NT, How Much Child Support Do You Pay?

JulesLives said:
You keeping receipts bro?
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Nope 
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Doesn't matter here.

Straight formulas, no negotiations 
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Not only is every state different, every woman is different. Some women it's better to go put yourself in, u would come out cheaper. Some are willing to work something out outside of the courts.
 
Wayniac211 said:
Cheaper to keep her
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ninjahood said:
child support scares me to death, im considering having me kid in DR to circumvent it.
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Co-signed


WallyHopp said:
In a case like MchunuDon's, does the Mom have to show proof how she spent the money? That seems to be where the court system goes dumb. Mom gets three new pairs of shoes and new rims. Daughter still wearing a year old sweater that barely fits. Or god forbid, she buys some $100 pair of jordans that will fit for maybe 3 months. College fund, 401k Should be where 90% of a kids fund should be going.

If I'm paying support, I want it untouched unti 18 years of age with my own discretion in how its allocated.
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YO! SO FRIGGIN' TRUE! THE COURT SYSTEM NEEDS TO CHANGE THIS!




AZwildcats said:
Y'all scaring me out here
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Not having a family until i know my spouse for at least 5-7 years.


frshstunna said:
Cuz I care bout my fellow nter, WRAP IT UP ...learn from our mistakes
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I'm learning bro. I'm observing and evaluating right now as we type.
 
My baby mama never brought me to court for child support, if she has big expenses, she call me and we split the bills and i contribute what i can afford for the rest
 
Me and my bm just split. We got 3 kids, she say she won't put me on CS. I still be piping but whenever she gets a new man or I get a new shorty for real **** might change. So far so good on my end. I told u put me on child support I'll quit my job and leave the country.


She knows I'm not lying
 
My mom put my pops on child support and he was paying $2500 a month for me and my brother when we were younger. My pops was so bitter toward my mom for that it strained his relationship toward me and my brother. I know he never had any ill will toward us but he was done coming around because of that. I slightly resent my mother for doing that because my pops was and still is a great guy. He never had any problem providing for us and getting us something we needed or wanted. My mom effectively forced my dad out my life and stunted my maturity in a sense with not having a father around as much as I could have.

Women are vindictive creatures. So many of my homeboys are paying CS for chicks they swore up and down were the one. I even avoided a close call myself with a shorty I was kicking it with that ended up pregnant. We ended up getting an abortion because we knew at the point we were in with our lives a baby wouldn't get the care and attention it deserved. I was sick to my stomach for weeks after ol girl went through with it but soon after we got into a HEATED argument and the broad mentioned how I owe her my life because had she had the baby she would've not only put me on CS, she wouldn't have given the child my last name. Cut her off immediately after. Protect yourselves out here men and make sure the woman you bless with a child is a level-headed human being...
 
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NY state is extra foul cuz its a no fault state...u can find your wife giving dome to da mailman and da court gonna still side with her when it comes to divorce & child support.

I can't reliquish that kind of control of my life to some wenches ready to throw holy hell up onto me via da courts....its sad cuz i do want a kid one day but yo! i seen 50k-80k invoices on child support that shook me to da core.
 
I feel yall on the don't use the court stuff, but at the same time, you leave yourself with no protection. They'll literally put you in jail over back CS. Seent it with my own eyes. For who I asked, we just had lots of unprotected sex (I fell for the "I can't even get pregnant" stuff and thought it was a free for all, but still I aknowledge my part obviously takes 2 and give her the benefit of the doubt maybe she realy thought she couldn't because she hadn't up to that point and she has buku health problems). She got pregnant right around the time I would have probably broken up with her. We're cool now, I love her, but realize she is a massive settle unfortunately and I can never be as happy as I'd like to be with her. Everything is alright, but again it's a massive effort and sacrifice on my end to make it so. Relationally, financially, everything

@MchunuDon how much do yall each make, or that's kind of personal how much does she make more than you? Again I haven't done all the research on what the max is in this state but again, if they hitting you for $1100 with joint and her making more, with me making $60 more (not like Im making Wall Street money, she just doesn't really keep a job)

That's what I'm scared of Killa, especially being a daughter my presence is that much more important. And then if they give her to her mom, who is just going to move in with her mom, you don't want her being raised primarily by bitter, single, women.
 
Yo it sounds like no one wants to settle down and have a family anymore.

No shots fired at anyone, it just feels like hating your BM and paying child support is the new norm. Good luck with that NTfam. Make sure you get everything on writing and keep your receipts/ use chase quick pay.

And you young cats reading this thread, see the writing on the wall.
 
