Official Baby Mama Drama Thread

011781 said:
 
I have 2 BM 

BM #1 - 

Pros: 
  • we have a brother/sister kind of relationship.. one minute we're best friends, the next we wanna throw hands 
  • she's a good mom, very responsible ... has her a nice place in a great school district.. handles her business 
  • has a good relationship with my family 
  • leaving it up to my son whether or not he lives with me full time.... ALLEGEDLY
  • we stay at each other's houses when in town
Cons: 
  • rarely gives me updates on my son if it doesn't involve money 
  • pretends that i don't pay child support even though it comes out of my check every 2 weeks 
  • 50% of her phone calls to me are for money, the other 50% to tell me about all her social problems 
  • she's weird as **** ... my friends that meet her all like her, but wonder how much drugs shes on
  • I have no relationship with her family what so ever 
BM #2 - 

Pros:
  • keeps me updated on my daughter's day-to-day constantly ; if my daughter ties her shoe in a new way she'll call me to tell me 
  • GREAT mother ...I had my doubts but she proved me wrong
  • makes sure im the most important man in my daughter's life even though she's married 
  • didn't want to go to court for child support ... if she needs something, she calls and I handle it
  • let me rent her condo for the low after she got married and moved out
  • we talk at least 4 times a week
  • wouldn't be opposed to my daughter living with me full time if my daughter wanted to 
  • her family ***** with me
  • her husband finally accepts the situation and we all go out together 
Cons:
  • EXTREMELY emotional and irrational
  • when she gets upset she threatens me with child support, as if it makes any difference to me whether she does or not... but i know she never would
  • wants to kill me on monday, acts like it never happened on tuesday .. she goes 0-100 in an instant 
  • complains about me to my mom 
  • doesn't encourage my daughter enough to wear her hair out and embrace her bi-racial curls 
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Sounds like BM2 was a winner.
 
Damn, bruh done set the bar for this thread, gotta get home and type this **** out smh
 
Mine can't get over the fact that I live with and am giving that work to her cousin. I mean, I gave her a few chances to straighten up after she tried to trap me with kids. I tried to be honorable, but I can only respect respectful people.

So now she's passive aggressive and unsuccessfully sneaky. She'll try to get cs adjusted and put restraining orders on me, even though I don't really go around her like that unless I'm picking up or dropping off.

She really must be hurting to see me winning at life and gallivanting with her cousin, but I swear I don't give a damn. Her brother is a sucker with a big head and her mother is a sucker with a small brain. I'm glad my DNA was dominant and my daughters are smart.
 
Brolic Scholar said:
Mine can't get over the fact that I live with and am giving that work to her cousin. I mean, I gave her a few chances to straighten up after she tried to trap me with kids. I tried to be honorable, but I can only respect respectful people.

So now she's passive aggressive and unsuccessfully sneaky. She'll try to get cs adjusted and put restraining orders on me, even though I don't really go around her like that unless I'm picking up or dropping off.

She really must be hurting to see me winning at life and gallivanting with her cousin, but I swear I don't give a damn. Her brother is a sucker with a big head and her mother is a sucker with a small brain. I'm glad my DNA was dominant and my daughters are smart.
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Damn her cousin though?

Were they close?

Did she introduce ya'll?

If so thats foul.
 
this has to be the beginning of the realest thread on a sneaker forum ever

#teamraw behind the scenes
 
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KingKoopa said:
Damn her cousin though?

Were they close?

Did she introduce ya'll?

If so thats foul.
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We were friendly and when things fell apart I shot my shot. They weren't close and of course I met the cousin by knowing my ex. I'm cool with my decision. My family is cool with it. My gf's mother and father are cool with it. My daughters love her.
 
KingKoopa said:
Brolic Scholar said:
Mine can't get over the fact that I live with and am giving that work to her cousin. I mean, I gave her a few chances to straighten up after she tried to trap me with kids. I tried to be honorable, but I can only respect respectful people.

So now she's passive aggressive and unsuccessfully sneaky. She'll try to get cs adjusted and put restraining orders on me, even though I don't really go around her like that unless I'm picking up or dropping off.

