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My neighbors are getting divorced after 34 years of marriage


So yea i guess u never know

This is a dumb outlook IMO, failures of someone else's relationship doesnt change whether you feel like someone is "the one" or not.
 
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Thats not my outlook.

I dont base anyones life on mine

So what's the point of posting that your neighbors are getting divorced after 34 years?

It's like when people post "BRad and angelina are getting divorced!!!" OMGGGGG!

So?
 
simple.

if i couldnt see you as a future wife, i wouldnt be in a commited relationship with you.

dating someone and waiting for some sign that she's the ONE just sounds like hustling backwards to me.
 
 
 
 
I don't intend to get married at all, so I hope y'all flourish with your women.
Any particular reason?

- I prefer being alone and dislike being attached to anything.
- Assuming children are in play, I'd be a terrible father. I'm a better uncle.
- My parents' 30+ year marriage inspires me, but I don't think I can replicate that.
- I'll never be happy with myself and I'm very selfish.
Sounds more like fear of uncertainty more than anything bruh. I felt the same way about being a father when it happened, I just did what was needed. Obviously I'm still a work in progress because I never had that type of role model but I'm still doing what I need to do.

Trust me, you'll meet that one girl and before u know it, you'll be all in w/ her. Could be her smile, personality, etc. U don't plan for it to happen, it just does.
 
out of all the women i've been with, my wife is the only one that i don't wish her mouth had a mute button on it, even after dating for years. it was a profound realization and i knew she was THE one.
 
out of all the women i've been with, my wife is the only one that i don't wish her mouth had a mute button on it, even after dating for years. it was a profound realization and i knew she was THE one.

Beautiful. This is what I'm looking for now.
 
simple.

if i couldnt see you as a future wife, i wouldnt be in a commited relationship with you.

dating someone and waiting for some sign that she's the ONE just sounds like hustling backwards to me.

EXACTLY how I feel. Like we can kick it, but if I don't see you as potentially being my wife, then there's no point in leading you on just to end up hurting you. Rather just keep it [emoji]128175[/emoji] from the jump.
Now, if I feel like there's potential and in the end it just doesn't work out, then that's a different story. But in that case, I'd rather have given it a chance than be left wondering what if...
 
It's definitely surprising seeing the responses on here, i'm actually happy that i'm not the only one
 
after she took me back the 3rd time for cheating...

I knew she was the one.

not srs....forever calzone
 
Soon as I put the tip in, I knew she was the one

But 4real congrats fdub fdub on finding a girl :pimp: ...I remember u was going thru it with the ladies for a min
 
Goes back to "when you know, you know". You don't have to act on it or say anything, but for the most part you can tell almost instantly.
 
Goes back to "when you know, you know". You don't have to act on it or say anything, but for the most part you can tell almost instantly.
Mark -- you ever felt that way about a shorty?

I remember you saying you were on the fence about your current girl.
 
I have, it caught me by surprise at a time where I deadass said I'd never get married because for the most part women are cool and we go through the motions, I had never felt the overwhelming need to have that one in my life. Then I met one and it was so organic, we felt in tune. Nothing really annoyed me with her and I wanted to be around her and make our life better. I don't know about soulmates stuff, but that's how it felt. She had her issues but I was immature and unprepared for an adult relationship as well so it didn't work out, but it taught me to be open to that feeling and be better for the next steps of my love life. I have to say current doesn't invoke that feeling but is a great woman so I try.
 
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