Originally Posted by iamDEF
Originally Posted by HAWAII 5O
I wished we could do a PYG again, but dudes be ******* it up!
We can do a PMYGX (Private Message Your Girl Exchange)
I'll dabble in this tomfoolery lol
thinkin' about this got me thinkin' about how thin my wife used to be. She grew them cakes for ya boy but she also got a lil tummy she been complaining about and thinkin' a waist trainer gon conquer. I reckon I need to start working out with her again, if she get her stomach back on flat flat like how she did when we met might put a few more babies in her
Waist trainers do work famb! It works wonders. My current girl uses them. I wondered why she was so curvy.
Anyway, just remember brother, never suggest anything to a girl that will challenge her self esteem.
Never try to vocally voice out your opinion to improve your girl. If you want change, you're just gonna have to change with her.
Kind of like manipulating the situation to benefit your end.
Same thing happened with my ex... she gained weight at the wrong places, and everytime I politely suggested that she lose weight, she'd flip.
"Ohhh why don't you get with a skinny ***** then" or "If you love me, than you'd accept me" or my personal favorite "I don't try to change you, so don't change me"
So one day I approached it different. Started taking hiking on our date days, started biking around the city/beach/lake.... ect.
I would take her to the park and teach her to play basketball. After awhile, she started loving doing physical activities with me, because it was a chance to spend "quality" time together.
Took her to the gym one day and made it fun for her, made her do workouts that I did, until she became a Gym Addict.