Need some advice about my girl

ryda421

ryda421

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So lately my girl has been telling me she misses me alot, but to be honest i dont really miss her, and i dont want to tell her that because it'll break her heart.

in truth lately ive been wanting to smash other chicks because my chick is pretty boring in the sack. we been together for a year.

so what should i do? should i ride it out? or should i just smash chicks behind her back? or should i tell her i dont miss her and see what happens?
 
Tell her you're not being satisfied, and that is a major issue for you.

And if you're gonna smashing other women, break up with her first.

Because really, if the sex ain't right, your relationship is doomed anyway
 
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Just cheat. You need new yambz while having the warmth and comfort of a stable relationship as well papa.
 
Ryda421 said:
So lately my girl has been telling me she misses me alot, but to be honest i dont really miss her, and i dont want to tell her that because it'll break her heart.

in truth lately ive been wanting to smash other chicks because my chick is pretty boring in the sack. we been together for a year.

so what should i do? should i ride it out? or should i just smash chicks behind her back? or should i tell her i dont miss her and see what happens?
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Be a man and break up with her? And go do your thang smash in other chicks without hiding like a little punk...seems like the logical, easy thing to do.
 
Tell that ***** if she don't do it somebody else will. Point blank period. You gave her a warning so the ball is in her court.


If she don't start Riding her *** off or gagging on the D til she chokes.... Start looking for other talent my brotha keep her lazy *** until you find what you want.

I done been there done that with my baby moms, she use to give me bs when I use to wanna **** ( I wanted to **** everytime I saw her which was reasonable).... ***** didn't suck NO **** ( I was getting its from ALOT of elsewhere') to compensate for my troubles. I warned the ***** numerous times, went through 2 years of the BS.... Left her *** while she was pregnant with my son (for numerous reasons but getting head was definitely 1 of them) so I found my current situation (female friend) . That was 7 years ago and now I'm getting blown like birthday candles on a regular...
 
Teach her new tricks and let her know about your concerns while smashing other chicks on the side until she's up to par.

If she's right for you don't let something that can be fixed like he sex game end the relationship.
 
Yaje1Christ said:
Tell that ***** if she don't do it somebody else will. Point blank period. You gave her a warning so the ball is in her court.


If she don't start Riding her *** off or gagging on the D til she chokes.... Start looking for other talent my brotha keep her lazy *** until you find what you want.

I done been there done that with my baby moms, she use to give me bs when I use to wanna **** ( I wanted to **** everytime I saw her which was reasonable).... ***** didn't suck NO **** ( I was getting its from ALOT of elsewhere') to compensate for my troubles. I warned the ***** numerous times, went through 2 years of the BS.... Left her *** while she was pregnant with my son (for numerous reasons but getting head was definitely 1 of them) so I found my current situation (female friend) . That was 7 years ago and now I'm getting blown like birthday candles on a regular...
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:x :x man I need to stay away from these threads, my blood boils EVERYTIME because of the cesspool of NTers that gather in these topics
 
ksteezy said:
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man I need to stay away from these threads, my blood boils EVERYTIME because of the cesspool of NTers that gather in these topics
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Your blood doesn't boil. You love these threads because you can get another chance to display your holier than though approach to relationships. You aren't fooling anyone
 
Feeling are for the birds homie. Tell her she is not cutting it and needs to step it up or step it out. Damn I sound like my guidance counselor in high school.

Nevertheless, be real and see how it goes. Maybe she will rise to the occasion or will argue and divert and then your choice is made. Becuase it's bigger than sex. It's about how that person you are involved with and so far faithful to, won't tweak certain things and won't listen to your concerns. All this little issues are signs of bigger character traits that arise elsewhere.
 
Just be honest with her homie. If you want the relationship to work you gotta communicate, just tell her some of the thing you like when being intimate, if you not really feeling her anymore let it be known and let her down easy broham.
 
OP, was your girl boring in the sack when you first started out?
 
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derry1 said:
Just be honest with her homie. If you want the relationship to work you gotta communicate, just tell her some of the thing you like when being intimate, if you not really feeling her anymore let it be known and let her down easy broham.
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ksteezy said:
:x :x man I need to stay away from these threads, my blood boils EVERYTIME because of the cesspool of NTers that gather in these topics
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I did word that terribly... But after two years of the BS I had a right to express the situation as such in my post.

I love my son's mother and she loves me... To this day.

But I know what OP is going through from experience, he's definitely young and wanna sore his oats and that's how I was but the woman I was with wasn't with it... Well let's just say she couldn't properly keep up with me.... Had me eating the yambs by request and willingly... But wouldn't give me a damn thing in return...smh. 2 years bruh and a child. NO HEAD from her idk about you but nahhhhhhh.
 
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Op what do you offer her to have her wanting to be on your jock 24/7? Quality time, money, support? She obviously wanting something from you, but your not getting what you want from her. **** don't work like that. Either she straightens up or beat it..... And I ain't talking about your meat.... I know you been over compensating for your lack of quality yambs....lol
 
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Suggest that she try new things to spice it up, but if that doesn't work don't cheat cause youre not a herb
 
DCAllAmerican said:
Your blood doesn't boil. You love these threads because you can get another chance to display your holier than though approach to relationships. You aren't fooling anyone
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It doesn't take much to excercise the attitude you claim to be "holier than thou" when 90% of the *** some NTers say is straight up GARBAGE...lol

Dudes bragging about cheating on their baby moms while she was pregnant with their seed....HELL YEAH IM HOLIER THAN THOU!

:x
 
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