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post #151 of 277
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Originally Posted by handullz View Post

Whenever you go to fap, ask yourself this one question


Why?

Great quote from this habit tracking app I use to keep up with my smoking patterns, fapping, etc

Yeah you in it for the chicks... But the main goal should be about self control





And another one that hit my soul



Maybe I'm just an oddball but I've never had to deal with what's in the second pic or any of the other negative effects that come with watching porn. If anything it's the opposite.
post #152 of 277
Edit: Got shorty to give me the toppy+handy. Am I still in technically?
Edited by FlyNY - 1/10/17 at 12:02am
post #153 of 277
dont break bruh. 7 days is nothin
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― Jebediah Springfield
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post #154 of 277
Thought about it. Can't sleep and know exactly what will put me to bed like a baby... decided not to.
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post #155 of 277
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Edit: Got shorty to give me the toppy+handy. Am I still in technically?

Couldve swore they said as long as h don't do it yourself ur good.

I'm hoping this anyway as the last 2 nights been rough .still holding strong tho day 9
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post #156 of 277
Still in! instagram is a trap waiting to happen...
post #157 of 277

failed...will retry today

The cold never bothered me anyway

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The cold never bothered me anyway

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post #158 of 277

Failed. Back in tho.

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post #159 of 277
so i keep seeing most of you guys referencing porn as the major issue.

i "get money" quite regularly and dont use actual porn. i may use an IG pic or 2 or maybe just let imagination do the trick.

does that mean im in the clear?

is it better to "do the deed" without porn than with?

or is this about just chillin out altogether?
post #160 of 277
Porn is the major problem but cutting it all out should be the goal
post #161 of 277
it all starts with a picture

Then one day you find yourself watching a petite Blonde and a Stallion
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post #162 of 277
Not that big a deal unless youre adding horses to tha daily rotation.
That's what people say...
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post #163 of 277
I know it's hard to cut it out completely fellas. #pause, but if you feel the urge to rub one out and you did it yesterday just stop.... it's not that serious. Looking at new videos when you got an hour to spare ain't gonna work. Cutting it out and trying to put that energy elsewhere is the only solution. Stopping forever isnt an option when we have so much disposable pron at our disposal. But if you can say cut down from every day to 2x a week then 1x a week it'll be a good place to start.

Today is the 10th. I've only done it once for the year so that's a win... gonna try to keep the pron consumption down and it should be ok...

The body is a temple... Treat it as such

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post #164 of 277
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Originally Posted by IhaveAQuestion View Post

it all starts with a picture

Then one day you find yourself watching a petite Blonde and a Stallion

dead *** had BOTH the Black Women appreciation thread AND Voluptuous threads open.

then read this post...

*ctrl + w, ctrl + w*
post #165 of 277


Broke at 45 days. Feel good about this last streak though and goal #1 is to IMMEDIATELY get back on it and get a two week streak going. Also add an increased focus on diet exercise and meditation. That lull between streaks always kills me and if I can keep stringing back to back 40+ day streaks together that's way better than the regular. Couple notes tho:

- I initially got on the streak because I had an out of country trip planned and wanted to put in A1 work with a quick recovery time if I met a chick. That definitely helped keep me focused leading up to the trip, so maybe a goal in mind and a deadline can help others, it worked for me in the short term at least

- I was actually nervous because I felt like I was going through a flatline on said vacation but sure enough, met a cute chick I was feeling, got to talking, she came through, and everything went perfect. I think that flatline thing is somewhat mental and also you can "alleviate" it by just making moves and always actively trying to get at new chicks (for the single dudes)

- It always happens that when I get on a long streak I start feeling like enh, I can go ahead and snap this thing if I want because it's not a thing to do it again. I gotta figure out a way to keep motivation going even when I'm doing well.

- Still feel good about where I'm at tho regardless. I think I'm gonna string another long streak together starting today, just gotta tweak a couple things, we'll see tho

Anyways, good luck to everybody still in it. And just a note, I see alot of dudes getting down for breaking but honestly, going an extended period of time without the p-no and then breaking is still better than going ham everyday like myself and I'm sure alot of folks in here were doing at some point laugh.gif. Appreciate the progress and then get back to taking the right action.
post #166 of 277
was almost at a week and broke the streak on sunday...but back on this thing and on day 4 right now
post #167 of 277
I am looking like the Browns losing every damn week.
Edited by Meangene45 - 1/12/17 at 8:38am
post #168 of 277
11 days in going strong some nights are rougher than others, just keeping the ipad out of my room at night helps alot roll.gif

but then black women appreciation and voluptuous threads sure dont help either got in me there saying lawd have mercy roll.gif
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post #169 of 277
Day 4

