Keeping quiet when your friends are doing their dirt

ksteezy said:
My main friends are the ones I grew up with....they can cheat on their girls till the end of time and I will never tell their SO no matter how cool I am with them....it just isn't my place and my loyalty will always lie with my boys...doesn't mean I agree with it, or won't advice them to stop doing that....at the end of the day they are grown men and will do as they wish...

Put it this way, say you do tell shorty, they go through their fight, she forgives him and they move on...where does that leave you?...lol

Exactly.
Click to expand...


This.

+ My man has kids with his wife. i'm not trying to break up a happy home.
 
Maybe I'm different, but I definitely don't condone doing dirt behind people's backs. If it's not my issue I'll stay clear; but if a friend or family member comes to me for advice, best believe I'm going to let my feeling on the issue known. Now, no one is perfect (definitely including myself), and sometimes a slip-up does occur, HOWEVER, I start to take issue when it becomes a repeated offense and/or the person doing dirt shows no remorse. :smh:

No snitching over here, but I will do everything in my power to encourage someone to just be honest.
 
If i know something, i'll won't say anything.

But if my boy is all "She's the one, blablabla", i'll make sure i'll tell him he's off for pulling some **** like that.

Then it's in his hands. I told him what I think about it and that's not my problem anymore.
 
201603_0713_agbee_sm.jpg
 
If you know about it, and you a solid cat, it never gets brought up or talked about.
 
dakid23 said:
ksteezy said:
My main friends are the ones I grew up with....they can cheat on their girls till the end of time and I will never tell their SO no matter how cool I am with them....it just isn't my place and my loyalty will always lie with my boys...doesn't mean I agree with it, or won't advice them to stop doing that....at the end of the day they are grown men and will do as they wish...

Put it this way, say you do tell shorty, they go through their fight, she forgives him and they move on...where does that leave you?...lol

Exactly.
Click to expand...


This.

+ My man has kids with his wife. i'm not trying to break up a happy home.
Click to expand...

You're not but the person that cheats is ok with risking his family.
 
I had a friend who'd cheat on his girl on a regular basis. Just was never my place to say anything.

[EDITED TO PROTECT THE GUILTY]
 
Last edited:
I don't get involved in drama. That's between him and his significant other to resolve. I don't approve of it but it's not my business to interfere in.
 
I'm not gonna snitch but I'm not bout to be around you doing it all the time. Makes me feel uncomfortable especially if you got a good girl. Glad my boys cut it out :lol:
 
Yaje1Christ said:
Me and my ol lady's bro done went on a few missions together.

He cool with it. We eem tag teamed 1 chick together.smh lol.


Rats gon rat, snitching is for *******.
Click to expand...


ksteezy said:
Now that's ODEE :lol:

Your brotherinlaw?....dude obviously a herb if you can do his sister dirty in front of him and WITH him....lol
Click to expand...

Dudes are savages out here. I couldn't trust a man who'd let me cheat on his sister.
 
Gotta stay loyal to the homies. 6 of us are going to Europe for 3 weeks in September. 2 of us have GF's, including myself. 1 is engaged. What's happens in Europe, stays in Europe. Lol.
 
All of my homies who are married dont cheat as far as I know. I wouldn't snitch, I would lose respect for them honestly.
 
Colombia said:
I don't get involved in drama. That's between him and his significant other to resolve. I don't approve of it but it's not my business to interfere in.
Click to expand...

Pretty much.

I just don't even bring it up outside the occurrence of them telling me. I know dudes need to get it off their chest to make it easier on themselves.

As someone that has done dirt and currently knows people doing dirt, respect ya brethren by keeping it under wraps.
 
a blinkin said:
You guys got any friends who do their dirt and hold you to secrecy? You guys have any stories? You ever been cool with the person who was getting dirt done behind their backs?

Growing up with my homeboys, it was always understood that we're gonna keep to the code of silence when it came to doing our dirt, but that was typically with girlfriends/side pieces. It's a bit different when some friends have gotten older and continue the behavior in subsequent life.

