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Im 25 and been with my girl for 4 years. The first 3 was smoove sailing for the most part ..then 2016 happen. It's like I woke up in January with a renewed urge for new P. Been through 4-5 girls this year. I'm REALLY trying to turn over a new leaf and leave everyone alone.

My question to y'all in committee relationships is how do y'all do it ? I'm sure the urge never goes away
post #62 of 9150
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Originally Posted by DCMADE View Post

Im 25 and been with my girl for 4 years. The first 3 was smoove sailing for the most part ..then 2016 happen. It's like I woke up in January with a renewed urge for new P. Been through 4-5 girls this year. I'm REALLY trying to turn over a new leaf and leave everyone alone.

My question to y'all in committee relationships is how do y'all do it ? I'm sure the urge never goes away

 

I'm only 27 and been with my wife married for year and a half but dating for about 4 years and honestly me and her been through so much even the IG chicks I follow and like they pics they could throw the box in my lap and I'm guaranteed to get away with it wouldn't test me much. She helped me through so much I can't see myself hurt her like that.

 

I guess I can't hurt her. It would destroy my wife if I betrayed her and I couldn't live with that.

post #63 of 9150
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Originally Posted by DCMADE View Post

Im 25 and been with my girl for 4 years. The first 3 was smoove sailing for the most part ..then 2016 happen. It's like I woke up in January with a renewed urge for new P. Been through 4-5 girls this year. I'm REALLY trying to turn over a new leaf and leave everyone alone.


My question to y'all in committee relationships is how do y'all do it ? I'm sure the urge never goes away

I'm only 27 and been with my wife married for year and a half but dating for about 4 years and honestly me and her been through so much even the IG chicks I follow and like they pics they could throw the box in my lap and I'm guaranteed to get away with it wouldn't test me much. She helped me through so much I can't see myself hurt her like that.

I guess I can't hurt her. It would destroy my wife if I betrayed her and I couldn't live with that.

Word. Me and my wife just celebrated our three year anniversary but we've been together for 6 years. I have no problems getting girls but I honestly love my wife and our daughter so much that I wouldn't jeopardize that for anything. I already know the regret I'll feel after that "cheating nut" will eat me up. I have it way to good with the wife right now, I'm just not going to allow myself to be stupid. Got a lot of hobbies and interests to keep my mind and time occupied anyway.

The urge will always be there because New P is just the best thing ever but I suppose you sort of have to be above it, if that makes sense.
post #64 of 9150
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Originally Posted by HAWAII 5O View Post

I wished we could do a PYG again, but dudes be ******* it up!


We can do a PMYGX (Private Message Your Girl Exchange) laugh.gif

I'll dabble in this tomfoolery lol


thinkin' about this got me thinkin' about how thin my wife used to be. She grew them cakes for ya boy but she also got a lil tummy she been complaining about and thinkin' a waist trainer gon conquer. I reckon I need to start working out with her again, if she get her stomach back on flat flat like how she did when we met might put a few  more babies in her

Waist trainers do work famb! It works wonders. My current girl uses them. I wondered why she was so curvy.

Anyway, just remember brother, never suggest anything to a girl that will challenge her self esteem.

Never try to vocally voice out your opinion to improve your girl. If you want change, you're just gonna have to change with her.

Kind of like manipulating the situation to benefit your end.

Same thing happened with my ex... she gained weight at the wrong places, and everytime I politely suggested that she lose weight, she'd flip.

"Ohhh why don't you get with a skinny ***** then" or "If you love me, than you'd accept me" or my personal favorite "I don't try to change you, so don't change me"

So one day I approached it different. Started taking hiking on our date days, started biking around the city/beach/lake.... ect.

I would take her to the park and teach her to play basketball. After awhile, she started loving doing physical activities with me, because it was a chance to spend "quality" time together.

Took her to the gym one day and made it fun for her, made her do workouts that I did, until she became a Gym Addict.

#missionaccomplished.
post #65 of 9150
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Originally Posted by DCMADE View Post

Im 25 and been with my girl for 4 years. The first 3 was smoove sailing for the most part ..then 2016 happen. It's like I woke up in January with a renewed urge for new P. Been through 4-5 girls this year. I'm REALLY trying to turn over a new leaf and leave everyone alone.

