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sharpshooter718

sharpshooter718

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It's crazy to deal with one chick , but to have multiple women on the roster completely satisfied is hard as hell in 2017. With smartphones and social media, there's no reason to not keep in touch.

I've been single for about 6 months. Just starting to catch my stride and it's been easy to talking but to keep it consistent is my problem.
 
sharpshooter718 said:
It's crazy to deal with one chick , but to have multiple women on the roster completely satisfied is hard as hell in 2017. With smartphones and social media, there's no reason to not keep in touch.

I've been single for about 6 months. Just starting to catch my stride and it's been easy to talking but to keep it consistent is my problem.
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1 women is all you need bro don't bring on any unwanted drama
 
geno90221 said:
1 women is all you need bro don't bring on any unwanted drama
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aiight me and the mother of my kids broke up in december... I need at least a summer of fun... drama gonna be present whether it's one or 8...


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If I'm single and not tied down, I'm trying to meet and talk to as many quality women as I can. They usually weed themselves out over time.
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yeah I been chatting up a few girls but none really keep my attention. I'm still smashing my home girl from 12 years ago... these chicks these days are mad flaky and deceptive. I don't trust none of them. Not even my BM...
 
sharpshooter718 said:
aiight me and the mother of my kids broke up in december... I need at least a summer of fun... drama gonna be present whether it's one or 8...
yeah I been chatting up a few girls but none really keep my attention. I'm still smashing my home girl from 12 years ago... these chicks these days are mad flaky and deceptive. I don't trust none of them. Not even my BM...
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Im in the exact same boat how many years if you don't mind me asking?
 
Gotta make sure you meeting new broads on a consistent basis...fill the reserves up so when somebody aint acting right or drops out the rotation you aint eem sweating it
 
How much time do y'all spend a day texting or talking to broads, any position or role on your roster. What your total time commitment looking like?

I've been on some other stuff lately man. Any time not spent following my passions and getting better feels like a waste.

Literally gotta force myself to put in any effort in terms of communication, I'd rather be working.
 
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As much as I try, I just can't do it.

But I agree that you definitely need to be speaking to more than one woman these days. I try to limit myself to three.

I honestly don't even have the energy half the time to hold half-assed conversations where I have to pretend to be interested, though. Dating got me jaded, bros.
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How much time do y'all spend a day texting or talking to broads, any position or role on your roster. What your total time commitment looking like?

I've been on some other stuff lately man. Any time not spent following my passions and getting better feels like a waist.

Literally gotta force myself to put in any effort in terms of communication, I'd rather be working.
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Whenever I got some free time..
 
geno90221 said:
1 women is all you need bro don't bring on any unwanted drama
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Im 26 now and im not doing that anymore. I used to have starting 5s and some on the bench. But man. The drama. The headaches is just not worth it to me anymore

1 is more than enough
 
The key about the time spent on talking to em thing is to make the interactions short, to the point, and effective...that way you can spend a lil time talking to multiple but each convo shorty gon feel your presence...all the small talk and answering lil dumb questions is a no go for me, thats the biggest time drains when talking to these chicks
 
frshstunna said:
The key about the time spent on talking to em thing is to make the interactions short, to the point, and effective...that way you can spend a lil time talking to multiple but each convo shorty gon feel your presence...all the small talk and answering lil dumb questions is a no go for me, thats the biggest time drains when talking to these chicks
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Yea that's always been my MO. If we textin it's to coordinate plans to meet, I couldn't care less about the weather or whatever it is. 
 
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frshstunna said:
The key about the time spent on talking to em thing is to make the interactions short, to the point, and effective...that way you can spend a lil time talking to multiple but each convo shorty gon feel your presence...all the small talk and answering lil dumb questions is a no go for me, thats the biggest time drains when talking to these chicks
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100%. This is my first time dating as an adult. Been in two long *** relationships over the past 11 years. Took me a minute to learn, but all that small talk is an absolute waste of time.
 
