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lol no they're not terrorists.
i would hope terrorists get a lot longer than 3 years
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What would you decide to do? (serious topic)
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lol no they're not terrorists.
i would hope terrorists get a lot longer than 3 years
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You should trap
Srs **** the job hit the block
Srs **** the job hit the block
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This just sounds like a mature and serious break up. Things like this happen all the time. Fact of the matter is, marriage is not only for the other person but it encompasses their own family, lifestyles, habits, religion, etc. I saw move on and chalk this up as a life lesson. Yes it is sad but sometimes certain people are just not meant to be together. There will always be someone else.
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You scared to post this using your og screenname dog? they got you shook like that?
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Heartfelt advice being given and not one pic request.
What have you become, NT
What have you become, NT
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sounds like she isn't really the one.
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Who fed you this information? Like who has told you about how stringent the background/investigation is?
I think they are making it bigger than it actually is.
I think they are making it bigger than it actually is.
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If she's breaking up with you because of the wedding she isnt ride or die nor is she the one for you.
I hear that its rough right now OP but you got hella potential and I'm sure you will find someone who will stick with you though anything.
I hear that its rough right now OP but you got hella potential and I'm sure you will find someone who will stick with you though anything.
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Mature?Heartfelt advice being given and not one pic request.
What have you become, NT
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they did. they called me in for questioning twice with a court stenographer.
they assign an investigator to your case and after it was over he walked me out because i had told them what it's been doing to me personally.
i asked him exactly who he was and he we had a brief conversation within he told me "i'm an investigator assigned to you. i pretty much know you better than you know yourself at this point"
we've been through a lot together. i feel the same way about her reaction to the wedding part but i can't deny that she's been ride or die these last few years.
i think it's more frustration and her being real to the situation that maybe this is something that can never be.
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Nereyda Vuelve Por Dios
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Dude sound like he running for president. **** even presidents have shady family/acquitances and they still get elected. Ask yourself this, who would sacrifice themselves for you if they where in the same situation.
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Pics of the girl 
job sounds terrible tbh. marry the girl, screw the job and the wedding.
but then again... right person + wrong time = wrong person.
but if it was the right person... wouldn't it have been the right time?
somethin to think about homie... but i'd choose the girl. i'd never want a career that monitor my life like that.
but then again... right person + wrong time = wrong person.
but if it was the right person... wouldn't it have been the right time?
somethin to think about homie... but i'd choose the girl. i'd never want a career that monitor my life like that.
but then again... you gotta ask yourself... is OP the "one"?
lmao funny thing is, they already prob know this is him. switching usernames aint gonna do nothing lol
You scared to post this using your og screenname dog? they got you shook like that?
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you're probably right lol but i couldn't care less at this point.
almost would rather them be reading it anyway
btw thank you all for the responses and insight it helps bouncing this stuff off of other people
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Damn so you're girl called it "over' just cause she couldn't have the wedding she always dreamed about? Are you effin serious bro? You dodged a major bullet homie. This speaks volumes about her character and this is all I need to hear. Even if you don't end up getting the job, I am very glad that this situation exposed this woman for who she really is. You might not see it this way now but down the road you will be appreciative. Hold your head and keep it moving OP.
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thanks homie. i feel like this may have been something i needed to hear.
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Lol at "I pretty much know you better than you know yourself at this point". Line sounds straight out of a cheesy thriller. Something isn't adding up in this story.
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Second all of this. Marriage is an archaic tradition that is less and less relevant everyday. Chicks who arent open minded enough to realize that will take you to the cleaners when things arent picture perfect. She is in love with the relationship and ability to show you off more than she cares about you and your personality, quirks, and life goals.
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Stopped reading at foregoing an amazing career opportunity. Don't wanna come off harsh but you not thinking with your head on straight. Career > women. Solid career, good life women will flock. End of story.
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Right doesn't make any sense. If this isn't intel community related and her and her family aren't terrorist it really doesn't add up to me career wise.
I know plenty of people in the intel community and this sounds more extreme than that. What career and background investigation could be more extreme than CIA/NSA/DIA/FBI ?
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Dear NT, Satan has a billion dollar bag waiting for me but he said in order for me to grab it, I have to sacrifice a family member. My dad and brother work for Satan. They love it. My girl is cool, but her dad is a devout Christian. Satan is like, nah. He's been watching my every move. I told my girl Satan would have us living right if she disses her father...
OP, sounds like you want the bag more than you want the girl. Why are you wasting her time? Let her go be with the kind of dude she wants.
OP, sounds like you want the bag more than you want the girl. Why are you wasting her time? Let her go be with the kind of dude she wants.
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Something doesn't add up. I can't imagine a job where they say you can't attend a wedding. It is not like your family and her family will be going into business together. It's a wedding.
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. All good g. The fact that you went to the lengths of consulting a lawyer shows that you're thoughtful and considerate while this broad seems to be very selfish and insecure. Again, the wedding is only one flipping day out of the rest of your life, and the special get togethers can be arranged where you spend separate days with each of your families. It's an easy compromise. Other couples make some very serious sacrifices to make things work. Anyways, why should your family be the ones left out of your wedding day when this girl's father is the frigging ex con? She should be very willing to exclude her pops from situations that will cause conflict because he is the reason there is a conflict in the first place. He commited the damn crime but you gotta ask your pops to stay home on the day of your son's baptism? You understand what I'm saying homie? These are all red flags about the girl's character and i doubt you want someone like that instilling her values in your seeds. She appears to be a chick that would turn your life into hell as soon as she doesnt get what she wants and is unhappy. You seem to be a good dude with great earning potential so I'm sure you're gonna be straight. Stay up.
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