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Wrestling is a good go-to, and often is one of the easiest ways to segue into foreplay but in this situation I'm leaning toward either WIO or Hoosier's advice.

 

If she's inquiring about what you are working with it's prob crossed her mind a couple of times and she finally asked cause she wants to smash but idk if she'll be with the FWB label. But put it out there and see.

 

Could just be trying to throw a sad queer a bone LOL. That is just my self deprecating sense of humor. I mean, she knows me well enough, I am super honest and open about everything in my life to everyone I know. Back of my head is saying maybe don't because I don't wanna ruin the friendship, but I also think we are both mature enough to move past that if it ever got awkward or dead it before it even began. Hoosier's advice seems to be the consensus play amongst everyone I asked. 

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Sounds like you could've sealed the deal that night when she asked what you're working with. She gave you the open court pass for dunk. You could've said or done a number of things to get her to go after that. At least now you know your **** is on her mind.

Next time you're alone with her, keep it smooth and play the role you usually play, but the moment she moves the conversation in that direction, have a goal in mind and be obvious but not heavy handed. Not to make you dwell, but you could've taken the nerdy route on some "damn you got me so... right now" and see how she reacted. Most women would wanna see how turned on they got you.

Fam, I live in a perpetual state of dwelling haha. You good though, I didn't put much thought into it at the time, but there was definitely a "oh, word" moment when she started kind of mining for info and bringing out this other cat she was trying to mess with but dipped on her last minute. 

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BM wants me back, I was the one asking to make it work for a few months. Finally got over it and shorty found herself going through my phone while I was asleep and felt like she only wants me back cause she knows they're other chicks waiting for the pipe.. 

 

We been separated for 7 months but been smashing the past 6 months. I dont think she wouldve made it a point to want to get back with me if she didnt go into my phone.. 

 

i love her we got 3 kids together, but to me something aint right about her actions... and im not just gonna run back home cause its safe... 

 

 

 

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One thing I forgot to ask is, what did you mean you guys talking about her acting hoeing?

I think she has been going through a dryspell, much like me lol. She has mentioned before she was trying to get "**** ed down" her words. I just brought it up cuz she was kind of talking about some people she was talking to and as a genuinely concerned friend, I asked how that was going lol. 

 

EDIT: I think maybe now she was trying to provoke me into maybe asking her about getting together somehow, cuz she showed me ol' boys goods on her phone and I made a couple jokes about hammering nails and going to an adult shop and copping something that looked like what she showed me. 

 

Then she was like " well what you got going on?" 


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laugh.gif Bruh the window is wiiiiiide open! Get your *** in there!
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BM wants me back, I was the one asking to make it work for a few months. Finally got over it and shorty found herself going through my phone while I was asleep and felt like she only wants me back cause she knows they're other chicks waiting for the pipe.. 

 

We been separated for 7 months but been smashing the past 6 months. I dont think she wouldve made it a point to want to get back with me if she didnt go into my phone.. 

 

i love her we got 3 kids together, but to me something aint right about her actions... and im not just gonna run back home cause its safe... 

 

 

 

i got so many prospects on my list right now, i cant just give that up... 

just marry her famb. Either that or just continue to be **** buddys or whatever :lol. If you gonna get back with  her just marry her bro otherwise that dating on and off **** gotta be tiring 

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BM wants me back, I was the one asking to make it work for a few months. Finally got over it and shorty found herself going through my phone while I was asleep and felt like she only wants me back cause she knows they're other chicks waiting for the pipe.. 

We been separated for 7 months but been smashing the past 6 months. I dont think she wouldve made it a point to want to get back with me if she didnt go into my phone.. 

i love her we got 3 kids together, but to me something aint right about her actions... and im not just gonna run back home cause its safe... 



i got so many prospects on my list right now, i cant just give that up... 

3 kids but you cant figure out if you want to be with her or not? laugh.gif something aint right about your actions either pimp laugh.gif
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I think she has been going through a dryspell, much like me lol. She has mentioned before she was trying to get "**** ed down" her words. I just brought it up cuz she was kind of talking about some people she was talking to and as a genuinely concerned friend, I asked how that was going lol. 

 

EDIT: I think maybe now she was trying to provoke me into maybe asking her about getting together somehow, cuz she showed me ol' boys goods on her phone and I made a couple jokes about hammering nails and going to an adult shop and copping something that looked like what she showed me. 

 

Then she was like " well what you got going on?" 

 

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I think she has been going through a dryspell, much like me lol. She has mentioned before she was trying to get "**** ed down" her words. I just brought it up cuz she was kind of talking about some people she was talking to and as a genuinely concerned friend, I asked how that was going lol. 

EDIT: I think maybe now she was trying to provoke me into maybe asking her about getting together somehow, cuz she showed me ol' boys goods on her phone and I made a couple jokes about hammering nails and going to an adult shop and copping something that looked like what she showed me. 

Then she was like " well what you got going on?" 

That has to be the worst level of friend zone to be shown another dudes D-pic

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I think she has been going through a dryspell, much like me lol. She has mentioned before she was trying to get "**** ed down" her words. I just brought it up cuz she was kind of talking about some people she was talking to and as a genuinely concerned friend, I asked how that was going lol. 