She really must be hurting to see me winning at life and gallivanting with her cousin, but I swear I don't give a damn. Her brother is a sucker with a big head and her mother is a sucker with a small brain. I'm glad my DNA was dominant and my daughters are smart.
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Damn her cousin though?
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:rofl:
 
Her cousin tho bruh? When's the family cookout?
 
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:lol: @ wifing up your BM's cousin though.

Do you man...if you're comfortable with that decision, then so be it.
 
It's already been a year living together. We've been friends for years before we started doing anything. Dated for a year and change before moving in. She's already met my fam in SD and down south. I'm solid with it. She treats my daughters very well and she's good to me and held me down as a friend when I was struggling post divorce and going through some things.
 
Brolic Scholar said:
It's already been a year living together. We've been friends for years before we started doing anything. Dated for a year and change before moving in. She's already met my fam in SD and down south. I'm solid with it. She treats my daughters very well and she's good to me and held me down as a friend when I was struggling post divorce and going through some things.
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Hey man, being good to you and your daughters is all you can ask for. Not everyone is built for that life of loving someone else's kids, either. Sounds like you got a good one regardless of how it came about. Props.
 
011781 said:
I have 2 BM 

BM #1 - 
Pros: 
  • we have a brother/sister kind of relationship.. one minute we're best friends, the next we wanna throw hands 
  • she's a good mom, very responsible ... has her a nice place in a great school district.. handles her business 
  • has a good relationship with my family 
  • leaving it up to my son whether or not he lives with me full time.... ALLEGEDLY
  • we stay at each other's houses when in town
Cons: 
  • rarely gives me updates on my son if it doesn't involve money 
  • pretends that i don't pay child support even though it comes out of my check every 2 weeks 
  • 50% of her phone calls to me are for money, the other 50% to tell me about all her social problems 
  • she's weird as **** ... my friends that meet her all like her, but wonder how much drugs shes on
  • I have no relationship with her family what so ever 


BM #2 - 
Pros:
  • keeps me updated on my daughter's day-to-day constantly ; if my daughter ties her shoe in a new way she'll call me to tell me 
  • GREAT mother ...I had my doubts but she proved me wrong
  • makes sure im the most important man in my daughter's life even though she's married 
  • didn't want to go to court for child support ... if she needs something, she calls and I handle it
  • let me rent her condo for the low after she got married and moved out
  • we talk at least 4 times a week
  • wouldn't be opposed to my daughter living with me full time if my daughter wanted to 
  • her family ***** with me
  • her husband finally accepts the situation and we all go out together 
Cons:
  • EXTREMELY emotional and irrational
  • when she gets upset she threatens me with child support, as if it makes any difference to me whether she does or not... but i know she never would
  • wants to kill me on monday, acts like it never happened on tuesday .. she goes 0-100 in an instant 
  • complains about me to my mom 
  • doesn't encourage my daughter enough to wear her hair out and embrace her bi-racial curls 
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I got BM # 1 :smh: ...but none of the pros ( only one is she ain't put me on no papers ...yet) ..and ALL the cons

Edit--- Only pro is I live in 2 places basically and my daughter can come to see me whenever ...so whenever I'm back in my city I'm living life and flourishing , while still gettin $$ n taking care of my lil shorty ...that's y I think the BM be hating
 
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My lil man is on the way in 2 weeks don't know how he's been for the past 3-4 months or so bc his Mom is legit not smart at all. Luckily my cousin is a lawyer & practices in this area just spoke with her today, making moves bc this bish playing so we coming out swinging as soon as lil man gets here. Never in my life seen a woman mad at a man actually tryna take care of his child. Ruined the whole experience for me man it's sad I don't even have no joy about my first youngin coming in the world :smh:
 
Mark Antony said:
This is legit one of my fears, wouldn't like to get caught up in that. Ex actually told me she had a dream like that last night, that she found a killer laptop deal but barely gave me any details and told me days too late. **** crazy out here b.
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Wait what :lol: :rofl:
 
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