Official Baby Mama Drama Thread

Andretti said:
cs02132 said:
Mark Antony said:
This is legit one of my fears, wouldn't like to get caught up in that. Ex actually told me she had a dream like that last night, that she found a killer laptop deal but barely gave me any details and told me days too late. **** crazy out here b.
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Wait what :lol: :rofl:
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Yea, u gotta elaborate bruh, when we talkin bout laptops, we actually talkin bout laptops :lol: BTW, did anybody get the deal, they kept trya hit me w/ the Celeron processor

But I'm glad I aint shoot the club up in any shorty I aint plan on bein w/ .
 
RobTooFresco said:
We ain't just taking L's outchea.

Had to put team BD on the scoreboard one time.
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Buckets breh 
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I know for a fact not all baby mommas are bad. But i have heard plenty of horror stories and there are some women out there that really dont know how to act. My feeling is once you are no longer with the person its better to be civil because at the end of the day you and that person share one common interest your child and if your a good parent you realize that is the most important regardless of your personal feelings towards the other person. I have a BD and hes a scum bag but he will still always be my daughters father. In order to avoid the baby momma drama be careful in who you make the mother/father of your child period point blank cause they never go away! 
 
sh0rtyy12 said:
I know for a fact not all baby mommas are bad. But i have heard plenty of horror stories and there are some women out there that really dont know how to act. My feeling is once you are no longer with the person its better to be civil because at the end of the day you and that person share one common interest your child and if your a good parent you realize that is the most important regardless of your personal feelings towards the other person. I have a BD and hes a scum bag but he will still always be my daughters father. In order to avoid the baby momma drama be careful in who you make the mother/father of your child period point blank cause they never go away! 
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To that last point, some women will tell you they're on birth control while you're in a relationship and in my case I had no reason to doubt it until it happened again.

Until the laws change and fix it to where women can't make a career out of holding a ***** hostage by treating their children like a damn PayPal, these horror stories will continue. When some women know their time is up, they'd rather doom you to a personal hell of financial ruin than just move on and take the L. My ex tried, but she forgot I'm smarter than her.

Besides that, I love my daughters, take care of them, give them the world and will soon have 50/50 custody physically and legally. This bird even trumped up a cps charge on me. The social worker came over, met my gf, saw how nice my home is and how spoiled my girls are, rolled her eyes and basically told me she sees these bs claims by scorned BMs all the time.
 
I got a homie that got dam near 10 yrs for sellin dope.



He was a good dude, but do you know why he even began doin that?



Cuz his BM was rapin him for his money for child support.



He couldnt make it, and couldnt buy his kid crap, coildnt find another job, so he had to do what he had to do.



Ol girl found out and snitched smh.



Now he cant see his kids cuz his BM wont let the grandma take em.to see him.



I respect the hell out of the BM's that keep it 100 and realize its a ****** situation to be in and still dont let that interfere with a father and his kid(s) and dont let anything hold a father back from being a father.
 
I've told this story before.

My big brother got 2 by 1.

Fell out and got ugly.

He fell behind on CS.

Was in a situation where CS suspended his Ls but kept CS going.

So thet limited him gettin money yet expected him to make his payments.

He was back big until he found a loop.

The loop is if yoy call CS they'll reinstate you but if you don't make a payment in 30 days they'll suspend you again.

Makes no sense IMO
 
I came a long way in this BM drama ****. I done been thru it all with this chick. We both moved on, I got a girl, she got a ***** and had another kid with one on the way, you would think with all that going for her she would be cool...NOPE! My daughter is 5 and we have never been able to come to a mutual understanding with this co-parenting thing, so I really don't even communicate with her anymore. I only call her on the day I get my seed per the custody agreement and the day she is supposed to come get her. I don't call/ won't answer any other time. When my daughter is old enough for a cell phone we won't communicate at all on some **** the middleman type ****. It's sad it gotta be that way but it's for the best. I had been trying my hardest to do right by her and the situation but we reached a point of no return when she tried to get me rushed at my daughter b-day party earlier this year.
 
