How would you feel if someone proposed at your wedding?

Depends, if bride and groom are aware of what you intend to do and agree to it, then I don't see a problem, you randomly getting up mid reception and popping the question, you deserve to be escorted out the wedding.

I've seen a wedding where the bride was in on it, her sister was her maid of honor and her boyfriend planned it with the bride, bride handed the bouquet during the bouquet toss and dude came and got on one knee...it worked perfect, bride loved it....it was a moment she shared with her little sister for ever.
 
JayPesoz said:
 
millenial said:
 
StephenB said:
I agree,made a decision to not ever get married when I was young.
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Did that when for my whole life, 32 now and still hold the same belief
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For you never marrying dudes, do you guys just see yourself living with a girl you've been with long term or do you just see yourselves still dating at 64. Just the thought of weddings seem to be kryptonite to alot of folks here
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I wouldn't mind just being with a chick for the rest of my life. My aunt and uncle did that. Didn't even know they weren't married until after he died.

But on the other hand I got another unc in his 60s, looking 40 hitting chicks all over the world in they 30s (which is why his marriage fell apart) and I wouldn't mind that either.

My beef with marriage is I just feel like if we grow apart marriage makes separation more difficult than it needs to be.

I'm not trying to enter a legally binding contract stipulating I gotta be with a woman until one of us dies or else.

Relationships start and end. There's always that possibility. If it happens let's just move on without lawyers and ********.

But movies tv and culture as a whole feeds people this dream of a perfect marriage to a perfect mate and it's BS. 

Life aint a romance novel or hallmark channel movie but people still wanna try and have that happily ever after.

But when that happily ever after finally ends it aint no fun for anyone. Especially men with some of these outdated marriage laws.
 
What if you're the groom and the chick getting proposed to is your side piece?
 
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Are engagement parties even necessary? Seem pointless to me.
 
Like whats the big deal........

so you guys think that once they propose everyone will suddenly forget about you and your spouse and start worshiping the newly engaged couple.'


They are going to get accolades like 5- 10 minutes top.



I think the spot light can be off of you for 10 minutes


You guys will survive without the praise.
 
Don't understand how hard it is to just let the people have the day that they've been planning for months and cost them a fortune. Selfish.
 
JayPesoz said:
For you never marrying dudes, do you guys just see yourself living with a girl you've been with long term or do you just see yourselves still dating at 64. Just the thought of weddings seem to be kryptonite to alot of folks here :lol:
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Coming from someone with a child, never wanted to get married il probably date for a while . Want my daughter being the focus of my life til at least she's 18, plus I'm not good with commitment
 
im dreading my wedding day and i havent even proposed i hate that kind of attention. So, if some other couple do that and take away the attention from me, ill be happy. 
 
I don't see the problem, most people there are being paid by the hour, just tag your party along with theirs. Hell, might as well ask the Pastor if he'll marry you on the spot and now you got a wedding for free 99.
 
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I don't see the problem, most people there are being paid by the hour, just tag your party along with theirs. Hell, might as well ask the Pastor if he'll marry you on the spot and now you got a wedding for free 99.
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That's the problem. The couple getting married didn't spend all that money so you can be like oh this is my event too and we'll celebrate our thing.
 
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That's the problem. The couple getting married didn't spend all that money so you can be like oh this is my event too and we'll celebrate our thing.
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This right here.

At my wedding reception one my oldest friends randomly announced that him and his girlfriend had gotten married weeks before and hadn't told anyone. Me, my family, friends and everyone at the reception were super happy and made the reception even better



But real **** I woke the a day or two later feeling lightweight kinda 0]

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ksteezy said:
Depends, if bride and groom are aware of what you intend to do and agree to it, then I don't see a problem, you randomly getting up mid reception and popping the question, you deserve to be escorted out the wedding.

I've seen a wedding where the bride was in on it, her sister was her maid of honor and her boyfriend planned it with the bride, bride handed the bouquet during the bouquet toss and dude came and got on one knee...it worked perfect, bride loved it....it was a moment she shared with her little sister for ever.
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This sounds perfect and how it should be. Anything else where you just randomly do it, you are a scum :lol:
 
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shogun said:
That's the problem. The couple getting married didn't spend all that money so you can be like oh this is my event too and we'll celebrate our thing.
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This right here.

At my wedding reception one my oldest friends randomly announced that him and his girlfriend had gotten married weeks before and hadn't told anyone. Me, my family, friends and everyone at the reception were super happy and made the reception even better



But real **** I woke the a day or two later feeling lightweight kinda
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I know what they were thinking. "Let's do it at the courthouse for free and then when Law and his girl get married we just announce it and make their wedding party ours too!" 
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dahhkneesb said:
Yup Its crazy to me
I have a cousin who was supposed to get married this past summer but her dude called it off (they're still together)
Then her older brother got married this last weekend and she was tight, like legit pissed that he was getting married before her. She didn't even go to his wedding.
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My coworker's sister pushed her wedding that was supposed to be in 2017 to august of this year just so her wedding was before September which was my coworker's wedding. Needless to say, they each didn't go to each other's wedding :smh:
 
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JayPesoz said:
 
millenial said:
 
StephenB said:
I agree,made a decision to not ever get married when I was young.
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Did that when for my whole life, 32 now and still hold the same belief
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For you never marrying dudes, do you guys just see yourself living with a girl you've been with long term or do you just see yourselves still dating at 64. Just the thought of weddings seem to be kryptonite to alot of folks here
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imma have 3 kids by the same ***** and not marry

i aint ****, my ***** aint ****, we aint gon be **** but i got decent genes and she cold so if yall want yall kids to **** on bad ******* and pretty ****** then i gotta make some babies
 
My uncle's been with his girlfriend for like 35+ years. No plans of marriage, either.
 
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