Stolen: Asking Your Girl For Money/Favors

Hell my girl even picks up the tab at restaurants sometimes. Such a winner.
 
That sounds like a dire situation (bills, food, etc.)...and unless it's something of that nature, why else would you be borrowing money?
Well I wouldn't call it a dire SITUATION if it is regularly happening. I know dudes that consistently ask their girls for money.

I remember one childhood friend, I hadn't seen in like 6 years, stopped by. We were playing 2K11, he never played anything after NBA Live 03. The game impressed him SO MUCH, he got on the phone, called HIS GIRL and said, "Aye, you think you can buy me an XBOX."

In my head I was like :smh:
 
That sounds like a dire situation (bills, food, etc.)...and unless it's something of that nature, why else would you be borrowing money?
Well I wouldn't call it a dire SITUATION if it is regularly happening. I know dudes that consistently ask their girls for money.

I remember one childhood friend, I hadn't seen in like 6 years, stopped by. We were playing 2K11, he never played anything after NBA Live 03. The game impressed him SO MUCH, he got on the phone, called HIS GIRL and said, "Aye, you think you can buy me an XBOX."

In my head I was like :smh:

If you're living paycheck to paycheck and have to borrow money for necessities, that's dire.
 
If she your wife how is it even borrowing?


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All the time .. even when we dated



In college hell yeah i was borrowing softball girls whips all the time to make walmart and food runs with the homies. No shame


Money .. rarely but if i did it was only a few bucks and itd get reimbursed one way or another :evil:
 
It all varies from situation to situation, 1 of my boys girl bought him a new benz, and his brother was like **** his girl won't even buy him a pack of cigarettes
 
Yeah I know a lot of dudes who got the money but would rather spend their girl money..

Never and still don't have a problem taking, borrowing or telling them to do something for me....why not? If she got bread and willing to part, no problem. It's your girl man, nothing off limits. And do the same, if u can. When I was younger spending stupidly, no problem asking to get held down for a few days. Even better when they offer.
 
DC, what industry are you in? You seem to like polarizing topics and playing devils advocate. Seems like you'd be a radio personality or something.
 
The only time i "borrow" money from my girl (Who's my wife now) is if we're at a place that doesn't accept card. I never have cash on me.

But borrowing money just because... nah.
 
I dont really like asking for favors period .

Not a favor asker.

But i mean eventually you might need a favor for whatever reason. Say i was working and my parents came in on a flight visiting.....id ask my girl to pick em up.....non issue...its not eem a thing.

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I think it depends on what stage in life you are in. I mean, I'm 30 and make 70k+ annually, don't think I should be borrowing money from ANYONE(other than JP Morgan). If I have to do that, then I have done something wrong somewhere with my finances. In the past when I was a broke college student yes I borrowed money. I have had women give me money before, but it was offered to me, I never asked. Even if my girl was super rich, I wouldn't ask, bc I am doing fine taking care of myself.

As far as favors...I ask for them all the time. Wouldn't that be a perk of being in a relationship with someone? Lol. The only people I ask for favors are my mom, my sister, and whoever I'm dating at the time. I wouldn't ask other because I don't want all my business out in the streets. Lol
 
"Ask a favor" is pretty vague .. theres levels to it. So DC you gotta be more specific ...


Personal favors, financial favors, risk favors, etc ...

But lets just assume the topic is for BIG favors not yo can pick me up from work while my car in the shop type
 
Nothing wrong with asking. Not too much though. If they say "no" then something wrong with you not them.
 
Favors yeah, we do each other favors. Pretty sure that's healthy for relationships. Money nah. I probably would if I really had to though.

If you got a girl that'll hold you down like that when you're struggling, keep her.
 
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