and posed like Captain Morgan, revealing his meat print like Chris Hemsworth in Vacation.
You probably caught your girl staring at his meat! Because let's be real bro... if he was ugly and fat, you would have NO problem with this.
But since you feel threatened, his muscularity aroused you, yet intimidated you.
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That's everybody's girl Fam
And like the homie above me stated. You were definitely feeling like the dude she exchanged numbers with was a threat. If he was 50 plus you wouldn't have cared one bit.
And like the homie above me stated. You were definitely feeling like the dude she exchanged numbers with was a threat. If he was 50 plus you wouldn't have cared one bit.
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Shes probably playing with his dog right now.
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Give us one body pic and NT will let you know if you should break it off.
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Nah just break it off.
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men and women exchange numbers "everyday, b" for a number of reasons
NT acting like every girl who's # they got wanted to give them the ***, yet telling tales of the friendzone in TAY
if your girl is trustworthy and wants to be your girl, as you outlined, what you worried about? it could have strictly been so her dog as friend and you over here bugging out... does she have a pattern of this kind of behavior? is she a naturally friendly person? gotta put all that into perspective before you make assumptions.... again, from how you described her, she's a good girl in your eyes
should have just chilled and waited to see if she started texting the dude or if she invited you when the dogs went out to play
NT acting like every girl who's # they got wanted to give them the ***, yet telling tales of the friendzone in TAY
if your girl is trustworthy and wants to be your girl, as you outlined, what you worried about? it could have strictly been so her dog as friend and you over here bugging out... does she have a pattern of this kind of behavior? is she a naturally friendly person? gotta put all that into perspective before you make assumptions.... again, from how you described her, she's a good girl in your eyes
should have just chilled and waited to see if she started texting the dude or if she invited you when the dogs went out to play
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Nah, Im all about limiting the chances of temptations.
That wouldn't fly with me.
I also don't **** with girls with no respect so I guesd that's it.
Its just a tastless disrespectful thing to do.
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It's disrespectful in her end, at the end of the day. Women are damb idiots so she'll think it's innocent. You ****** up before, so karma or whatever came back for you. Take the L, sweep it under the rug or move on.
