Silly things that are deal breakers to you in a relationship?

-Loudmouths
-Slobs
-Expects me to do certain things because "I'm the man", even though she's more than capable of doing them
-Watches Friends or the Big Bang Theory
-Wears jeans with no back pockets
-Constantly on social media/posting selfies (general attention-seeking behavior)
-Still in the "yummy" phase when it comes to food (can't appreciate fine dining/not open to trying anything new)
-Wears wild hats...I'm not letting you out of the house with that thing on


Friends is an excellent show.


Spectacular at that
 
Is that why you're always using cats or some form of them in your avy?

Everything else seems normal to me, besides the motorcycle thing. Why no motorcycles?

:lol: you mentioning flirting TWICE


I have two friends who had BF that died from a motor cycle crash.
I always hated those things and two months ago I passed by a dead body next to a motor cycle. Im good.

We all gon die, but I think bikes are too reckless. You cant be the father of my child and drive on what I view as a death trap.

The occasional dirt bike park/ four wheeler park is ok because those are in safe environments.


As for the flirting, I view flirting with no intention of dating,sex etc as a form of insecurity. It something that women do for attention.
If you are a man in a committed relationship I dont see why you are flirting with someone esle. Unfortunately some men have flirting in their nature and that cant help it and dont even notice it.


I dont need that
 
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I have to friends who had BF that died from a motor cycle crash.
I always hated those things and two months ago I passed by a dead body next to a motor cycle. Im good.

We all gon die, but I think bikes are too reckless. You cant be the father of my child and drive on what I view as a death trap.

The occasional dirt bike park/ four wheeler park is ok because those are in safe environments.


As for the flirting, I view flirting with no intention of dating,sex etc as a form of insecurity. It something that women do for attention.
If you are a man in a committed relationship I dont see why you are flirting with someone esle. Unfortunately some men have flirting in their nature and that cant help it and dont even notice it.


I dont need that

I hear you on that. Everyone has their own opinions.

But please, for God's sake. Stop saying "drive a motorcycle". You don't drive a motorcycle, you ride a motorcycle :lol:

You should also know, not everyone who rides a motorcycle is reckless or would be careless while riding. It all depends on the rider and their judgement. I've known some people who have been riding their entire lives and have never taken a bad spill. You can call them fortunate, but I think that takes away from them being skilled riders.

The bottom line is that there is an inherent risk when you ride a motorcycle, but that doesn't mean it equates to a death sentence. You also have the same risk when you sit inside a moving vehicle. Maybe it's not the same, but it's also a risk. Again, it all depends on the person's judgement.
 
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If your feet is poppin and your nails (hand and feet) are lit...I could pretty much work around everything else.
 
  •  Guys with no motivation or ambition like you should have an idea of what you want to do with your life
  • No sense of humor 
  • If your too much of a cocky *******
  • If you don't respect me
  • If your too much of a "friendly" ***** with other girls 
  • If your don't understand that im a princess and the world revolves around me...JK..kinda...
 
These things may seem silly or small but are signs of someone's bigger more robust character flaw. Peep game gentlemen it's deeper than what it may seem. To add on

A women who can't go into a restaurant and ask the host for a table while I look for parking.

Who can't drive

Who doesn't know how to say salmon correctly.
 
These things may seem silly or small but are signs of someone's bigger more robust character flaw. Peep game gentlemen it's deeper than what it may seem. To add on

women who can't go into a restaurant and ask the host for a table while I look for parking.

Seems oddly specific. You've encountered this before?

But yeah that'd bother me a lot too.
 
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Things I do not like:

- Expects me to do certain things because I'm "the man" in the relationship.

- Complains about everything.

- Unwilling to meet me halfway on things.

- Unwilling to work collaboratively on issues; instead points the finger.

- Messy.

- Neat-freak; there's a fine line between being organized and liking things a certain way, but obsessing over every piece of minutia is OD

- Dismisses my hobbies as "stupid" :smh:

- Loud/obnoxious/flirty

I guess that's it.
 
- Doesn't treat me with respect

- Bad temper, cusses at me, calls me bad names

- Acts like he's ashamed of me, denies me when it comes to other people

- Doesn't know how to compromise/argue productively. When they're like "it's my way or the highway" 
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- Materialistic

I'm simple, haha
 
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Seems oddly specific. You've encountered this before?

But yeah that'd bother me a lot too.

Yea often oddly enough. Like it's either they are too high maintenance to do it or are embarrassed if the host rejects them or ask them to wait until all parties are present. Seems stupid but it's a thing.
 
Cant mess with a dude who drives too fast.Like drive fast everywhere, like to the corner store, to church
Like drive fast and not even late.


Wont date a guy who drives a motor cycle


Cant date a guy who says the B word or says derogatory terms towards women

Cursing every sentence is a no go. Using N word :smh:


Cant mess with a dude that isnt patient in places like grocery stores and restaurants

Cant be a flirt


Has to not bother me or roast me for my very eclectic music tatse (phil collins, anita baker, coldplay, billy joel micheal w smith, selena, celine d,the killers, sinatra)

Has to like cold play

Cant be a flirt













#Foreveralone



- Doesn't treat me with respect
- Bad temper, cusses at me, calls me bad names
- Acts like he's ashamed of me, denies me when it comes to other people
- Doesn't know how to compromise/argue productively. When they're like "it's my way or the highway" :x :smh:
- Materialistic

I'm simple, haha

  •  Guys with no motivation or ambition like you should have an idea of what you want to do with your life
  • No sense of humor 
  • If your too much of a cocky *******
  • If you don't respect me
  • If your too much of a "friendly" ***** with other girls 
  • If your don't understand that im a princess and the world revolves around me...JK..kinda...

Shoe freak doesn't want a flirt.

But people need to flirt to pull somebody.

Make up your mind

What ISNT a deal breaker for you ladies? What are things you NEED In a man?
 
 
-Loudmouths
-Slobs
-Expects me to do certain things because "I'm the man", even though she's more than capable of doing them
-Watches Friends or the Big Bang Theory
-Wears jeans with no back pockets
-Constantly on social media/posting selfies (general attention-seeking behavior)
-Still in the "yummy" phase when it comes to food (can't appreciate fine dining/not open to trying anything new)
-Wears wild hats...I'm not letting you out of the house with that thing on

Friends is an excellent show.


Spectacular at that
 
My requirements are a little more simpler than most


  • Preferably college educated
  • Well cultured, traveled and read
  • Open minded to different activities
  • Willing to push their own boundaries
  • Isn't afraid of change
  • Understanding and kind-hearted
  • Puts family first
  • Willing to have children
  • Not a feminist, but also not someone who believes in traditional roles for women
  • Keeps their nails and feet properly groomed (overall good hygiene habits)
  • Someone who listens before they speak
  • Also knows how to properly use You're, Your, We're, Were, There, Their, They're, Who, Whom, Me and I

Hell, most of the women that have posted so far got dinged real quick with the last bullet :rofl:
 
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