To my OGs, what one thing do you wish you had known about life when you were in your 20s?

In for notes since I'm a year older... I'll chime in for young bloodz, doe.

It's okay to be a simp for the woman that deserves it. Gotta vet these chicks, doe.

Don't have sex like you see in porn. Chicks ain't trying to get pounded every time they lay down. Slow the stroke down and learn how to grab a woman like a man.

Love your parents or who ever brought you up. They won't be around forever.
 
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Date a lot, the woman you think you gonna marry right now. You won't trust. I'm in my 20,s but I dated a lot and just now found the one. Don't talk to any female I met before 25.
 
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When money starts rolling in, SAVE

Its so easy to spend alot when you are getting money because you feel like you will get it right back.
the worst thing in the world to be broke later on in life and thinking to yourself I wish I would've saved more hen I was gettin it.
 
When money starts rolling in, SAVE

Its so easy to spend alot when you are getting money because you feel like you will get it right back.
the worst thing in the world to be broke later on in life and thinking to yourself I wish I would've saved more hen I was gettin it.

Man, I'm already there. :lol: didn't save anywhere near enough :smh:

It's alright, 2017 will be all about saving.
 
Save money, as much as you can. it will become another hobby/"addiction" after a while
Open up a cd account with your income tax instead of wasting it on unnecessary things
Network
Should go without saying but be mindful of others. You never know their story
Same people you stepped on to get that promotion/raise are the ones you see on your way down
 
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The Same Things I Have Written On My Walls (31 BTW) I'll Share:

-Why Are You Here? (Ask yourself this about any/every situation/relationship/business deal/invite). If you can't answer this....you shouldn't be there.

-Ask Others the Question Above Too...If a person can't answer why they are with you or why the want to take you to a specific spot. Don't go. Drop them.

-Everything You Do For Others; Do It For Yourself As Well...Nobody Else Will.

-Delegation Is Great...Sometimes Nothing Beats Doing It Yourself Though.

-Have Supreme Confidence In Your Abilities; Work Ethic; Drive/Determination/Dedication

-Interpersonal Skills Are Crucial/Communication/Persuasive Speaking

-People Liking You Will Take You Far; Work That Angle

-Jokes Are Great...Just Don't BE One

-Spend Less Time Like Those On #NT Chasing Material Items......It really is quite pathetic.

-You Can Do Whatever, Whomever You Want....Like For Real.

-Power Of Choice.

-Power Of Consequence.

-Power Of Accountability.

-Be Assertive. Let Things Go...But DO NOT FORGET THEM. EVER.

-Help Others

-Pay It Forward

-DO NOT BE SELFISH SELF-ABSORBED SELF-LOATHING

-UNIVERSAL LAW

-The More You Give; The More You Get

-Invest

-Be Kind; Don't Be a D***

-Humility Is Great; But Throw It To The Side When Going After Yours...Just Never Forget Where You Came From or What It Was Like To Work Certain Places
 
Only 28 but like I said this been a good year.

Don't sweat the small stuff.

Definitely finish school or whatever training you will need to get where you want in life as fast as you can.

Clothes and kicks are cool but more important is real estate. Chicks like a well groomed guy but they love a guy with money and a good head on his shoulders much more.

Avoid Chicks who seek gratification via social media. It can lead you down a path you don't wanna go.

Don't be afraid to say no.

Always go with your gut.

Save

Travel for yourself, not so u can tell people you been places.

Careless but give back more, we are all blessed more than we know.

Give your people flowers when they can smell them.
 
- Your 30s are when you're really at your prime
- Network
- Finish school
- Don't party your 20s away
- Don't let social media consume you
- Have friends that make you better
- See the world
- Learn a new skill
- stop buying sneakers every cotdamb week
- Spend more time with your Parents
- Like everyone else here says, don't blow your money
- Don't be a sensitive little b*tch
- One hand washes the other

That's all I can think of. I'm 33 btw
 
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