IF YOUR FRIEND MOVED ?

I moved from Seattle 2 years ago to Cali. Friends come down we automatically link. I go up, they scoop me and it's love. Only a chick, once I moved here I would try to see and she just blatantly would be like I'm kicking it tonight or I got plans type ish. Always something. I eventually stopped trying. She even bragged about getting her Asian yambz mashed by one of the supreme guys [emoji]129300[/emoji]
When we actually did link when we were in Seattle at the same time. The **** LA can do to people

All in all as you get older the real friends manifest and the rest digress. Life weeds them out for you. No time, distance, or ******** will change that.

Trill Bill said:

The real homies are the ones that you can go a long time w/o seeing or talking to. But once you see each other, it's like nothing changed changed at all. Hopefully that makes sense, I don't know how else to explain it.

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newfangled112 said:

I moved from Seattle 2 years ago to Cali. Friends come down we automatically link. I go up, they scoop me and it's love. Only a chick, once I moved here I would try to see and she just blatantly would be like I'm kicking it tonight or I got plans type ish. Always something. I eventually stopped trying. She even bragged about getting her Asian yambz mashed by one of the supreme guys [emoji]129300[/emoji]
When we actually did link when we were in Seattle at the same time. The **** LA can do to people

All in all as you get older the real friends manifest and the rest digress. Life weeds them out for you. No time, distance, or ******** will change that.

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The first post and the last paragraph on the second are spot on

marmourjr said:

Lone Wolf

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same...

FlyNY said:

and you saw that man naked

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AZwildcats said:

I am very selective on the people I call my friends, and I am still in contact with several friends who have moved to other states and countries

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Same here. Just moved to a new state and realized and am already starting realize who I can call friends.

man this thread...

i recently had a "falling out" with a dude I considered my best friend over some stuff like this. I was under the impression that it worked just like this:

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Comparison Ford said:

Friendship should always be an outdoor cat when it comes to dudes.  It should come and go as it pleases.  None of this "you never call me anymore" or "why aren't you ever around anymore?" nonsense...especially if you're over the age of 25.  

I don't know about you dudes, but I'm busy.  If I get to see my friends twice a month I'm happy with that.  It's never an issue with my close friends though.  We see each other when we see each other and we're all fine with that.  That's how true friendship functions.  

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Prolly the best description in this thread imo.

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Thats wasnt the case with a dude a considered one of my closet friends. I ended up moving to his city(huge metro area) about 3 years ago... i took a new job and I moved with my new wife all of 4 months.

Me and the dude hung out maybe 5-6 times over a 2 year period... which to me is a lot. but apparently wasnt enough for dude and he was jealous that it appeared we only did stuff with married couples. Bottom line dude had a lot of insecurities and came at me on I was some fake friend and didnt support him steez. He was in his feelings over the pettiess of things. But anyway dude was the best man in my wedding. Im talking like real bros from 6th grade to college. I held dude down so hard over our 20 year friendship. Like dude really pushed the limits of friendship and I still had his back. For him to approach me like that... couldnt believe it. its way more to the story but ill leave it there.

Cant believe some dudes become sensitive over stuff like that. I could never look at him the same... lost so much respect and love for him.

@FlyNY flagrant as hell