It all depends on the situation. If she's a bird she's going to put you on papers. If she really cares, has a good mindset, came from a good home, she might listen to you. Agree to pay something like daycare or whatever and go from there. If you have only one child and don't plan on having anymore children it isn't bad at all. You can easily offset child support by working your taxes to your advantage at the end of the day or find a side hustle if it effects your income dramatically.
 
DatZNasty said:
I feel yall on the don't use the court stuff, but at the same time, you leave yourself with no protection. They'll literally put you in jail over back CS. Seent it with my own eyes. For who I asked, we just had lots of unprotected sex (I fell for the "I can't even get pregnant" stuff and thought it was a free for all, but still I aknowledge my part obviously takes 2 and give her the benefit of the doubt maybe she realy thought she couldn't because she hadn't up to that point and she has buku health problems). She got pregnant right around the time I would have probably broken up with her. We're cool now, I love her, but realize she is a massive settle unfortunately and I can never be as happy as I'd like to be with her. Everything is alright, but again it's a massive effort and sacrifice on my end to make it so. Relationally, financially, everything

@MchunuDon how much do yall each make, or that's kind of personal how much does she make more than you? Again I haven't done all the research on what the max is in this state but again, if they hitting you for $1100 with joint and her making more, with me making $60 more (not like Im making Wall Street money, she just doesn't really keep a job)

That's what I'm scared of Killa, especially being a daughter my presence is that much more important. And then if they give her to her mom, who is just going to move in with her mom, you don't want her being raised primarily by bitter, single, women.
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You can keep a lawyer on stand by with a agreement drafted. All it takes is for him to submit it to the attorney general with a couple of signatures and drama avoided if things get sour.
 
ninjahood said:
NY state is extra foul cuz its a no fault state...u can find your wife giving dome to da mailman and da court gonna still side with her when it comes to divorce & child support.

I can't reliquish that kind of control of my life to some wenches ready to throw holy hell up onto me via da courts....its sad cuz i do want a kid one day but yo! i seen 50k-80k invoices on child support that shook me to da core.
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If you don't actively support your seed and then the amounts get that high. Play their game early and win.
 
Actually got this going on. Caught wife cheating. Well she cheated with multiple co workers. You guys may remember me from a while back when I posted my wife took lingerie for a "girls trip"...

February will mark a year since we have been split. For a while I paid daycare and also kept him for about 4 days a week, until we realized my family can keep him for free I keep him about four to five days out of the week so naturally I pay for a lot of what he may need. Thing is three separate times his mom has gotten pissed at me, for either not answering my phone or showing that I moved on.. showed up at my parents place got my son and stole all his clothes. Each time she had one of those episodes she threatened to keep him away from me and put me on CS. This most recent time she actually put him back in daycare which she pays which is stupid and petty because she only did it to keep him away from me and my family and I'm sure she's keeping those receipts just for court. daycare really isn't needed thou, I dropped him off at school and my dad picked him up it was easy and effective and free, but now the daycare picks him up and I have to get him from there which is way across town.

thing is I'm the most reliable person she has when it comes to him and she knows I'm a great father, so I always end up getting him back within a week or less when she does call herself trying to take him away. On top of that I don't even know if he is mine. That's a whole other story, I did not find out she cheated til years later and By that time I was already invested emotionally in the little guy. Scared to get a test and I'm not sure if I would still be the same towards him if he wasn't considering his mom has played so many petty games with my mind.

She has ****** me in so many different situations between my son, not paying her car note which is in my name, unpaid cable bills and apartment leases which were also in my name it's all bad over here.. don't get married guys ..... the only thing that may help me in court is that she gets paid a good amount more then me.... but she's also a cop.. female cop vs man I feel like I don't stand a chance [emoji]128546[/emoji][emoji]128546[/emoji]
 
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She kidnapped your child while he was in your care. Should've filed a police report and tried for full custody.
 
Wasn't really kid napping those were days that she was scheduled to get him. The last time I had an old phone there that I let my son use to watch YouTube.. she actually went thru that phone and saw all the females I was smashing and she got pissed. Stole the phone and took all his clothes, that's why he's in daycare now. I'm not understanding how shes mad I moved on when she forced me out the door. I still haven't gotten that phone back it was on a family line with sprint which was in her name. I decided not to pay my half of the bill anymore since she stole the phone and wiped my hands clean with that.
 
blackngold1z said:
Yo it sounds like no one wants to settle down and have a family anymore.

No shots fired at anyone, it just feels like hating your BM and paying child support is the new norm. Good luck with that NTfam. Make sure you get everything on writing and keep your receipts/ use chase quick pay.

And you young cats reading this thread, see the writing on the wall.
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I'm saying thoooo lol
 
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