Keeping quiet when your friends are doing their dirt

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You guys got any friends who do their dirt and hold you to secrecy? You guys have any stories? You ever been cool with the person who was getting dirt done behind their backs?

Growing up with my homeboys, it was always understood that we're gonna keep to the code of silence when it came to doing our dirt, but that was typically with girlfriends/side pieces. It's a bit different when some friends have gotten older and continue the behavior in subsequent life.

Not judging anyone because I'm not perfect by any means. Not really looking for advice, just hoping to get a few comical stories to get through this hump day. :smokin
 
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Sucks for his wife. Not your place (obviously) to say anything...but I think it might be a good idea for you to have a chat with him about his infidelities before kids get involved. Then it becomes VERY messy for all parties.

No offense, if this is how your boy rolls, he's an idiot for getting married in the first place.
 
Sucks for his wife. Not your place (obviously) to say anything...but I think it might be a good idea for you to have a chat with him about his infidelities before kids get involved. Then it becomes VERY messy for all parties.

No offense, if this is how your boy rolls, he's an idiot for getting married in the first place.

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But then again, I don't condone any of this **** since I think cheating is for scum bags. Never understood the point of doing it and continuing a relationship with someone and continue with the lies and deceit. It's odd but I have friends who do it.

Could never do it
 
Do your dirt alone.
No kidding. Dude told OP so he probably told someone else too. 

It's just a matter of time before he knocks on your door OP and he's got luggage with him. 
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If it involves a wife and kids, draw the line and tell him that it's wrong. If he's still cheats, at least you warned him.

It's none of my business but if his wife sees you as his close friend and the kids see you like an uncle, somethings gotta give.
 
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I've got some friends that definitely do dirt. I just stay out of it and stay in my lane. The less drama I'm involved in the better. At the end of the day, grown people gonna do what they wanna do. If they've done it once with little to no remorse, chances are they'll do it until they can't do it anymore.

Most of them aren't married, just gf or fiance. Another dude i know is married with 3 kids and still steps out. We're not all that cool tho and I never met the kids or wife.

Crazy how so many people shun polygamy, yet would make things so much easier.
 
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Bruh.
I used to hang out with dudes who'd have their gf supporting them 85% financially.
They had no jobs.

And they would still do anything to cheat.
Then when they'd get called out, they'd demonize the girl, like they were the ones who had been unreasonable.

I stopped being friends with people who normalize this behavior.
It's pretty much the weakest way you can carry yourself as a man.
 
Me and my ol lady's bro done went on a few missions together.

He cool with it. We eem tag teamed 1 chick together.smh lol.


Rats gon rat, snitching is for *******.
 
Re-read my post. Edited so as to not dry snitch like that. Like I said nt fam, I'm not going to break silence, I'm not condoning any behavior, and I'm not judging. Just trying to keep it light hearted.
 
My main friends are the ones I grew up with....they can cheat on their girls till the end of time and I will never tell their SO no matter how cool I am with them....it just isn't my place and my loyalty will always lie with my boys...doesn't mean I agree with it, or won't advice them to stop doing that....at the end of the day they are grown men and will do as they wish...

Put it this way, say you do tell shorty, they go through their fight, she forgives him and they move on...where does that leave you?...lol

Exactly.
 
Me and my ol lady's bro done went on a few missions together.

He cool with it. We eem tag teamed 1 chick together.smh lol.


Rats gon rat, snitching is for *******.

Now that's ODEE :lol:

Your brotherinlaw?....dude obviously a herb if you can do his sister dirty in front of him and WITH him....lol
 
Def not snitching

I have no comment if it's just their girlfriend but if y'all married I make sure I tell them do all that when I'm not present.
 
Wouldn't condone it, it even try to suggest another route but I wouldn't tell in the end.

I'd rather the person that does the dirt to keep it to themselves than drag me into that bs.
 
Just remembered . A acquaintance I know has a gf that messed with a cat I was friends with in highschool. She's go up to this mans job n **** while messing with homie .

When I first found out I was gonna tell em but he lets her walk all over him and puts up with her bs. Few friends of mine confronted him and told him to get his balls back and be a man. He basically said "nah" .he still with her. So I figured if I told him he'd still let it ride.
 
Ive come to the conclusion that being faithful is not for me. Im addicted to new kitty.

That being said, i never have put my friends through that and they never have put me through it either. I do my dirt all by my self and never mix unless something unexpected happens. But its a given to never snitch on your friends and deny deny deny deny.  
 
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