***Non monogamous relationships***

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Just cheat respectfully and you won't have to worry about the hassle of having two girlfriends/boyfriends.
 
We are all in one once we start dating someone. We just don't know.
I have a friend who, with his wife, is into the "lifestyle". :lol: his stories are funny to hear, but definitely made me realize that's not the life for me. I would do it if my partner was just some **** I was bangin and didn't really care about, but my wife that I love - hell no.
 
Calm down Steezy. It was a segment on the breakfast club radio show that I thought would be taken as a joke by some. 
 
I can't wait until me and my lady friend get into the swinging lifestyle...


I let it be well known that I'm not sleeping with the same woman for the rest of my life, ain't no way.

I know if we do give it a try my lady will be more focused on the other woman. She's not into messing with other guys at all. If we do start I wouldn't mind her doing something but I know the type of woman she is so I don't have anything to worry about.

Same room passing the misses back in forth like a fat blunt in rotation....
 
I can't wait until me and my lady friend get into the swinging lifestyle...


I let it be well known that I'm not sleeping with the same woman for the rest of my life, ain't no way.

I know if we do give it a try my lady will be more focused on the other woman. She's not into messing with other guys at all. If we do start I wouldn't mind her doing something but I know the type of woman she is so I don't have anything to worry about.

Same room passing the misses back in forth like a fat blunt in rotation....

These the type of dudes that commit a murder suicide when they inevitably find out what their woman is really doing behind closed doors :lol:
 
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Any of my NT brethren currently in or previously experienced non monogamous relationships??

I been discussing the prospect with my girl and i think we both agree it's something that's inevitable at some point down the road. I love her but i think it's unrealistic to expect any one person to completely satisfy your needs over an extended period of time. I mean cheating is super prevalent for a reason...

The way i see things this option removes the guilt of desiring others and removes the need to cheat and deceive. I know some will say i should just move on if i want to **** other people, but being single and playing the field is no where near as exciting a prospect.

Any thoughts?


Yes you can smash

So because THIS one girl can't satisfy your needs, you're just going to say it's unrealistic to be monogamous.

She's just not the one, and the day you find that girl, you'll change your mind.

After being with somebody 12 years, I can tell you it's completely realistic to be completely satisfied by one woman.

Just be single and live freely. Why box yourself in, in a non-monogamous relationship if you don't want a relationship? There are no pros to it, just cons.
 
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These the type of dudes that commit a murder suicide when they inevitably find out what their woman is really doing behind closed doors
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The naivety of some of the guys in here.

Women out there with their own sexual urges and desires. You're kidding yourselves if you think they're not capable/willing to get new experiences. I'd argue that a majority of the women who have convinced men that they're not the "type of woman" to do that, and that their men "don't have anything to worry about" are the ones who are out their doing stuff that their guys are blissfully unaware of. You all think a threesome is cool, but your girl will never forget the sight of you sleeping with another woman. The day will come where she wants to cash in on that favor she did for you, and she may not even tell you about it. I used to kid around with an ex about that and it was only until a female friend put me up on game that I stopped. No pun intended, but open pandora's box if you want to. Just aim the gun at yourself before anyone else in the event things don't go as planned and you flip your ****. 
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Open relationships sounds like millennials New term for Friends with benefits


Now allowing another dude to pipe your wife sounds crazy fam
 
It's all fun and games until she run into that one dude who gives her the LD better than you, relationship downhill after that
Scary sight. Dude I work with smashing this chick that's been married 18 years. Out of 18 years all she ever had was boring missionary. He smashed, ate the box/butt, made her squirt, gave her her first or gas money etc. Long story short she divorcing dude after 18 YEARS. Co worker married also, told her he wasn't leaving his wife but baby girl deaf. She moved and got a apt by our job so he can be close at all times :lol:. Got his phone cut off, she showed up to the job with a brand new iPhone so she can talk to him. Husband called dude and she went off on her husband like he did something wrong. Dude just wanted to know what was going on not knowing his ***** long gone for real. Please your lady fellas.

:rofl: And that's exactly how it happens. Husband sittin at the crib w/ a brew watchin sports wondering why his old lady aint home yet. Meanwhile she gettin taken to pleasuretown by the coworker

Yeah to accept an open relationship means you never took the time to really understand women beyond a base level. The dude with the better pipe game will have her dolo after that.
 
Ima go ahead and say it, dudes that are open to their wives being piped, wouldn't mind being piped themselves....sharing your woman is not something a fully straight man would do...just like running a train on a shorty and having your mans meat in such close proximity and quite possibly rubbing your own meat....ya can keep that :lol:
 
steezy never turns down an opportunity to start talking about men getting piped
 
Ima go ahead and say it, dudes that are open to their wives being piped, wouldn't mind being piped themselves....sharing your woman is not something a fully straight man would do...just like running a train on a shorty and having your mans meat in such close proximity and quite possibly rubbing your own meat....ya can keep that :lol:
So wait, I'm gay Cuz i gave a thot back shots while she domed the homie?
 
It's definitely not for me but to each his own. I would never be OK with knowing another dude has my girl *** up and she's giving him dome, swallowing, etc. That would drive me crazy but if you're cool with that then whatever. Make sure you cover ground rules about safe sex. P ain't worth dying over.
I don't think that non-monogamous relationships can work long term. That emotional bond will break and eventually y'all are just gonna be **** buddies. Then again I come from a very traditional household (parents been married for over 40 years) so I might just be a conservative on this issue. When you're single go out there and sow your wild oats but when you're ready to settle down you need to do just that. Not cheating isn't that hard.
 
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If you think swinging is gay then you're doing it way wrong :lol:
This. I ain't down with that life but smashing your ***** and other people's ******* is the furthest thing from gay.
 
imo non-monogamy depends on whether both sides can handle that relationship. If you want it to work, don't hide it from your partner because that creates more stress.

currently have this side-piece who claims to be "polyamorous." she was upfront and I told her I was cool since I'm still single.

Just know what you're getting into fam or else you're the one who's going to be hurt. 
 
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