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I cover the food and drinks. We split bills down the middle. She covers the indo.
ReIationship Standards VoI. The $$$
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I don't mind paying. Even when I was a brokeboy I'd still scrape together a few dollars to pay for a whole day.
But all the time? From the jump? Unless you cooking and giving up the draws whenever I went then FOH.
But all the time? From the jump? Unless you cooking and giving up the draws whenever I went then FOH.
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that mentailty is depleting my friend. Independent, worthy Women about they business and will look at you side ways if you come at them with "i will buy you whatever baby" bs. So by default i follow suit and me and my girl half or alternate expenses. My girl actually makes more than me so we good.
SO many good sexy women out there that aint with that bs, no need too chase the bad girls man.
SO many good sexy women out there that aint with that bs, no need too chase the bad girls man.
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As of right now, she paying all the bills rent food some of my clothes gas to school and home, when we go out (not so often). Only because I'm going to school, once I'm done I'll be returning the favor only because she wants to get rid of 80% or more of her loans. After that we'll get a joint account and agree to put in X amount for bills, food, outings and saving for vacations.
If a girls willing to do all that for you..... I'll probably be the one thats crying if I'm on one knee and she says yes.
If a girls willing to do all that for you..... I'll probably be the one thats crying if I'm on one knee and she says yes.
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Whenever a chick I don't know.. expect me to pay for everything..
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I guess I know a good amount of chicks that are down for their dudes and willing to pay more for their dude and the relationship.
Not sure about crying once you are down on one knee b.
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Man my problem went I first got into POF and things was i was taking chics on too expensive of dates. I wasn't trying to stunt or impress them or anything, was just doing stuff i am normally into; playoff games, concerts, nice dinners, etc. So naturally being where some of these jawns is from, they attracted off the jump (although they obviously were to an enough of an extent already to agree to go out with me). If I end up in the dating pool again, I'm checking that from day 1, AppleBee's 2 for 20 with half priced apps after 9 and $1.99 Long Islands plus dutch or you pick me up.
But yea Martin made a facebook post on this topic this weekend off this meme below and the responses were mind bottling. Chics literally out here clocking 6 figures, lawyers, M.D's, etc. still expect the man to pay for everything but the same women want that man to be so progressive regarding gender roles they'll flip out if you ask them to cook or clean.
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I have no problem covering the first few dates if I dig the chick. But most chicks I've dated also have self volunteered to either split or cover a check if we've been seeing each other for a while and she already gave up the yambs. Though there are those that are all about looking for a sugar daddy. I've been able to identify them with a sort of set of questions. After the 1st and if not then definitely by the 2nd date you can easily spot those.
The worst ones, for me at least, are the ones that hold a great job and make decent money but are strapped with CC debt because they have 0 managerial skills. All the other suckers can keep those, those girls are just a headache and I ain't going to be with you to help improve your credit score sorry.
The worst ones, for me at least, are the ones that hold a great job and make decent money but are strapped with CC debt because they have 0 managerial skills. All the other suckers can keep those, those girls are just a headache and I ain't going to be with you to help improve your credit score sorry.
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Women like that are one in a million. Women these days just wanna be put on a pedestal and get pampered.
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Nah.
If you ain't wifey, you shouldn't be expecting a damn thing.
If you ain't wifey, you shouldn't be expecting a damn thing.
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box must be so bomb if you actually want to have a LTR with a woman like that
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50/50 with my girl but she looks out for me more bc I'm bad with money so 51/49.
had a girl once who wanted to be supported, bish had nothing to offer. she ended up being a single mom for a few years by boning some dude in mexico, he wanted nothing to do with her, so he never made his way over the border.
had a girl once who wanted to be supported, bish had nothing to offer. she ended up being a single mom for a few years by boning some dude in mexico, he wanted nothing to do with her, so he never made his way over the border.
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I can tell your life sucks.
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I don't mess with hoover chics.
I was raised around women who work hard so, I expect the same of my significant other. A lazy chic can't get a conversation from me.
If she doesn't want to work or help out with expenses, she's not going to be good at nurturing or raising your kids.
I was raised around women who work hard so, I expect the same of my significant other. A lazy chic can't get a conversation from me.
If she doesn't want to work or help out with expenses, she's not going to be good at nurturing or raising your kids.
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In my opinion. If the man is serious about the woman, the man pays for absolutely everything for at least the first 6 months. if not longer.. I feel like it's the man's job to assure the woman that he can maintain a certain level of reliability. As well as establish leadership and gain respect. I feel this is important if you plan on wearing the pants in the relationship. Establish dominance if you will(money,power,respect).. Allow her to see that you're all in. And that you've invested not only time, but money.. Now at this point she should be comfortable enough to know that you are serious about her, and that you are able to give her and maintain a sense of security on your end.. Now after this time period of 6 months is over and you've put in that work physically, financially and emotionally. it's about time to see what she's talking about as far as her financially reliability goes. Is she capable of having your back on a rainy day or even matching you step for step.. Throughout this entire time you guys have been dating she should have already displayed the want to pick up bills and pay for things while you guys are out and about. Although you've never let her.. She should have great recognition of how you never let her pay for anything and she should be waiting for her chance to take you out and give back what you've given to her.. That's when you finally let her take you out.. At that point you should have no problem splinting everything 50/50 from there on out. That's exactly how it went with me and my wife and it's the best decision I ever made(she has so much more money than me). Our daughter is 11 and I wish some dirty dog would try to make my babygirl pay for a dang thing when she gets older. just my humble opinion and personal experience..
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ok, then she's getting wrapped in a hijab and not leaving the house. And I ain't even muslim. Otherwise she bound to meet a dude who got a penny more as Big L once said.
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60 / 40 is fine with me
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This...
You want to be pampered like monarch...? then as the provider and King my commands become royal decree. No problems with that.
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I feel this. When me and my girl got together, i took care of everything, when Im struggling, she looks out for me
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This.
Been with my wife ten plus years off and on. When we got together I was hustling and had zero responsibilities. So I paid for everythinggg
Fast forward to after college, she had a muchh better paying job and I was jumping from job to job so she supported us 100%
Fast forward again to the present and I make slightly more than her... I take care of probably 75% of things
Everybody's got their own arrangements but if ur girl ain't down to support when times are rough why you even with her tbh?
I could find 748584944839 females right nowww that would date me if I'm opening my wallet 100% of the time. Gotta be careful they're in it for you and not the perks because as has been mentioned if your relationship is formulated on the idea that she pays for nothing for her to leave is only going to require a larger checking account..
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but what if yall share accounts and she makes 25k more in salary....how does it matter then?
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How many kids you have?
Unless you have very young kids I see no reason for any man to take care of any women.
Split the bills how you want but when has one income ever been better then two?
Hold this L
