Niketalk, has anyone here ever been in love with 2 women???

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Is this even possible? How do you handle this situation. Like you're legit in love with both, feel like you can't live without either. It probably most likely will not end well just wanna know if any of y'all have experienced this.
 
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I've been INFATUATED with 2 women before.

but "love" or whatever humans call that....naaaaw. its all or nothing with that.

imho if you love somebody then everybody else is just in your peripheral.

but i don't know.......i guess its possible.
 
One thing for sure. Unless your pimp blood has transcended Tiger, one of not both will not last once 2 of the three parties finds out.
 
It's possible OP. I'm going through it.

Just trying to keep my head on straight and my pockets on great.

Daughter the one thing that has me saying hold up wait.

last thing i could deal with is another "i'm late"

still cooling from time to time though not trynna date.

like on a scale of "1 to friends" how do we rate?

me and #2 click so well it just feels like fate.

but i already know acting on it is the quickest path to that support case and hate.

Good luck mate. 
 
DLee23 said:
 
It's possible OP. I'm going through it.

Just trying to keep my head on straight and my pockets on great.

Daughter the one thing that has me saying hold up wait.

last thing i could deal with is another "i'm late"

still cooling from time to time though not trynna date.

like on a scale of "1 to friends" how do we rate?

me and #2 click so well it just feels like fate.

but i already know acting on it is the quickest path to that support case and hate.

Good luck mate. 
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​how can you love two woman?

I just can't see a person really loving one person and being open to loving someone else .... like how can you love a person and still open your heart for another person? seems moronic to me .. just saying. if I truly love someone I can't even look at the next woman with Imma love this woman type of intentions.
 
doublemesh96 said:
Is this even possible? How do you handle this situation. Like you're legit in love with both, feel like you can't live without either. It probably most likely will not end well just wanna know if any of y'all have experienced this.
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Tell them about each other and whichever one stays that's the keeper.
 
DLee23 said:
It's possible OP. I'm going through it.
Just trying to keep my head on straight and my pockets on great.
Daughter the one thing that has me saying hold up wait.
last thing i could deal with is another "i'm late"
still cooling from time to time though not trynna date.
like on a scale of "1 to friends" how do we rate?
me and #2 click so well it just feels like fate.
but i already know acting on it is the quickest path to that support case and hate.
Good luck mate. 
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hahaha... I see what you did their
 
Long time ago, had one chick super long distance after I moved back to the states. I was with for her for four years when I lived in Japan and we were working on her coming over to the U.S and getting married. In that meantime I ended up messing with a chick who was engaged but didn't want to get married to her dude. TBH I didnt want to mess with her, didn't want to be caught up in the middle of that drama and was still trying to figure out the immigration game.  Over the course of about 2 months this chick was falling for me hard, bringing me food, coming over after she got off work, she ended up finding out about my "fiance" and was pressing me to drop her (when she was engaged herself lol). Ended up in the craziest love triangle ever. Yeah, I couldn't tell you where either one of them are today
 
IronStark said:
Long time ago, had one chick super long distance after I moved back to the states. I was with for her for four years when I lived in Japan and we were working on her coming over to the U.S and getting married. In that meantime I ended up messing with a chick who was engaged but didn't want to get married to her dude. TBH I didnt want to mess with her, didn't want to be caught up in the middle of that drama and was still trying to figure out the immigration game.  Over the course of about 2 months this chick was falling for me hard, bringing me food, coming over after she got off work, she ended up finding out about my "fiance" and was pressing me to drop her (when she was engaged herself lol). Ended up in the craziest love triangle ever. Yeah, I couldn't tell you where either one of them are today
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Minus the engagement, I went through the exact same thing.

Was with girl in HK and we thought she would come to US. Didn't happen. Meanwhile I was just smashing a side piece and she fell in love with me. Same thing as yours she was bringing me food everyday, picking me up from class, picking me up from the bars when I was blackout drunk and dealing with my **** every night. She would just buy me whatever I wanted. Parents were loaded.

Then I went back to HK for a two week vacation with my main girl who really wasn't even my main girl any more, in regards to time spent. At this time I knew my side piece better than my main and was developing some feelings for her. Still, told the side piece I couldn't see her any more when I got back from the trip. Didn't last long :lol: We were right back at it within a week.

About 6 months later I hit a crossroads. The side told me she loved me, and when I told her that I didn't love her, she started throwing beer bottles at me. Had to calm her down :lol: She still stuck with me through all that BS I put her through and my feelings for her grew stronger after seeing her for a year every day I decided to just end things with HK girl and make her my main. Dated that girl for 2 years and it was fun but ended badly was a big waste of time, but def a learning experience.

Still have feelings for HK girl since we never really got a chance to finish where we left off just due to distance. And she was my first love. She reaches out to me every once in a while.

Moral of the story is you usually gotta just pick one and stick. If you really love someone I believe you put them above everything and everyone else.
 
Keko Jones said:
 
​how can you love two woman?

I just can't see a person really loving one person and being open to loving someone else .... like how can you love a person and still open your heart for another person? seems moronic to me .. just saying. if I truly love someone I can't even look at the next woman with Imma love this woman type of intentions.
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That's the thing. I mean its not like you open your heart for the next one.. It just happens that way. If you get a lot of exposure to someone that you click with and who's attractive. the spark just starts to burn. Key word there is you guys click meaning theres lots of jokes, laughter, you don't mind checking on that person if they seem down and vice versa. Its just good feelings without any lust at first.  This could be someone you knew before your girl was in the picture. It could be someone you interact with everyday at work. It could be someone who just earns your admiration just off her doing her and you doing you in a way thats like wow we think the same.

My advice.. if you have a good *** job, new car, house, and your stuff together and you think you wanna stay loyal..... then dont interact with other women in any positive manner... like literally run or power walk away from any contact. They will press you knowing you got some hangups because those are a small trade off for the upgrade in lifestyle.  You might just be talking about how you guys feel about a news story, or the weather, or something a friend did to get an opinion. but they have intentions when you're just minding your business. Pretty soon hanging out for some good conversation sounds appealing. After that getting some food sounds not too bad.. After that you might order a drink or two with the meal. After that your main chick makes you mad over some petty stuff.. You dont stop loving her but your in a dangerous place.  Because the next one hasn't hit you with anything negative yet. (YET. Always remember that piece fellas.) Next thing you know you and usher albums got a lot in common.
 
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