Who Has It Harder: Black Men or Black Women?

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I've been thinking about this for a while and want to know some of your opinions. I know it's a matter of perspective.
 
Please Jah let us not do this.

Both groups face similar challenges obviously, and each group faces unique challenges. I would hope everyone each group would have empathy for the other, and want the best for each other.

NT doesn't need and oppression dong measuring contest among black people in the same struggle, nor does it need a thread ******** on sistas.

And this will just give a green light to the race trolls and clowns.
 
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Please Jah let us not do this.

Both groups face similar challenges obviously, and each group faces unique challenges. I would hope everyone each group would have empathy for the other, and want the best for each other.

NT doesn't need and oppression dong measuring contest among black people in the same struggle, nor does it need a thread ******** on sistas.
True, I understand that. It was just a question I wanted opinions on and as I said before it's a matter of perspective. I'm not trying to undermine the struggles black women go through.
 
My opinion wouldnt matter.


They both face adversity because of peoples ignorance.


Theres your answer now keep it movin trick.
 
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You can't single out the black man and the black woman. Man woman and child is the family. We all have it rough. The black woman is the earth and the child is the star. You can't have a complete system if everything ain't working together in unison.
 
You can't single out the black man and the black woman. Man woman and child is the family. We all have it rough. The black woman is the earth and the child is the star. You can't have a complete system if everything ain't working together in unison.
truth.. This can be said for every culture.
 
What is with this defeatist competition mentality?

I mean let's say we determine who has it worse, what then? That group gets to have a pity party and complain the most?

Also besides that lameness, it really simplyndepends on what you feel is worse and that's something not the same for everyone of we're looking at every category that's relevant.
 
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These types of questions dont matter. It makes us focus on the wrong things, like how our struggles are different, which separates us.
What we need to be asking is how to elevate the level of unity and cooperation among each other in the black community.
Because its not only blacks killing blacks that we have a problem with. There's a black on black hating problem.

****** cant stand to see the next brotha doing well in his life, love and business.
Its KILLS them inside. Lets take the Blac Youngsta situation from a few days ago as an example. A read alot of the comments saying how he deserved it for always flossin, and how its only so much wealth he can flaunt before somebody comes and takes it.

But why? How does the fact that he flaunts give other ****** the RIGHT to come take it from him? What kind of degenreate mentalities are we cosigning in the hood? And its only cause he is a hood *****. I dont see anyone talking about "Floyd Mayweather flaunts too much cash, it only a matter of time before somebody get his ***". i dont see anyone say that about about Dan Bilzerian either. So why Blac? Cause ****** be hating. For no other reason than to hate.




These ****** cant stand the fact that a ***** like Blac Youngsta is getting money. I dont listen to his ignorant *** music but i will not hate on his hustle.They hate it to the point that they want to go to whatever valet section this is at and SIT in his car while simultaneously hating on him.

This ***** hollered out. "Yeah Im in Blac Youngsta's ****. Tell that ***** I'll take his junt mane"
the other ***** said, "That boy got that Aston Martin, On Hoover he on that *****, *****(referring to the mf sitting on BY's car) This Hoover over here *****. On a Aston Martin *****, yeah *****, real talk."
So these ***** wanna hate but at the same time are excited to even be in close proximity to an Aston Martin.
Like what is real talk about you and your ignorant *** ****** sitting on another man's Supercar while hating on him? How TF is that real talk?

Like how are you gonna be disrespectful to another black man while trying to look cool sitting in HIS car.
What part of the game is this? Back to the point.

The difference between the times of the Civil Rights movement and now is that back then black people knew and understood that they were all in it together. Fighting for the same goal, on one accord, together in solidarity. But today a ***** would rather sit in your car and ridicule you than support you in any way. So we gotta support each other. Cant be worried about whose struggle is "worse".
 
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These types of questions dont matter. It makes us focus on the wrong things, like how our struggles are different, which separates us.
What we need to be asking is how to elevate the level of unity and cooperation among each other in the black community.
Because its not only blacks killing blacks that we have a problem with. There's a black on black hating problem.