My question to y'all in committee relationships is how do y'all do it ? I'm sure the urge never goes away

You still with your girl?
post #66 of 9150
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Originally Posted by JayPesoz View Post


The urge will always be there because New P is just the best thing ever but I suppose you sort of have to be above it, if that makes sense.

 

New p is like when you full but there's more food on the plate, you know if you eat it you gon pay for it and it ain't worth it but it sho look good

 

 

 

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Originally Posted by HAWAII 5O View Post


Waist trainers do work famb! It works wonders. My current girl uses them. I wondered why she was so curvy.

Anyway, just remember brother, never suggest anything to a girl that will challenge her self esteem.

Never try to vocally voice out your opinion to improve your girl. If you want change, you're just gonna have to change with her.

Kind of like manipulating the situation to benefit your end.

Same thing happened with my ex... she gained weight at the wrong places, and everytime I politely suggested that she lose weight, she'd flip.

"Ohhh why don't you get with a skinny ***** then" or "If you love me, than you'd accept me" or my personal favorite "I don't try to change you, so don't change me"

So one day I approached it different. Started taking hiking on our date days, started biking around the city/beach/lake.... ect.

I would take her to the park and teach her to play basketball. After awhile, she started loving doing physical activities with me, because it was a chance to spend "quality" time together.

Took her to the gym one day and made it fun for her, made her do workouts that I did, until she became a Gym Addict.

#missionaccomplished.

 

From what I know waist trainers work WITH some actual work attached to it. You don't strap it on and get abs 3 days later. I've been meaning to get back into lifting and exercising since I'm playin flag football again and I'm planning on getting into private security training and jobs so I've been slacking along with her. I'm just less vocal with the dissatisfaction for my current physique.

 

When we used to work out she wanted to do these exercises that required me to be involved and it irritated me because I'm used to independent exercises so I was over it before she even warmed up. But I'm gonna put together a routine and as a fam we'll all get down and try to get it tight

post #67 of 9150
TAY, didn't realize the last one got locked.

Currently I'm ******* 2 different chicks with the same name, different spelling, 2 different races. Hailey and Haley. Not really a juggler but this is going surprisingly smooth.
post #68 of 9150
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You still with your girl?

Yea I broke it off for like a month and came right back. I can't be without her really . I want it both ways and I know that's not fair to her. I'm really trying to let em all go this time around
post #69 of 9150
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You still with your girl?

Yea I broke it off for like a month and came right back. I can't be without her really . I want it both ways and I know that's not fair to her. I'm really trying to let em all go this time around

So you cheated on her with 4-5 different girls? How did you feel about it? Guilty? Nonchalant?
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You still with your girl?

Yea I broke it off for like a month and came right back. I can't be without her really . I want it both ways and I know that's not fair to her. I'm really trying to let em all go this time around

So you cheated on her with 4-5 different girls? How did you feel about it? Guilty? Nonchalant?
I thought he was saying he wasn't with her gor a month.
post #71 of 9150

Might have been one of those "separated but still together" technicalities

post #72 of 9150
Separated in his mind
Still together in her's
post #73 of 9150
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My girl not friends wit her friends anymore and its my fault LOL


How is it my fault they were twerking on me, and someone captured it on SC


I'm innocent b


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post #74 of 9150
I'll finally post my girl if we do the group pm ya boy just got cuffed
post #75 of 9150
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My girl not friends wit her friends anymore and its my fault LOL


How is it my fault they were twerking on me, and someone captured it on SC


I'm innocent b

Love this thread.
post #76 of 9150
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I'll finally post my girl if we do the group pm ya boy just got cuffed

Get on group me. We got a chat going
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post #77 of 9150
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Might have been one of those "separated but still together" technicalities

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One of those let's take a break so I don't have to feel guilty excuses. I can honestly say I felt little no remorse tho. I can completely slut a female out and sleep peacefully that night with shawty laugh.gif

I'm trying to get out ahead of the **** now and just stop before I get caught up. I'm trying to make her an honest women and I don't want to be that type of Fiancé/Husband
post #78 of 9150
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Originally Posted by DCMADE View Post

Im 25 and been with my girl for 4 years. The first 3 was smoove sailing for the most part ..then 2016 happen. It's like I woke up in January with a renewed urge for new P. Been through 4-5 girls this year. I'm REALLY trying to turn over a new leaf and leave everyone alone.