The week after u fap feels so gross. I guess that's ur body recovering and trying to turn all ur nutrients into rich sperm for u to absorb. I felt anxiety and had a hard time looking a people eyes. Such a vast difference from a 50+ day streak smh. I made a list of how I feel a few days after fapping and a list of how I feel with a large streak. It helps to look at it when I am in times of doubt, d in my hand. Helps me choose the right decision. I'm getting to the point where I feel anything below 90 days ain't ish. After tasting 155+ days all I want is to go back to that blissful feeling. I fell from heaven bruh. Gotta get mah wings back.
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― Genghis Khan

“A noble spirit embiggens the smallest man.”
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― Genghis Khan

“A noble spirit embiggens the smallest man.”
― Jebediah Springfield
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post #170 of 277
just broke my 4 day steak... it sucks that i have to start over but it felt good at the same time lol... it was worth it cuz there was this new cam girl on tonight and she was putting on a show... she was the real mvp pimp.gif

i need to quit though foreal and reevaluate my life but this is like the toughest thing to quit... i will try this time to make the streak last laugh.gif
post #171 of 277
I'm like on 15 or 16, today was thee hardest day for me. Was home alone, getting that nap before work, d got hard found myself humping the damn bed smh. Went up went to chic fil a, ate and passed out. Felt good to beat temptation.
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post #172 of 277
Haven't fapped since sometime last month, but I'm just counting the days in the new year. Smashed on nye, so the urges haven't been as strong. Me and my chick split so now here comes the real test of strength.
I hardly ever looked at pr0n so that wasn't a big issue. It was the ig thots that were hard for me to resist mean.gif also od lusting over bad chicks while I'm out and about,all of that gets you too worked up. Here lately I've been avoiding all of that, no peeping at ig, no eye effing chicks in the club. Keeping the juices calm is my prescription b/c when they get boiled they need to see the air. Just moved to a new city and I want to leave one day knowing that I never fapped in here. I mastered my energy and harnessed it towards something rewarding or productive. Ejaculating is a drug and women know they're the dealers. That's why they're so damn Cocky. They can sniff a fiend a mile away and they get turned on by the cats who are clean and not an addict pimp.gif
post #173 of 277
Yeah, staying away from ig is helping alot. I also been skipping every snap I know is gonna entice me.
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post #174 of 277
im ready to start this back up
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post #175 of 277


Stop waiting until tomorrow.

Handle that **** today.
post #176 of 277

By far my longest NF run. 44 days!

 

Once last week and last night I had a little relapse looking at pron for a few minutes (those short preview clips on a few sites pulled me in). But frankly, I found them boring. I hope that's my mind and body disconnecting pron from stimulation. 

 

As far as changes go, I've been a monster in the gym. Working out three times a week and focused as hell during my routine. Getting ready to start boxing next week. 

 

The biggest challenge right now is boredom. I realize I used to watch pron just to kill time before I went to bed. Now that I don't, I get bored and have to fight the urge to watch some vids. Instead I find myself on NT WAY more than I used to lol. 

 

Godspeed, fellas!

post #177 of 277
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Stop waiting until tomorrow.

Handle that **** today.
basically, I ain't have nothing to do yeaterday. I dropped some bread in my baby mommas account and headEd off to buffalo wild wings dolo... got a seat in between this couple and two chicks. The two chicks started talking with me a bit and the couple left so this black nubian queen came and sat down dolo. So we had eye contact, the two girls left they said bye, and me and. Shorty started kicking it. We chopped it up for like 15 20 mins and really hit it off. She wanted to go get some hennY so we dipped out went to a bar and had like 3 rounds. Talked and watched the knicks game. We went for a really long walk, she broke down my weed in the fronto I rolled up and smoked we talked for mad long. She said she feel like she was on a tinder date that went really well. Lol. We took a dollar cab down , we exchanged numbers and plan on hooking up for real in the next couple days but that was a spur of the moment thing that turned into me bagging a bad little shorty who lives near me.

Moral of the story is live life like you have a purpose don't settle for less, don't be scared, shoot your shot fellas.

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post #178 of 277
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basically, I ain't have nothing to do yeaterday. I dropped some bread in my baby mommas account and headEd off to buffalo wild wings dolo... got a seat in between this couple and two chicks. The two chicks started talking with me a bit and the couple left so this black nubian queen came and sat down dolo. So we had eye contact, the two girls left they said bye, and me and. Shorty started kicking it. We chopped it up for like 15 20 mins and really hit it off. She wanted to go get some hennY so we dipped out went to a bar and had like 3 rounds. Talked and watched the knicks game. We went for a really long walk, she broke down my weed in the fronto I rolled up and smoked we talked for mad long. She said she feel like she was on a tinder date that went really well. Lol. We took a dollar cab down , we exchanged numbers and plan on hooking up for real in the next couple days but that was a spur of the moment thing that turned into me bagging a bad little shorty who lives near me.

Moral of the story is live life like you have a purpose don't settle for less, don't be scared, shoot your shot fellas.

:Nthat

post #179 of 277
Good to see people flourishing in here.
post #180 of 277
Out of reps but good stuff sharpshooter.
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