****** cant stand to see the next brotha doing well in his life, love and business.
Its KILLS them inside. Lets take the Blac Youngsta situation from a few days ago as an example. A read alot of the comments saying how he deserved it for always flossin, and how its only so much wealth he can flaunt before somebody comes and takes it.

But why? How does the fact that he flaunts give other ****** the RIGHT to come take it from him? What kind of degenreate mentalities are we cosigning in the hood? And its only cause he is a hood *****. I dont see anyone talking about "Floyd Mayweather flaunts too much cash, it only a matter of time before somebody get his ***". i dont see anyone say that about about Dan Bilzerian either. So why Blac? Cause ****** be hating. For no other reason than to hate.


These ****** cant stand the fact that a ***** like Blac Youngsta is getting money. I dont listen to his ignorant *** music but i will not hate on his hustle.They hate it to the point that they want to go to whatever valet section this is at and SIT in his car while simultaneously hating on him.

This ***** hollered out. "Yeah Im in Blac Youngsta's ****. Tell that ***** I'll take his junt mane"
the other ***** said, "That boy got that Aston Martin, On Hoover he on that *****, *****(referring to the mf sitting on BY's car) This Hoover over here *****. On a Aston Martin *****, yeah *****, real talk."
So these ***** wanna hate but at the same time are excited to even be in close proximity to an Aston Martin.
Like what is real talk about you and your ignorant *** ****** sitting on another man's Supercar while hating on him? How TF is that real talk?

Like how are you gonna be disrespectful to another black man while trying to look cool sitting in HIS car.
What part of the game is this? Back to the point.

The difference between the times of the Civil Rights movement and now is that back then black people knew and understood that they were all in it together. Fighting for the same goal, on one accord, together in solidarity. But today a ***** would rather sit in your car and ridicule you than support you in any way. So we gotta support each other. Cant be worried about whose struggle is "worse".
You're right we have to support each other to an extent. If someone is doing something negative or portraying something negative I can't support that.
 
Both have it rough but as a black man I feel for black women it's gotta be rough.. especially for young dark skin girls.. some grow up insecure due to their skin color or hair, they think there not Beautiful when really there is no manual on what's attractive. That's why I support anything that gives black women a voice in a positive way... right now keep it funky to the naked eye it looks they're the ones carrying our race right now especially in DC
 
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You can't single out the black man and the black woman. Man woman and child is the family. We all have it rough. The black woman is the earth and the child is the star. You can't have a complete system if everything ain't working together in unison.

probably the realest thing you ever said
 
im slightly uncomfortable with how the title of this post was worded. its not a contest.

also, i feel this kinda **** creates division amongst us. same as that lightskin/darkskin ****.

that being said. it is with out question black women.

society as a whole doesnt fully respect women let alone a woman who is black.

what happened to leslie jones has happened to other celebrity women but im pretty sure I never saw that particular set of motives used for "exposing" someone.

society throws black men a "bone" every once in a while but never black women specifically. its as if they are almost an afterthought in the grand scheme of things.
 
You COULD make the argument that black men have it worse because black women have always been allowed to be the "Henchmen" of White Master.

On the Plantation, the women were the ones that were usually given the role of overseer to make sure the men didn't create any uproar.

The same thing happens today on the workforce.

It was all in an effort to FORCE the women into a leadership role, which in turn devalues the black man. This was strategically done.

Whether or not yall beleive in the Willie Lynch letter, the practices WERE used and are still being used. Make the woman the head and the entire structure is SHOT.

So honestly, I don't know who has it "better" in that situation. The woman is almost used as a pawn in the whole operation to bring down the natural power structure of man leading the family/community.

But again, you can make arguments for EITHER side, just giving a different perspective. Not saying yours is wrong and mine is right
 
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Black men have it worse because we're too masculine for the corporate world. But like slavery "the beast" always feels more comfortable with the black woman because she's more likely to conform to his demands. i.e. Blond hair, permed hair, nasal tone, laughing at unfunny jokes, accepting government assistance. 
 
I couldn't imagine what black girls go through man. The identity issues with rarely seeing people on TV that looks like them. That is just women in general, they are always chasing social acceptance when it comes to what certain people think beauty is.

Then they hardly have any wholesome female figures when compared to the level of raunchy ones
 
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