EDIT: I think maybe now she was trying to provoke me into maybe asking her about getting together somehow, cuz she showed me ol' boys goods on her phone and I made a couple jokes about hammering nails and going to an adult shop and copping something that looked like what she showed me. 

Then she was like " well what you got going on?" 

That has to be the worst level of friend zone to be shown another dudes D-pic

sick.gifmean.giflaugh.gif

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I think there was a window, but she saw you not bout that action she got to showing you the penis lineup.
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Hindsight, accurate lol.

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That has to be the worst level of friend zone to be shown another dudes D-pic

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I mean, me and her have been friends for 2 years and only recently has any of the attraction even risen up. Given the past relationship history and how we have operated thus far, I would have have shown her some good that got sent to me as well. *shrug**

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It was unexpected to say the least lmao.

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I think there was a window, but she saw you not bout that action she got to showing you the penis lineup.

possibly. I think I am funny enough and a good enough talker that I could work my way in. There is always the WIO lol.

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Sounds like you could've sealed the deal that night when she asked what you're working with. She gave you the open court pass for dunk. You could've said or done a number of things to get her to go after that. At least now you know your **** is on her mind.

Next time you're alone with her, keep it smooth and play the role you usually play, but the moment she moves the conversation in that direction, have a goal in mind and be obvious but not heavy handed. Not to make you dwell, but you could've taken the nerdy route on some "damn you got me so... right now" and see how she reacted. Most women would wanna see how turned on they got you.

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My man out here like Bron with the last shot. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

definitely agree with you, no doubt. Trust me, I am totally the person who in hindsight thinks "damn, I could have really worked the angle and made something out of given situation". That is why I am trying to break that habit, but for me it has been baby steps. I can't just pop off at the mouth like some people and say some just really ignorant stuff and believe it will work or not get me slapped (which really these days wouldn't be so bad) because it has never been my personality. 

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That has to be the worst level of friend zone to be shown another dudes D-pic

sick.gifmean.giflaugh.gif

 

 

Nah, he only think he in the friendzone. He really he's on the board but he left his phone on silent and missed every call, e-mail, text, alert.

His window is closing. She's in a drought and her standards will either take a dip and she'll spread eagle for a quickie or somebody will step up and do bare minimum and she will jump the new dude's bones.

 

Slide in them drawls while they loose 'round the bands

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definitely agree with you, no doubt. Trust me, I am totally the person who in hindsight thinks "damn, I could have really worked the angle and made something out of given situation". That is why I am trying to break that habit, but for me it has been baby steps. I can't just pop off at the mouth like some people and say some just really ignorant stuff and believe it will work or not get me slapped (which really these days wouldn't be so bad) because it has never been my personality. 

question is why in the world would ol girl really think you cared to see ol boys goods? I think you may have been friended zone along time ago. That window is now closed.

next thing you know she going to be showing you videos of her getting her back blown out because you took forever laugh.gif
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drewdioxin2345

 

Are you an INTP?

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The window is either closed or is closing up.

 

She's gonna hit you up when you advance too late on some "Well I gave you XYZ signals and you never tried anything"

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Nah, he only think he in the friendzone. He really he's on the board but he left his phone on silent and missed every call, e-mail, text, alert.

His window is closing. She's in a drought and her standards will either take a dip and she'll spread eagle for a quickie or somebody will step up and do bare minimum and she will jump the new dude's bones.

 

Slide in them drawls while they loose 'round the bands

 

I appreciate the confidence my dude. I am trying to make the NT and crew proud lol. Turning over a new leaf ain't easy.

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question is why in the world would ol girl really think you cared to see ol boys goods? I think you may have been friended zone along time ago. That window is now closed.

 

Again, we have been friends for 2 years and only now has there been any real attraction there. I think we have leaned on each other alot because may of our school friends moved away and we have real awful home life situations, so we kind of save each other from them. Plus we talk to each other about everything so her sexual endeavours and what not don't make me blush at all.

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drewdioxin2345

 

Are you an INTP?

possibly. I took that personality test awhile ago, but honestly never put much thought or weight into them. after googling it it def seems like me alot.

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The window is either closed or is closing up.

She's gonna hit you up when you advance too late on some "Well I gave you XYZ signals and you never tried anything"

thats why i like a more direct female sometimes. screw them signals because some dudes like drew just dont be catching them signals and friend zone themselves by accident
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I appreciate the confidence my dude. I am trying to make the NT and crew proud lol. Turning over a new leaf ain't easy.

Again, we have been friends for 2 years and only now has there been any real attraction there. I think we have leaned on each other alot because may of our school friends moved away and we have real awful home life situations, so we kind of save each other from them. Plus we talk to each other about everything so her sexual endeavours and what not don't make me blush at all.

if you comfortable about her showing you other men junks she gon show you that video of her getting her back blown out laugh.gif bruh tell her you aint interested in seeing other men junk and she needs to have a interview with yours.
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thats why i like a more direct female sometimes. screw them signals because some dudes like drew just dont be catching them signals and friend zone themselves by accident

I am close to being on some booty warrior type steez. 