My question to y'all in committee relationships is how do y'all do it ? I'm sure the urge never goes away
I won't risk something that I know is too good to have and won't find again. Every female is unique in their own way. For me at least, I've found what I want.
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post #79 of 9150
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Originally Posted by DCMADE View Post

Im 25 and been with my girl for 4 years. The first 3 was smoove sailing for the most part ..then 2016 happen. It's like I woke up in January with a renewed urge for new P. Been through 4-5 girls this year. I'm REALLY trying to turn over a new leaf and leave everyone alone.

My question to y'all in committee relationships is how do y'all do it ? I'm sure the urge never goes away
I won't risk something that I know is too good to have and won't find again. Every female is unique in their own way. For me at least, I've found what I want.
Wish I was smart enough to see the light. But definitely was a learning lesson mean.gif
Edited by 703 Hwy - 11/15/16 at 4:50pm
post #80 of 9150
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I'll finally post my girl if we do the group pm ya boy just got cuffed

Get on group me. We got a chat going

Yeah? Well damn, y'all holding out on your boy.

I used to put dudes on, on snapchat this whole year. My PMs were always LIT!
post #81 of 9150
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Guys in a relationship:
How do you guys motivate your significant other? nerd.gif

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post #83 of 9150

Just got off the phone with her, talked for a good hour which is rare for me cause I hate talking on the phone. L word dropped several times.:{

 

 

This is not gangsta, this is very not gangsta.:x

Deus est mortuus, logica obtinet.

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post #84 of 9150
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Guys in a relationship:
How do you guys motivate your significant other? nerd.gif

You gotta stay indirect with the comments and act like it's you who's motivated to get it done and hope it doesn't take long for her to get on board. You gotta be like Patrick Swayze in Ghost and make her think she's molding the clay when it's really you guiding her.
post #85 of 9150
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Just got off the phone with her, talked for a good hour which is rare for me cause I hate talking on the phone. L word dropped several times.mean.gif


This is not gangsta, this is very not gangsta.sick.gif

After a month bro laugh.gif

Def in the honeymoon stages ..stay on your game your hardly know ole girl
post #86 of 9150
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We're missing @jetsetkev too. nerd.gif


Lol haha I'm here got some pics I want to post
post #87 of 9150
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Originally Posted by 703 Hwy View Post

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Originally Posted by DCMADE View Post

Im 25 and been with my girl for 4 years. The first 3 was smoove sailing for the most part ..then 2016 happen. It's like I woke up in January with a renewed urge for new P. Been through 4-5 girls this year. I'm REALLY trying to turn over a new leaf and leave everyone alone.

My question to y'all in committee relationships is how do y'all do it ? I'm sure the urge never goes away
I won't risk something that I know is too good to have and won't find again. Every female is unique in their own way. For me at least, I've found what I want.
Wish I was smart enough to see the light. But definitely was a learning lesson mean.gif
We live and learn. I learned the hard way but things turned out for the better.
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post #88 of 9150
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We're missing @jetsetkev too. nerd.gif


Lol haha I'm here got some pics I want to post

Send them this way fam, I got you back!
post #89 of 9150
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After a month bro laugh.gif

Def in the honeymoon stages ..stay on your game your hardly know ole girl

In all fairness she's simping harder than I am. :lol

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Lol haha I'm here got some pics I want to post
Shoot them to your boy. nerd.gif

For Sale:

 

Kobe 8 SS "Christmas". Size 11, 9.5/10 Condition. $150.

 

*Will trade for a size 12*

 

PM for details.

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Kobe 8 SS "Christmas". Size 11, 9.5/10 Condition. $150.

 

*Will trade for a size 12*

 

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