Do you guys think I've overreacted? Vol. Girl issues

sounds like ya'll just don't have any chemistry. it happens.

Yep, just sounds like she's not the one for you for a long term relationship - and isn't that what dating is about? You found her attractive but after a while it didn't work out so you move on.
 
Agree with pretty much everything said in here. 

If the girl can't even hold a two-way conversation and she has to be heard all the time, it's time to go.

I'm the same with you, when I was single, I met a couple of women who couldn't hold a conversation and it was uncomfortable.
 
its more than just bad communication skills

i know girls like this...or people like this and they talk "at" you instead of "to" you

it usually indicates they are selfish and don't really value other people's opinion they just want to talk about themselves. 

people like this are really self absorbed 
 
She doesn't like you man.

She likes and needs your attention cause she is most likely mad insecure.

And the minute the conversation isn't facing towards her she can't wait to get it back on track.
 
Last edited:
Ok, so I was talking to this girl for a little hot second. Maybe about, 3 months or so. She seem to have potential and had the same desire down the line to be in a long term relationship. We would speak just about everyday(Through phone and text:pimp:). Somewhat in the beginning I've noticed that when we speak, she doesn't really ask questions about me and when I say something in the conversation, she doesn't really acknowledge anything I say. With that being said, I told her about that and she said that she will work on it. A lady that can carry a conversation is a big deal to me because i can carry a convo, also. SO, flash forward to a week ago, We were speaking over the phone and it got to the point that I wanted to yell because she was speaking and when i was saying something, it was like she was brushing everything I said off. The thing is, when she is speaking and such, I listen and give the best feedback as possible because i'm a good listener and want to actually get to know the person. So, in result, I just told her that I'll call her back(Didn't intend on on caller back) because I was getting frustrated. I haven't spoke to her since and looks to be that way going forward. My question is, do you guys think I've overreacted by basically cutting her off due the conversation issue? I just can't deal with one sided conversations, it's almost like they like they like hearing themselves speak. A god conversation should go both ways and if that isn't the case, I have to cut the person loose. That's a deal breaker. Am I wrong for my actions? Besides, her having a child kind of was a deal breaker, but I was slowly going to accept it. Now, I guess it wasn't meant to be.

you must be talking about stuff that doesn't interest her. so in other words YNS
 
She was talking to some1 else who she was very interested in and he would rarely converse with her, so she used you as a backup to boost her self esteem and pass the time.

Happens all the time fam. Dead her. Move on.
 
She was talking to some1 else who she was very interested in and he would rarely converse with her, so she used you as a backup to boost her self esteem and pass the time.

Happens all the time fam. Dead her. Move on.

This. OP did himself a favor.

/Thread
 
She doesn't like you man.

She likes and needs your attention cause she is most likely mad insecure.

And the minute the conversation isn't facing towards her she can't wait to get it back on track.

People don't change like that bro. They are who they are.

These girls play the same game as us dudes. No heart.

opie maybe you're too boring for her to pay attention or for her to care about whats going on in your life.

If you literally talked to her about it and she still doesn't care, that's pretty indicative of who she is or at least her interest in you.

Didnt read any of that. But if youre having issues..dead that girl. Cop another on black friday. Deals are gonna be legit.

/thread

Now for the pics...
 
OP, sounds like she doesn't care. People innately want to learn more about the person they're talking to if they're attracted to them.

But, if you're smashing, and she's with the program...continue smashing and leave all emotion at the doorstep for her. She's not going to change, charge her to the game, and keep it pushing. But definitely keep her on the team.
 
So did you guys actually meet up for food/drink and going out? Or have you only been talking over the phone for 3 months?

If it's the former, she's not interested and hoping you take the hint.

If it's the latter, she's just bored and wants notifications on her phone. You should have made a move or deaded it earlier.
 
you're mad because she doesn't communicate?

Is this NT's first lesbian girl advice thread?
laugh.gif
 
So did you guys actually meet up for food/drink and going out? Or have you only been talking over the phone for 3 months?

If it's the former, she's not interested and hoping you take the hint.

If it's the latter, she's just bored and wants notifications on her phone. You should have made a move or deaded it earlier.
Yeah, we went on one date. It was cool, just went to the movies.
 
Yeah I'm switching my original post seems like she friend zoned you and wasn hoping you got the hint
 
She was talking to some1 else who she was very interested in and he would rarely converse with her, so she used you as a backup to boost her self esteem and pass the time.

Happens all the time fam. Dead her. Move on.
happen to me once, dead her before she did, her plan A didn't workout, weeks later, she started to hit me up 24/7. Hit her with the heisman. 
 
Yeah, we went on one date. It was cool, just went to the movies.
based off one date huh? women always have their guard up, don't trip off it. Step your text game up so u have stuff to converse about in real time.
 
So did you guys actually meet up for food/drink and going out? Or have you only been talking over the phone for 3 months?

If it's the former, she's not interested and hoping you take the hint.

If it's the latter, she's just bored and wants notifications on her phone. You should have made a move or deaded it earlier.
Yeah, we went on one date. It was cool, just went to the movies.
1 date in 3 months? Yeah bro you were wasting her time and yours. If you didn't attempt to meet again after the first time, thats on you. If you did and she's been blowing you off, then you should have cut her off earlier. Better now than never I guess.
 
Back
Top Bottom