Originally Posted by Hennessy
All of this and especially the bolded. That's why I said freakiness and infidelity aren't correlated. However, if your girl is a freak and wants these things done to her...and you're too prude to do it because you think it's disrespectful...don't be surprised when she gets her disrespectful needs satisfied elsewhere and leaves both YOU and her disrespected my someone else.
Moral of the story... Disrespect your girl however she likes it
yourself or there's gonna be a whole lot more disrespect going around.
all of this.
Originally Posted by iamDEF
And most women are ashamed to discuss how freaky they are because them "good guys" who treat em right gon judge em and drop em.
not necessarily -- there are "good guys" who will treat their girl like a queen AND fulfill her the sexual desires.
Originally Posted by Slighted
Grown man attitude -- always respect that
Honestly, this is the reason why a lot of my past relationships failed. The priority was my dreams/goals first and then everything else later. They just weren't down for the cause.
i think being super understanding is relevant in situations like these. i don't think you can give someone your full attention as an adult working to fulfill your dreams. i think you need to be selfish with your time (to an extent) if you really have that drive to be successful. shoot, sometimes i don't even have time for myself.
i'm doing all the necessary to get into nursing school -- i've been studying nonstop for exams so i can keep my pre-req grades as high as i can because my GPA from college wasn't that great. my dude is really understanding and KNOWS how being a nurse is what i truly want to do. and he's working a full-time day job so he can pursue an MBA. we text here and there throughout the day, but i don't really get to talk to him until nighttime. but that's okay.
i believe that a couple should build an empire together. however, there should be designated date nights and days saved for your partner. fridays and saturdays are always the days we see each other. it makes up for the lack of time spent together during the week.
Edited by shoyru - 1/11/17 at 1:50pm