The 7th Mile said:
I came a long way in this BM drama ****. I done been thru it all with this chick. We both moved on, I got a girl, she got a ***** and had another kid with one on the way, you would think with all that going for her she would be cool...NOPE! My daughter is 5 and we have never been able to come to a mutual understanding with this co-parenting thing, so I really don't even communicate with her anymore. I only call her on the day I get my seed per the custody agreement and the day she is supposed to come get her. I don't call/ won't answer any other time. When my daughter is old enough for a cell phone we won't communicate at all on some **** the middleman type ****. It's sad it gotta be that way but it's for the best. I had been trying my hardest to do right by her and the situation but we reached a point of no return when she tried to get me rushed at my daughter b-day party earlier this year.
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Bruh, I changed my number and didn't give it to old girl. My daughters have it memorized and have been sworn to secrecy. I don't even answer her emails anymore. I stick strictly to the court order. No deals, no arrangements, no compromises, because they are always one sided.
 
The 7th Mile said:
I came a long way in this BM drama ****. I done been thru it all with this chick. We both moved on, I got a girl, she got a ***** and had another kid with one on the way, you would think with all that going for her she would be cool...NOPE! My daughter is 5 and we have never been able to come to a mutual understanding with this co-parenting thing, so I really don't even communicate with her anymore. I only call her on the day I get my seed per the custody agreement and the day she is supposed to come get her. I don't call/ won't answer any other time. When my daughter is old enough for a cell phone we won't communicate at all on some **** the middleman type ****. It's sad it gotta be that way but it's for the best. I had been trying my hardest to do right by her and the situation but we reached a point of no return when she tried to get me rushed at my daughter b-day party earlier this year.
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Goat party btw :lol:
 
7th mile, when your daughter gets a cellphone, please try not to make HER the middleman. I've seen firsthand how that affects kids and it isn't a great spot for them to be in. Puts a lot of pressure on them.

I fully understand not wanting to deal with the other parent. But what's easiest and less stressful for you could end up being the opposite for your kid should you make them the go between.
 
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Brolic Scholar said:
Bruh, I changed my number and didn't give it to old girl. My daughters have it memorized and have been sworn to secrecy. I don't even answer her emails anymore. I stick strictly to the court order. No deals, no arrangements, no compromises, because they are always one sided.
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[emoji]128514[/emoji] I feel you on that, next time i move she definitely won't know where I'm living. We gone have to establish some drop off points. It's funny to me how they go to the court for ****, it always goes their way, and then they always wanna deviate from the judgement ..My catch phrase to my BM used to be "Stick to the script". Once you got them white folks involved we don't have no more room for ad libs.
 
superblyTRIFE said:
7th mile, when your daughter gets a cellphone, please try not to make HER the middleman. I've seen firsthand how that affects kids and it isn't a great spot for them to be in. Puts a lot of pressure on them.

I fully understand not wanting to deal with the other parent. But what's easiest and less stressful for you could end up being the opposite for your kid should you make them the go between.
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That's a fear of mine when she gets older and in addition I don't want her (my daughter) to grow up trying to manipulate the situation knowing her parents don't have a great relationship. It's the only way though, I'm telling y'all dudes I've been through it all and nothing works. This is the best option for my sanity.
 
7th mile, I have to ask... Was your BM ever cool like that? or from jump street was she just something you were swimming in on the regular but never really planned on being with for the long haul? Just kinda crazy that one year you're sticking and the next ya'll can't even be in the same room.
 
@LarryDavid it's a lil of both..We had some good moments but overall it wasn't the right situation for me. We went our separate ways and as soon as I got a new girl she start tripping extra hard. She wanted me to break up with her and I wouldn't. She been on a rampage ever since. When I was ******* her, I was that *****, best father in the world etc when that stopped all of a sudden become the foulest ***** on the planet.
 
The 7th Mile said:
@LarryDavid it's a lil of both..We had some good moments but overall it wasn't the right situation for me. We went our separate ways and as soon as I got a new girl she start tripping extra hard. She wanted me to break up with her and I wouldn't. She been on a rampage ever since. When I was ******* her, I was that *****, best father in the world etc when that stopped all of a sudden become the foulest ***** on the planet.
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Ah one of those, she was a fan until she was no longer dictator? :smh:

That's one of my bigger fears in this life, simply because I know that type of Jekyll-Hyde behavior will prompt me to kill a ***.
 
I don't believe when people are like oh they switched up after the baby was born. Like no if a ***** is crazy I'm sure you would have seen the signs leading up to it
 
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