Not judging anyone because I'm not perfect by any means. Not really looking for advice, just hoping to get a few comical stories to get through this hump day. :smokin
Click to expand...

Blink what up.

I got a story for you bro, won't give any dates but we went out of the country for one of my homies bachelor parties, **** was very lit, lots of alcohol, lots of greenery, beaches all types of ish.

The guy getting married is my mans (like I've known him 20+ years, friendship literally forged on the playground), it also happens to be his bday, my bday and another guy on the trips bday Weekend (we literally started the bachelor party on my mans bday :smokin )

So we out doing our usual ish at the clubs and my mans who is getting married ends up catching a shorty but not knocking her off the first night. The next day he texting shorty doing it all, basically setting up for the night.

Anyways we go back to the clubs that night, my mans pops shorty off and eventually bachelor party weekend is over....

So ya'll know dudes we all go back home with the mean straight face on like nothing happened, somehow one of the chicks that was in our VIP section at the clubs (not shorty who got pounded) found out that my mans was getting married and ends up finding his chick on FB and teling the whole story.

WHEN I tell u that **** was the WORST. I mean it was literally the worst **** I've ever seen. My mans still ends up married but his wife basically hated us for minute, wedding was cool but going to it was the most awkward **** in the world.

My mans wife also told my chick at the time and that got me in a world of trouble (EVEN THO I AINT DO ****)....

Definitely learned my lesson that day... I'm cool with the squad doing dirt but keep me far away from that ****.
 
Last edited:
I'm the type to keep my mouth shut about things like this. Sucks for the woman, but I'm not telling her **** about what my friend is doing
 
Last edited:
lol i thought this was about drugs or robbery or anything illegal  
mean.gif
 
roll.gif


i know some of my boys cant keep a secret cant mention anything secret around them or else theyre ganna blab like giddy school girls
 
Yo that's crazy! How the heck did shorty even figure out dude was getting married? How did she figure out his name and how'd she figure out who the fiancé was to even hit her up like that on Facebook? Sounds like Dana. :lol:
 
I won't tell, but I will advise to do the right thing. But most time the chick finds out anyway so I shut up and let life happen. When I was stationed in J'ville Florida my homeboy was a habitual line stepper when it came to fidelity, well one day dude comes home and his wife and his side chick in the living room talking about him, he tried to play it off and introduce himself to the side chick, but his wife pull up his black planet ish and the jig was up, they tore into his ***. I just eased my way up out of the spot. Never went back, never asked what happened after I left.
 
a blinkin said:
Yo that's crazy! How the heck did shorty even figure out dude was getting married? How did she figure out his name and how'd she figure out who the fiancé was to even hit her up like that on Facebook? Sounds like Dana. :lol:
Click to expand...

Def not Dana fam... Ironically his lil brother was at the chick that snitched and I guess he let it slip that it was a bachelor party instead of a bday party.

The snitching *** broad hit my mans girl with a message on FB like "I don't wanna ruin anything but I had this happen to me so I just thought I should tell you......"

Fam when I say it was BAD.... I MEAN it was BAD :x .....
 
Damn. That's a crazy story. nt isn't the only place with detectives. Very surprised she still married him after being told he cheated on her.
 
My loyalty stays with my boys. It's not my place to get involved.

Plus, women stay loyal to their female friends too. I've seen countless women cheat in front of their female friends and their female friends smile in their boyfriends face like everything was cool and they just went and got their nails done, the next day 
eek.gif
 
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

The ultimate sneaker enthusiast community.

NikeTalk was created as a way of giving back to both the sneaker enthusiast community and to the greater global community of which we are all a part.

NikeTalk is NOT affiliated with Nike Inc. in any way, shape, or form. All opinions expressed herein do not necessarily reflect those of Nike, Inc.

© 1999-2024 NikeTalk.com

Share this page

Back
Top Bottom