 

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I appreciate the confidence my dude. I am trying to make the NT and crew proud lol. Turning over a new leaf ain't easy.

Again, we have been friends for 2 years and only now has there been any real attraction there. I think we have leaned on each other alot because may of our school friends moved away and we have real awful home life situations, so we kind of save each other from them. Plus we talk to each other about everything so her sexual endeavours and what not don't make me blush at all.
possibly. I took that personality test awhile ago, but honestly never put much thought or weight into them. after googling it it def seems like me alot.

Curious as to why it's just "her" sexual endeavors and not "ours".

I'd hope you'd be discussing any P that you get with her....cuz from the outside looking in, it looks like you're her canvas for her to spill out her sexual experiences on.
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Yeah you need to hit her up and link up quick. Be precise with your moves, not desperate.

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Curious as to why it's just "her" sexual endeavors and not "ours".

I'd hope you'd be discussing any P that you get with her....cuz from the outside looking in, it looks like you're her canvas for her to spill out her sexual experiences on.

Because I don't really have any to speak of. I "try" to date on and off to very little success so mostly what I relay are ridiculously awkward comedic tales of failed attempts. My over literary way of presenting a story tends to hide the fact that it is soul crushing to strike out so badly, so many times lol. 

 

EDIT: I have a really decent sense of humor about myself when not being self deprecating, so even though it sucks to strike out like I do, they make for great story fuel. So even though I may not be as successful, for me it entertaining to make people laugh. 

 

Most of this stems from being an ex fat kid and never shedding that mentality.

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laugh.gif @ soul crushing sexy ya self up pa. Go check out the dressing better thread.
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I appreciate the confidence my dude. I am trying to make the NT and crew proud lol. Turning over a new leaf ain't easy.

 

 

Honestly, stop worrying about making us proud and focus on yourself. You can make us proud and feel completely empty inside.

If you tryna smash ol girl, slide in with yourself in mind.

 

Post a pic for the beasts tho lol

 

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thats why i like a more direct female sometimes. screw them signals because some dudes like drew just dont be catching them signals and friend zone themselves by accident

 

I have missed plenty of signals because I struggle (even now) with picking up hints. But when I was in high school a chick at my church hit me direct and ish practically scared me lol

 

 

Just yesterday when I picked some tissue from Walmart I was walking out and one of the bank women was walkin' in. Lil slim darkskin chick, held her hands out like she was trying to get the tissue from me.

 

Her: "I'll take that"

Me: You gon bring me another one from the back

H: "Oh yea definetly"

M: Aight cool, Imma stand right here and wait for you to come back then

H: *giggling & laughing touching my hand*

 

And that was it. Walked off. Single me woulda got her name and number and hit her up later that afternoon to come over for some Hookah & BBC, but I'm married so I took that mental W back home to my wife and kids lol

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Honestly, stop worrying about making us proud and focus on yourself. You can make us proud and feel completely empty inside.
If you tryna smash ol girl, slide in with yourself in mind.

Post a pic for the beasts tho lol


I have missed plenty of signals because I struggle (even now) with picking up hints. But when I was in high school a chick at my church hit me direct and ish practically scared me lol


Just yesterday when I picked some tissue from Walmart I was walking out and one of the bank women was walkin' in. Lil slim darkskin chick, held her hands out like she was trying to get the tissue from me.

Her: "I'll take that"
Me: You gon bring me another one from the back
H: "Oh yea definetly"
M: Aight cool, Imma stand right here and wait for you to come back then
H: *giggling & laughing touching my hand*

And that was it. Walked off. Single me woulda got her name and number and hit her up later that afternoon to come over for some Hookah & BBC, but I'm married so I took that mental W back home to my wife and kids lol

yea we need pics because you aint wifin that jawn after she showed you another man's junk laugh.gif

But im in the same boat married with kids. I get hella hints today that i would of missed when i was younger that i would of pounced on. But now i get em i just play along like im clueless laugh.gif
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Edited by drewdioxin2345 - 6/19/17 at 12:20pm
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Curious as to why it's just "her" sexual endeavors and not "ours".

I'd hope you'd be discussing any P that you get with her....cuz from the outside looking in, it looks like you're her canvas for her to spill out her sexual experiences on.

 

This is also something to be concerned with. If she's "experienced" to a certain point she may not want somebody who don't know what they doing. Hit you with that "You can't handle me, don't waste my time"

 

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pic for the beasts

 

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Yea, Imma need you to pipe that down. I can tell she got the juice up top. Look like a cute lil BBW

 

 

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yea we need pics because you aint wifin that jawn after she showed you another man's junk laugh.gif

But im in the same boat married with kids. I get hella hints today that i would of missed when i was younger that i would of pounced on. But now i get em i just play along like im clueless laugh.gif

 

My wife catch more women lookin' at me than I do lol She stay tellin' me "That lady was just staring at you, you didn't see that" Sometimes I do sometimes I don't. I usually catch the ones staring when they with they guy.

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