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frshstunna said:
The key about the time spent on talking to em thing is to make the interactions short, to the point, and effective...that way you can spend a lil time talking to multiple but each convo shorty gon feel your presence...all the small talk and answering lil dumb questions is a no go for me, thats the biggest time drains when talking to these chicks
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100%. This is my first time dating as an adult. Been in two long *** relationships over the past 11 years. Took me a minute to learn, but all that small talk is an absolute waste of time.
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Something that you gotta learn the hard way...when I was a youngin I remember one chick specifically i talked to her for like 2 weeks straight after gettin the digits, but it was all small talk "wyd, lol" type of bs...by the 2nd week i realized why am i talking to shorty everyday when i aint eem seen her yet or not even close to a plan to meet up :lol: :smh:
 
frshstunna said:
The key about the time spent on talking to em thing is to make the interactions short, to the point, and effective...that way you can spend a lil time talking to multiple but each convo shorty gon feel your presence...all the small talk and answering lil dumb questions is a no go for me, thats the biggest time drains when talking to these chicks
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When you answer the questions truthfully and she completely **** on your answers is the main reason you got to talk to different womens..
 
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NorthOaklandFC said:
How much time do y'all spend a day texting or talking to broads, any position or role on your roster. What your total time commitment looking like?

I've been on some other stuff lately man. Any time not spent following my passions and getting better feels like a waste.

Literally gotta force myself to put in any effort in terms of communication, I'd rather be working.
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I feel like I gotta force myself too then it comes down to conversation. Outside of sex a lot of these chicks have nothing to talk about..
 
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HarlemToTheBronx said:
 
frshstunna said:
The key about the time spent on talking to em thing is to make the interactions short, to the point, and effective...that way you can spend a lil time talking to multiple but each convo shorty gon feel your presence...all the small talk and answering lil dumb questions is a no go for me, thats the biggest time drains when talking to these chicks
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100%. This is my first time dating as an adult. Been in two long *** relationships over the past 11 years. Took me a minute to learn, but all that small talk is an absolute waste of time.
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Something that you gotta learn the hard way...when I was a youngin I remember one chick specifically i talked to her for like 2 weeks straight after gettin the digits, but it was all small talk "wyd, lol" type of bs...by the 2nd week i realized why am i talking to shorty everyday when i aint eem seen her yet or not even close to a plan to meet up
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This is my issue with online dating. I'm not interested in holding a fake small talk conversation for two weeks until you've determined that I'm not a serial killer. I usually just try to set up a meet up after a couple of days. Haven't got the time to waste on chicks I'm not even sure I'm interested in.

Definitely learned it the hard way at 31, though.
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These **** be wanting pen pals. Real life > online. But if you can stomach it, having chicks online as back up is good. I have a goal of 2~3 legit girlfriends. Soon.
 
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I'm all for chatting but the conversations with girls these days is like pulling teeth. I'll rock out for a minute with a shorty then I won't text her for a day or two then she'll just stop texting period. Like these girls don't want to put in half of my half assed effort so what the **** is the point?


It's why I have a couple shorties I'm ******* on the regular and everyone else is just time killers.
 
sharpshooter718 said:
NorthOaklandFC said:
How much time do y'all spend a day texting or talking to broads, any position or role on your roster. What your total time commitment looking like?

I've been on some other stuff lately man. Any time not spent following my passions and getting better feels like a waste.

Literally gotta force myself to put in any effort in terms of communication, I'd rather be working.
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I feel like I gotta force myself too then it comes down to conversation. Outside of sex a lot of these chicks have nothing to talk about..
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Yea def an issue right here, especially when you not even looking to get to know em like that so u dont care about the convo just trying smash...I told my bro one time that I look at it like Coach Cal with recruiting, u gotta call/text the recruits from time to time to check in and make sure everything still solid :lol:
 
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