ReIationship Standards VoI. The $$$

does 50/50 work for you?

  • yeah, but sometimes 60/40

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  • if you got it, fIaunt it

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  • spending money? IoI

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whats good everyone so recentIy I've been taIking with a friend of mine and she beIieves that the man in the reIationship shouId cover aII expenses... dates, food, gifts, biIIs etc etc. over my years of dating I have onIy run into a smaII amount of women who Iive by and eventuaIIy die by that ruIe :stoneface: :lol:. do you guys beIieve these to be fair ideaIs? do they work in reIationships you've experienced? it just burns me up sometimes when I see a facebook post or something Iike that stating if a man doesn't fork over most or aII of his money on his SO then he's Iess of a man or weak by some standards. I don't mind spending my money its just that when its expected and comes with attitude then I am a IittIe reIuctant to go aII out, it says aIot about your character if you're just Iooking into what a man (or woman) can do for you. me myseIf I've been in a good reIationship for about one and a haIf years and things are pretty much 50/50 with incentives such as gifts and vacations. but anyways....what are you guys thoughts and how do you deaI with these situations when they come around? :D
 
I've met a few women like this before. I tell them that if I (or any man) is going to cover ALL expenses for them then they should have no problem being controlled by their BF. Don't wanna hear that "I'm a strong independent woman" ****.
 
It has to be a give and take. That being said, I hate when people in general are petty and keeping count of who's paid what, etc. It creates an awkwardness and distance in a relationship that I don't like. I might pay for a couple meals. Then maybe she'll want to go to a concert and she'll pay for my ticket. Just let it naturally work out, even if it's not even.

If it's a more serious relationship, have a joint account that you guys both deposit a certain amount of money into. Then separate personal accounts for personal expenses. That's the ideal way to do it in my opinion.
 
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But most of the broads who think like that can't even cook. If they so caught up in wanting a man to pay for everything then they should do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc.
 
The stock price on yambs is at an all time low

But some men are still suckas
 
I paid for everything and made her quit her job and move in. I was making $26/h and getting over time like mugg. Now after my accounts been depleted and in on a new contract, sent her back to work.

Her doe is my doe, my doe is my doe, live & learn
 
I paid for everything and made her quit her job and move in. I was making $26/h and getting over time like mugg. Now after my accounts been depleted and in on a new contract, sent her back to work.

Her doe is my doe, my doe is my doe, live & learn
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It's always gonna be 50 50. It's a 2 way street man foh if it's any other way

That *** wants a sugar daddy. If a dude was to cover all expenses then he better be in total control of that relationship word bond
 

Some papis never born with da blessing, them need to take extra lessions :smh:

Bout " cause they *******"

*** plz :smh:
 
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She paying half and if she's not working then I got it covered. Let that chick get a divorce on you in the right circumstances and she take half. Meanwhile you been paying everything for this ***
 
So much for self-proclaimed "strong independent women."

I believe in equality, so 50:50 is the way to go.
 
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